June 25, 2024 • 49 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Good morning, everybody. Nice to have you with us. Back room,
Good morning. Still got quite a crew in the back room.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
It's fun time.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, it's good times. People just come in to watch
the show, right, what.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
If you could watch this radio show.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Well, there are a bunch of people in the other
room doing it right now.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I know, but like like a live webcam.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
Yes, I'm down with it. No, No, I mean we're
not doing it. I'm just saying, how crazy is that.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I don't have that authority. I'm not a rule maker here.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Well I see this stuff posted up all the time.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Right, they're social clips.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
But I'm just you know, Ruby, Samantha, Michayla, Marianna Collette,
all in the back room. Good morning to all of y'all.
Speaker 6 (00:53):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Wow, what a team. If you're not growing, you're staying stagnant.
That's true.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
With the quote of the days coming up?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Nice all right.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
It's fascinating the baby name trends. This is something that
Sisney was talking about. How many names have changed, like
the these are the most popular names.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
These are the most popular names today.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, okay, so if you are pregnant or you're thinking
about having kids. Sisney's got a list of the baby
trend names, the trending baby names, the popular baby names,
like one.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Hundred years ago, Helen, Betty, Charles, George, those are the
most popular names. Fifty years ago it was Jason, David, Amy,
and Jennifer. Today it's Noah, Liam, Emma, and Olivia.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Okay, but the trends, they.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Just keep changing, and this may give us an idea
of the most popular names in the next ten years.
So Maverick is more popular for boys than Christopher.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Now now I feel like that is going to get overdone.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Okay, yeah, I think I know. I know a Maverick,
all right, I know Maverick. But my friend's baby is Maverick.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
If I was named Maverick, it's too much pressure.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, it's a lot of pressure.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And she named him Maverick around I think maybe like
three years ago, maybe before the top but they're a
huge top.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Gun obviously, Goosey Brinley.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Brindley is more popular for girls in Brittany Brinley Brinley.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Okay, I like that.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Messiah is more popular for boys and Patrick Okay, Promise
is more popular for girls than Kelly.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Promise is so cute. Have you met anyone named I
don't think so.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
I've never met a promise, Actually I don't. I've not
heard much about a promise more popular than Kelly.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Okay, so let's break it down now, just specific to California.
These are the fastest growing baby names in our state.
Girls Renleynariah, are Lette, Georgina, and amer Okay, boys chosen Dutton.
(02:49):
I'm not even saying these right, Casey, Kasa, and Ethan
and then these names were way more popular in California
than anywhere else. For girls it's Valeria, Camilla, and Catalina,
and for boys it's Enzo, Adriel and Andres.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
The I don't know anybody named those names neither.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
But the best person at naming kids is Sicity.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Thank you for that. I don't think I'm the best,
but thank you.
Speaker 7 (03:22):
Just have them now.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
So but the two people I'm looking at you are
right up there.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I enjoy it. I don't.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I wouldn't say I'm the best. I love trying to
be creative with it.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
As a Maxim SURVEYA, it was great.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I really was trying not to be in the top
one thousand with naming my kids. Ryan, you peaked in
popularity in late eighties and early nineties.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
It was like number level.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
I peaked way back. I'm past my peak now.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Kind of peaked in nineteen eighty four, number forty six.
I wasn't even born them.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Then, your peak is still to come.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
My name's never been in the top one thousands.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Now, that's right, Sisney, But that's a great name. It's
one that people remember.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
One and only.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Molly is on the line in Fullerton, and I believe
needs a little advice. Molly, is that the case?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
How are you? I?
Speaker 8 (04:15):
I'm good, but yeah, I do need advice.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Does this have to do an engagement ring?
Speaker 8 (04:21):
It does?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Well, you've called the experts here. Okay, what's up with
the engagement ring? What's the problem.
Speaker 8 (04:28):
Well, I got engaged a few weeks ago and we
are so stoked.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
But there's we have.
Speaker 8 (04:35):
I mean, I have a huge issue right now. He
doesn't you know, I haven't told anybody, but I have,
Like God, I love Taylor Swift so much. I'm a
huge Swiftie. Yeah and yeah, my fiance knows that. And
he thought he was really sweet. So he decided to
get my engagement ring engraved, and he goes and he
(04:56):
engraves the inside of the ring and he writes all
too Well on there, which is my favorite song from Taylor. Oh,
but like, yeah, it's a breakup song.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
So he doesn't so he doesn't know what the song's
meaning is.
Speaker 9 (05:13):
No, he doesn't like Oh, I feel so I feel
so conflicted now because it's like such a sweet gesture
for him to do, but it's such a heartbreaking, like
breakup song.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
But I think I hold on for saying Molly, I
think what you got to realize is that the gesture
is what you should appreciate.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
And you are a fan of Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
And maybe maybe he thinks it means like the marriage
is going to be all too well.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Oh, I like the thoughtfulness behind it, even though I
know what you're saying about the lyrics. Is it common
to have things in engraved in your engagement ring? Tony,
do you have anything engraved in yours?
Speaker 10 (05:52):
I do not.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Could you please show it to me?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Like you always don't have anything in mind either, but
you know no one's going to see it.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I think you let it go.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Yeah, Molly, I would let this go.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I feel like he's like the guy's trying to be
thoughtful here with engraving it.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I think it's a funny story. You know, you can
laugh about yeah later.
Speaker 8 (06:11):
I don't think it's a bad omen though. I mean,
I feel like you might be.
Speaker 10 (06:14):
Bad luck.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
Marriages and in divorce, so you God, I feel you
can blame a lyrics.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Ryan told me the same thing on my wedding day.
Don't worry about it, Okay, I'm going.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Wedding day. That was so dark my wedding day.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
I told you on your wedding day, my wedding day. Well,
why were you at work on your wedding day?
Speaker 11 (06:33):
It was the friday before my wedding day, your wedding
day rehearsal right, it was your dinner.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Dinner, Molly, congratulations.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
I think it's gonna be.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Okay, Okay, thank you, all right, good luck. I get
a bad omen though.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
I know it's it's not I don't. I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
I think the guy's actually being thoughtful here. And I
don't remember saying that on your dinner rehearsal day.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
It was the friday morning, so I've had the rehearsal
dinner you.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Were telling me, I actually said on her dress rehearsal night,
the day morning, whatever that half of marriage is and
a divorce, Yes.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I can vouch for that. Yep.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Oh you don't remember that, Mark?
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Yes, do you really remember?
Speaker 1 (07:24):
You had me on the air, You and Ellen had
me on the air to wish me a great wedding.
I guess apparently, and then I just just gonna.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Slip ready, Yeah, it doesn't slip right in. I'm a realist.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I'm just trying to be real kid. It might it
might be different now, you might be less. I don't
know more or less.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Well, whatever it is a divorce rate these days.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Oh Tony, I don't think that should be in your
Google search right now?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Heyday, it's for work ten years in January. Congratulations, thank
you very much.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
What is the divorce rate?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Tanya?
Speaker 5 (07:56):
First marriages still end in divorce at a rate of
approximately thirty five to thirty five.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I could have told you. I should have told you that.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Then I just don't mention it.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
See, this is the reason we come in every day
moments like that. The audio we don't have the audio,
just like standing by I have it soon. Strange right,
we were talking about how uh marriage rates and divorce
rates are have been over the last many years. Equal, right,
half work half, don't. I think when you get into
(08:27):
your second and third marriage is less likely to work
out too. But what's interesting is that Sisney said, you know,
you threw that fact out the day before my wedding.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
It's just so dark.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
It's not dark, it's realist.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
And then I started second guessing did I really with
Ellen when before you were here every day? Right?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
But that's Ryan.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
It's just his little jabs. I didn't take it job,
it didn't take it personal.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yeah, that kind of.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Do you You know how I feel about merits like I,
I have lots of questions.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
So we've been trying to find that audio and it's funny.
Doesn't exist. No, it does not exist, Mark, do we
How is that possible? It's not very strange, it's very strange.
Speaker 11 (09:13):
That was a big show for us. We had Julia
Roberts that day. We had Cameron Diaz that day. Oh,
come on, we had Cameron and Julia Roberts on the
same show. Yes, there was also an earthquake that morning.
We were taking calls from people who have felt the earthquake. Well,
did the earthquake shake out the archives?
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I don't know. I don't don't have a good explanation
for this shake out the archives.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Crazy is that there's like any of the arts back
up upon backups. With the way this show runs and
this station runs, we have really yes, we have this
thing called logger that, like, you know, essentially records the
entire station, so you can go back and get clips
if you wanted to to.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Use them or how to use that logger system.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Yes, we do, but that one only goes so far back,
so that was like, are not really a good one
to use?
Speaker 4 (10:00):
But Nick Veastudo is he's got a library of my he.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Really does end And not only that, you know, we
got back up between like our national side and all that,
and nobody.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
I'm telling you, he's so strong.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Nobody has this like they have the whole show it
Maybe that's what happened break, No, it did happen. Everyone
remembers no.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
So that's what I thought. I was like, maybe did
he call you just on his phone? Anyway, scrub the break.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I just think it's interesting to look at the stats, like, look,
my parents have been married fifty four years, fifty three years.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
They love each other. It's amazing.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Fifty for my parents as well.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
I come from that I've never been married. I have
I apparently have to work through why not? Like what
freaks me out about it? But that's my problem. But
I did start looking at the numbers and we you know,
we talk to people who are in great relationships all
the time, and Systney you're in one, and Tony you're
I am married.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Too, almost married for ten years in January.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
Thank you for a decade of marriage toms.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Are you hearing this? No, you're not. It is possible.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
So according to the CDC, almost fifty percent of all
marriages will end in divorce.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
There it is again, I'm just looking at the CDC stats.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
That includes forty one percent of first marriages, sixty percent
a second, and seventy three percent of third marriages.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
I feel like, if you're on your thigh, it's like,
why that's the point, what's the point? Why do it?
Speaker 4 (11:20):
But you might be saying, Ryan, where's the positive?
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Yeah? Is because so many people listening right now are
happily married. And I will tell you this, the marriage
and divorce rates have both been dropping over the last
three decades. Okay, the marriage and divorce rates. So lets
people getting married divorce the same.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
So those who wait to.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Marry until they're over twenty five years old are twenty
four percent less likely to get divorced.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I can see that.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
If your parents are happily married.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
We have that.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
I have that.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Yet, Yeah, you have that.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Everyone has that. Yeah, your risk of divorce goes down
by fifteen percent.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Okay, so you add that with the twenty four and
then you're good. January. How do you feel about the
month of January. I love the month.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I like January.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
That's when I got married. Oddly enough, January is considered
divorce month.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Oh my god, I didn't know that divorce month.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Well that makes sense, that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Yeah, because people get through the holidays.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Yeah, they just bridge it.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I think they get through the holidays, are just like,
let's just get through it, so not like, you know,
the cause mess here with the family, and then once
January breaks, they realize I just can't do this for
a whole nother year, and that's when they divorced.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
Well, I just wanted to cover all the bases there.
And I'm very excited that we are planning a wedding.
We are planning a wedding.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Hand this is all you have to look forward to Dania.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
I know the stats, But you know what, I have
faith in myself and I have faith in my partner.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
Oh yeah, maybe that's my problem. I don't have faith
in myself.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Well no, well, if there's one thing, I know, you
didn't rush into this.
Speaker 9 (12:58):
So I know.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Yeah, that's for sure.
Speaker 5 (13:01):
Somebody was telling me the other day. They were like,
you've been with Robbie longer than my marriage lasted.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
And I was like, thank you very much. I'm gonna
take that as a compliments. Those are the hold on.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Those are the people I don't need to hear from you,
like that's what freaks me out at night.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
But what I'm saying is I think I don't know
what your issues are, and I do think that you
would benefit from therapy just to dig into that.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I really do about you feel more comfortable with me.
I feel more comfortable. I was weirdy to.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Say that right has issues saying it. You're you're saying
it yourself.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
You just said it, Okay, the types you don't have tapes.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
There's no archives.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Yeah, there's no archives. You just said, I don't know
what my issues are.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
But what I'm saying is that I have faith in
myself and I have faith in my partner, and so
I don't need to listen to the stats because I.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Believe in our relationship. Yeah, and that's all that matters.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
Yeah, are you guys finished? Congratulations? I will work on myself.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
I get it.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
It's time I grow up and work on me.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
No, therapy is amazing, all right. Listen, guys. The reason
that come to work is this stuff. I love it
so much. You know I love Here is that audio?
Speaker 9 (14:07):
You know?
Speaker 2 (14:07):
I love you? And I say it with love?
Speaker 4 (14:09):
Okay, you don't have to say it.
Speaker 8 (14:10):
I know it.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
She's going to send me a text in this break.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
I guarantee you she's going to be like, do we
need to talk after the show?
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Just for quick minute? What was the last one you said?
Speaker 4 (14:19):
What was the last text you wanted to talk to
your Like?
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Can what was it? It's not urgent, but not you
call me? Yeah, not urgent, but can you call me
when you wake up? When you wake wake up?
Speaker 4 (14:28):
My gosh, no, what are you wearing to bed at night?
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Are you wearing this?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
If you're wearing this, you could be letting dangerous bacteria
in it's your morning hack. And I have done this
so many times. And I do this even the next
day sometimes mm hmm the socks you wore that day,
if you wear them to bed. Seventy percent of people
(14:59):
who air socks to bed don't bother putting on clean
ones guilty gross, and research shows about half of them
contain a bacteria commonly found in.
Speaker 4 (15:10):
Roach poo poo poo.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Okay, roach poo.
Speaker 4 (15:15):
Poo that causes infections in humans.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
First of all, I did not even know that roaches
poo poo.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yes, I've cleaned up many times. Everybody poopoos.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
I always carry a bag.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
I did not even think of that ever in my life.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Well, you need That's the reason we created the morning hack,
and this time every morning. So don't so listen if
you honestly, if you wear socks out, don't wear them
to bed. I've done it so many times.
Speaker 4 (15:39):
I've gone on trips socks. I've done it before when
it's cold.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Right the winter. Sometimes serial killers.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
By the way, I've also been traveling and in my
workout shoes which I just got hookahs.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Oh, I think it's I think it's hope. Yeah, it's
not hookah, it's hokahu.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Well, I run it's a hookah.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
It's funny because I call my sister got those and
I was like, I don't forget there's three oh's.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
He goes so fast.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
So anyway, and I ball up my socks and use
them the next day when I'm traveling, I do sometimes
with my underwear.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Ran, just stop talking. I want to remember. Do you
remember the Christmas that I bought you red underwear?
Speaker 12 (16:26):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (16:27):
It was so inappropriate.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
I actually don't even want to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
He left them in the studio. He didn't even take
them home.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Tanya was.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
Because all year you were talking about you only have
one pair and they're your favorite to wear on Fridays
because it's like the weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I was like, this is soul. Do you think it's
your role?
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Are you underwear? Girlfriend? At the time that it was
so thoughtful, I was like, this is the most thoughtful.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Gid speak to my girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
At the time about that. Yeah, imagine him coming home.
That may be one of the reasons she's not now. Yeah, right,
don't even time put that on me?
Speaker 4 (17:02):
Well, you put it on yourself. I never put them
on me.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
All right, Today's quote we don't need to rush if
something is bound to happen. It will happen in the
right time, with the right person and for the best reason.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
This FM headlines with siciny.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Well Lanes remain closed on the two ten this morning
because of a house on the freeway. A manufactured home
slid off a big rig last night around seven and
they are still working to remove it. The National Weather
Service issued a warning of ongoing heat hazards through Thursday
in La County, with highs up to one oh eight
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across the mountains and valleys. The Lakers formally introduced their
new head coach, JJ Reddick and Jamie Lee Curtis and
Lindsay Lawn began production on the sequel Freaky Friday. The
film is scheduled for a twenty twenty five relief.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
On air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Good morning, Let's get to Samantha. Okay, here on Kiss Samantha.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
Good morning. How are you?
Speaker 13 (18:15):
Good morning.
Speaker 12 (18:16):
I'm doing okay. How are you guys?
Speaker 4 (18:18):
We're doing fine.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Thanks.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
So it says here I understand your co workers trying
to start a wedding war with you.
Speaker 12 (18:25):
Yeah, okay. So I got engaged a few weeks ago
and obviously super excited, but I work at a small
doctor's office and one of the other receptionists also just
got engaged as well, and like we're obviously so happy
for each other and stuff, but now she's like trying
(18:45):
to start a competition. At least I feel that way.
So like, for example, at first, my coworker wanted a
low key wedding, and I'm planning a big wedding, and
now suddenly she wants a big wedding and we're planning
for next October, and suddenly she's planning for next October.
I wanted Burgundy for my bridesmaids, and guess what she's
(19:05):
doing Burgundy as one I've heard.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
But that's so, why are you telling her all this? Yeah,
stop sharing the news.
Speaker 12 (19:13):
At first, it was just so excited, you know, because
you know, you just share because you're like looking forward
to it.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Yeah, you thought she was a friend.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (19:22):
But the worst part is I brought up something that
I had found that was cute, for like the commemoration
table for my dad who had passed away, and she
turned around and was like, that was my idea and
you stole that from me?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Okay, wow, why?
Speaker 3 (19:36):
I mean it's like, you know, when you think you
know someone and like them, and then they turn like
this on you. Yep, what's going on?
Speaker 4 (19:42):
What is at the roots of this? Why is she
jealous of you?
Speaker 12 (19:46):
I honestly couldn't tell you. Maybe maybe because we got
engaged around the same time, she feels like maybe, I
don't know, stealing her spotlight or something.
Speaker 6 (19:55):
But I don't know.
Speaker 12 (19:57):
It's starting to be a little too much, and like
coworkers are still arting to pick up on it. And
because we're both receptionists, like are we going to be
out at the same time now, because we're going to
be on our honeymoons?
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Yeah, put your vacations in now, girl.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
Yeah, there's only one thing you can do in this
situation in my view, Oh no, what is it?
Speaker 2 (20:20):
Ignore her? No, definitely, don't share anymore wedding ignore her.
Speaker 6 (20:29):
Yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
Make up some stuff that you're doing but you're not,
so she does it, and make it like really, really something.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
You would never do a real life bride wars.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
Right, but own it and then maybe you she'll copy
the stuff that is ridiculous and then you have a
completely different company.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
Yeah, you know, I'm changing my colors to neon green.
Speaker 8 (20:55):
I'll give it a try and let you guys know
how it goes.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I just don't understand the petiness in this.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
It's crazy and congratulations, you know you and Tony both
getting married.
Speaker 5 (21:06):
I have three other friends getting Three other friends get
trying to get married in twenty twenty four, close friends
of mine.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
So they're also Burgundy too.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
No, I'm not dealing with this because I'm not in
the weeds yet of wedding planning. But but what if
they have choose the same weekend that you want to complication?
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Yeah, this would be a lot.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Imagine if me and Tanya are both engaged at the
same time, it'd be the exact same thing.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
It's really stressful.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
I have to take a sabbatical.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
And when you say Tony, thank you, Samantha and congrats
good luck, ignore her.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
Uh, Tony.
Speaker 4 (21:38):
When you say friends trying to get married, what are
they trying to?
Speaker 10 (21:41):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Well, no, like they're getting married, but not sure if
everybody wants to get married next year, So I'm trying
to get married next year or maybe the year after.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Because trying means like you have to try to find
the venue today. This they have to line.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
Up all right, Well, it'll all be play by play
here on the show because Mark would love it as
the eight oh eight break every day wedding planning.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
What's the latest?
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Yes, all right, Carlos is on the line here, so
Carlos for a second date update. Met her on Hinge.
Had two amazing dates, planned a really fun third with
the plan that she was going to spend the night
at my place, but she decided not to spend the
night and now she won't return my text. Carlos, good morning,
(22:27):
thanks for coming on.
Speaker 7 (22:29):
Hey, what's up?
Speaker 2 (22:31):
So you tell me?
Speaker 3 (22:32):
I want to get to the third date? You had
two good ones. You actually saw her on the third
day and you there was a plan for her to
spend the night, but she didn't.
Speaker 7 (22:42):
Yeah, no, she didn't. She did she pack a bag,
she did, she had an overnight bag.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
And when you made this plan, just tell how does
that go when you asked somebody to plan to spend
the night before they spend the night.
Speaker 7 (22:57):
You know, yeah, I mean, well, our second day was
like so good.
Speaker 14 (23:02):
We had like such a good time that like things
just got really physical and we just kind of stopped
ourselves were just like next time, you know, only second day, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
It's on okay, And then in the last hour before
she decided not to stay.
Speaker 4 (23:21):
What did y'all do? And how did she leave it?
When she left, I don't know, Like she.
Speaker 7 (23:29):
Came over, we ate and and then she asked me
to take her home, and uh, like I was, you know,
I guess abruptly. I guess I was thinking, yeah, well yeah,
kind of.
Speaker 14 (23:42):
I mean, I guess I was just thinking, Okay, she
changed her mind about spending the night, totally fine, but yeah,
now she's like totally ghosting.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Okay, well so sisany I mean, could it be that
Carlos had it it on his mind so much that
like maybe that kind of made her push back.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Maybe it came on a little so strong. I don't know,
says we.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Were so focused on her being there overnight that maybe
that turned her off.
Speaker 4 (24:14):
Let's find out.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Carlos.
Speaker 7 (24:15):
Can you hang on, Oh yeah, definitely, Okay, hold.
Speaker 4 (24:19):
Tight for one second, we'll come back. We're going to
try and give.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
Her a call.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
What's her name, It's Brooke, Brooke. Okay, hold on one second,
we'll get Brooke on the other line. Hang on for
a secon. Okay, Carlos and Brook. So, Carlos, are you there?
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yeah, I'm here, all right, here's the deal.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
We have Brooke on the phone. She's agreed to come on.
I'm going to jump on with her right now.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Be very quiet.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Let's see we can find out about why she left
after you guys planned to spend the night on a
third day.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
Okay, okay, Hello Brooke, Hey.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
Hi, thank you for a green to come on with us.
I have sisany Tanya here. You are being broadcast on
the air. Nice to meet you. Hey, broo, hey, so
quickly to jump into it, we're calling about a guy
named Carlos she met on Hinge.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
Okay, hey, and you guys went out a few times.
How how was it with Carlos?
Speaker 6 (25:23):
Yeah, oh my god, it's the second date update.
Speaker 12 (25:27):
It is.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
Yes, it is second date up date and so yes,
he's told us that you guys went out twice.
Speaker 4 (25:35):
I'm just going to tell you what he told me.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
So thanks for listening, and by the way, thank you
for welcome.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Yeah, that's very nice of you. We do this every
once in a while.
Speaker 3 (25:43):
It's not always a great idea personally, I don't love
it sometimes, but then other times it works out.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
I do because we can get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
So he told us that you were planning to spend
the night with him on the third date, and then
on that third day you packed the bag and everything,
but you bailed, you left, and he can't figure out
why can you tell us?
Speaker 6 (26:05):
Well, I think it's hilarious that he called you.
Speaker 15 (26:09):
Because hes yeah, it did not go well.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
Yeah, okay, well this is he's he's on the line, Carlos.
Speaker 12 (26:20):
Hey, what's hi, brook.
Speaker 4 (26:25):
Brooks.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
What happened?
Speaker 6 (26:27):
Okay, okay, I'll tell you exactly, you know what happened.
So we went to Vond's that night to get some
ice cream to take back to his place, and I
didn't like that. He was extremely rude to the cashier.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Oh what what did you do?
Speaker 4 (26:43):
What did you do? Carlos to the cashier, I don't know, Like,
what did he do?
Speaker 6 (26:51):
Brow?
Speaker 15 (26:52):
Is that.
Speaker 6 (26:54):
You were so rude. We went to the checkout aisle
and the woman was putting up the clothes sign and
she apologized profusely. It was like, sorry, this lane is closed,
and he was all sarcastic, like, oh, of course it is.
It was honestly embarrassing, like it wasn't even up to her.
Speaker 14 (27:10):
I was just frustrated because the only other lane open
had like five people in it, it would have taken
her like ten seconds to check us out.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
Well, this is the reason she didn't spend the night.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
This is the reason she didn't spend the night because
you're rude to a stranger, which, by the way, I mean,
I wasn't there, but I'm not a fan.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Of that either. It's not cool. I would have.
Speaker 4 (27:30):
Packed my bag.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
Exactly like I mean. And it's like, why should you
get special treatment over the five people in front of
you anyway, Carlos, all right, so okay.
Speaker 7 (27:44):
Maybe I was wrong.
Speaker 14 (27:46):
I'm sorry, but it's like, is that, like, seriously a
reason that just cut me off?
Speaker 9 (27:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (27:53):
And also I didn't like what you said earlier.
Speaker 7 (27:56):
What did I say earlier?
Speaker 6 (27:59):
I said I would play the next day, and you
were all like, that's the least you can do.
Speaker 12 (28:03):
Oh, okay, it was a joke.
Speaker 14 (28:06):
I was joking because I had paid for everything on
all of our dates.
Speaker 12 (28:11):
But I was kidding.
Speaker 6 (28:13):
You really weren't, like you're a rude person, and I
didn't see that at first, but now I know, and
I'm glad.
Speaker 8 (28:19):
I saw it.
Speaker 4 (28:20):
All right, Well, Brooke Carlos, thank you guys very much.
Speaker 3 (28:25):
Met on a dating app, so they didn't know each
other and it did not go well, and Carlos, maybe
this is a teaching moment. I have a great morning,
and thank you very much, Brooke, thank you, thank you,
thank you.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (28:39):
All right, bye bye. That's one of the ones where
I don't love these That's one of the ones where.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
I just find that.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
But aren't they already too intense with each other?
Speaker 12 (28:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (28:51):
No, it's gonna work.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
Right, there's there's edge. There's already edge.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
I mean, I get like the guy was rude, but
there's already edge in his response and the way she's
talking to him.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Hopefully Carlos learns from this, that's all we can hope for.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
I mean, when I looked at the notes for the
show and so that you had a report about quiet dumping,
so many things crossed my mind.
Speaker 2 (29:15):
You know, the same thing happened to me when I
first heard about this. It was like, why are you talking?
Speaker 3 (29:23):
What?
Speaker 12 (29:24):
You just do it?
Speaker 2 (29:24):
Really quietly?
Speaker 1 (29:25):
So confused, So that's not what it is, not what
you're thinking about.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
No, why dumping? And why are people doing it? So
it's obviously it's not. Ghosting is different than ghosting.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
I think it might be even worse than ghosting because
it's manipulative, it's it's gas lighting, it's it's it's a
cross between quite quitting and ghosting. Do you remember we
talked about quite quitting a few weeks ago, from probably
months ago at this point. Yeah, And it's when people
only put the minimum amount of energy into their job
(30:01):
when they're over it already because they're already looking for
something new. But they're just like, I'll just be do
the minimum anyways, and if they get fired, to get
fired or all eventually quit or I just don't care.
Speaker 4 (30:10):
So is this people trying to get people to break
up with them.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Yeah, it's people just doing the minimum into but now
into the relationship and so.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
That the other person sees that there's like nothing there
and they break up with them. They don't have to
do the breaking up exactly or forever. It could go
on forever, Noble. It all depends on what your style
of dumpiness.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
Maybe this is your style.
Speaker 2 (30:34):
I mean, I don't know, I think that. No, Ryan
seems very familiar with it. No, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 4 (30:39):
I'm just saying I feel like the term maybe is new.
Speaker 3 (30:43):
But I do think that people have lost interest for
decades in relationships and they just go quiet.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
It's a slow phasing out right, So it's quiet. Yeah,
it's quite quitting, but just in a relationship. But it's
it's a form of gaslighting because then you start making
the other person feel like they're doing something wrong when
in reality they're not doing something wrong. It's you with
the issue and you're the one that's not It doesn't
have the you know, wabeles to in the relationship.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
Tanya, have you ever just gone sort of silent or
less engaging in a relationship to get them to be
turned on less or turned off?
Speaker 1 (31:21):
I can't say that I have. I'm usually the dumpy.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
The dumpy. Yeah, you're the dumpy. Yeah, you say, can
we have a chat?
Speaker 2 (31:30):
Oh no, sorry, the dumped dumped?
Speaker 4 (31:33):
Yeah, that is the dumpy, then, isn't the dumper to
the dumpy?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
I think you're right.
Speaker 4 (31:38):
Yeah, I think I'm right, because which reminds me I
don't know that.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
But she's saying she's not the dumper, therefore she is
the one that's dumped.
Speaker 4 (31:46):
Yeah, you're saying you get dumped.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Yes, dum word. I know it's so sad, well, but.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
We keep saying it over and over again, say it.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
Thank you, Ryan, thank you, thank you so much.
Speaker 4 (32:02):
I mean, we know the value that she provides. They're lost.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
Yeah, you weren't the right What do you say you
weren't the right sock for them?
Speaker 12 (32:09):
Right?
Speaker 2 (32:09):
There wasn't the right sock for their phone.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
They're listening, some of them are listening right now, hearing
about the success that you were having with Robbie, thinking, oh,
she's the one that got away.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Right, She's the sock that got away. Believe I do
believe that, actually.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Yep, And I think I know one of the few
specifically that's saying that.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
Now, why you gotta go and put some nonsense in
her head like that? Well, look at her face, but
you see she's all let up now. She wants to
know who she's gonna go and like search old instagrams and.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Reason you think it is. She's engaged bliss right now.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
And you're okay, okay, we don't need to go down
a rabbit.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
Hey, this all stays here. It doesn't stay here, stay
here a microphone.
Speaker 4 (32:55):
Yeah, but they're not listening.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Yeah, yeah. Anyways, the point of this is, let this
be a PSA. And so if you're in a relationship,
like this, maybe it's time to evaluate it.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
And that's all.
Speaker 3 (33:07):
That's all I'm trying to say, Stephanie on the line
here in Los Angeles, this is interesting.
Speaker 9 (33:15):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
By the way, how are you warning?
Speaker 10 (33:18):
Just a little confused, but these situationships, situationships?
Speaker 4 (33:22):
What is up with the situations? So are you in
a situationship?
Speaker 15 (33:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (33:28):
And how do you know it's a situationship.
Speaker 10 (33:31):
It's because we to go on date and then we
do talk. But the confusing part is that so I
basically got flowers to my house for my birthday and
I am talking to three different guys. So I'm like,
who sent them? I don't want a message.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
Thank you to the wrong This is your fault, Stephanie,
your situation in shipping with three guys.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
She should her fault. This is her blessing.
Speaker 3 (33:54):
She should. This is your confusion created by you. Wait,
what do you want me to tell you? You got
three guys on the line there and one.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Of asking what to do? Who does she think?
Speaker 1 (34:08):
I say, you just waited out and you just continue.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Kind of talking to them and somebody something canna drop.
Speaker 3 (34:14):
A hend mystery flowers from potentially one of three guys.
But you don't know which one because you're in a
try situationship, right, because.
Speaker 10 (34:23):
I don't know it from like, they all seem to
be so nice and we all like, I go along
with them so good. It's like, who to I even think?
How do I bring it up?
Speaker 3 (34:33):
Well, they definitely don't know you're in a situationship with
other guys. They would have signed their name so you knew, right, Like,
if I knew you were seeing other guys, I would
to make sure I signed my name otherwise it could
be confused with those other guys.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
Wait, wait, wait, I have a really good idea.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
Well, I wouldn't say it until.
Speaker 2 (34:50):
We hear it.
Speaker 5 (34:51):
Okay, do the do any of the three men think
that you were exclusively dating?
Speaker 13 (34:56):
I think they all do, no, because I feel.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
She said no.
Speaker 5 (35:02):
No, Okay, here's what you do. You send all three
men thank you so much for the flowers. They're gorgeous.
Then you're thinking the right one one of whoever it
is with, for the flowers, which is great and you
should do.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
And then the other two were going to be like
those weren't for me? Who else are you dating?
Speaker 5 (35:19):
And then they're going to get in their hunter mentality
and they're going to pursue you even harder. And then
if they respond and they're like, oh, it wasn't me,
you can be like, oh sorry, there wasn't a name
on the on the card.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
So I just wasn't sure. Or they might be mad.
You're like, who else are you dating? That's be mad?
You have two others? This is great, but what if
she likes that makes them mad? Seventy Do you see
what we have to blame here?
Speaker 11 (35:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (35:47):
I don't know that that's the best ones here on
this situations.
Speaker 5 (35:52):
Eventually one of them is going to be like, hey,
did you get my flowers? It's so rude though, not
to thank someone for sending you flowers.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
Right, we don't know who you think? All right, Stephanie,
thank them all.
Speaker 3 (36:04):
I'm going to have to say, like Sisney said, you
have to wait this one out. Yeah, smoke it out,
smoke it out.
Speaker 2 (36:12):
Oh you think? Oh I know, I got it.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
It just took me a minute. So when they finally
do say hey did you get my flowers? And then
actually I did, But I was waiting to thank you in.
Speaker 4 (36:22):
Person until you see them before and we just.
Speaker 3 (36:26):
Don't see any of them, wait till they you're in
a situation less ship until you can get to the
box exactly.
Speaker 4 (36:34):
And Sydney, do you make zoo sounds when you have
eph epiphany? Q?
Speaker 3 (36:40):
Seventy Good luck. I think you've heard several ways to
handle this and hopefully you're having fun.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
Thank you, and guys, ladies, sign the card.
Speaker 4 (36:53):
Sign the card. Don't leave it up for ambiguity.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
Sometimes it's so cool to like send something without ensigning,
like it's n notes.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
From you unless you're seeing other people.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
Yeah, I'm telling you it's a good move to thank
him for the flowers.
Speaker 3 (37:09):
Today's National ice Cream Cake Day. I point that out
because my mother loves ice cream cake and his kids.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
That's what we had. We had the Baskin Robins ice
cream cake. For our birthday.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
We had the Baskin Robin's ice cream pie. That was
like our thing. Was it round as well?
Speaker 5 (37:25):
It's round, It's like in a pie tin, but so
not like the log. He right has oreo crust and
it has like a caramel on top.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
So because you're wondering, I'm not just a cake person.
I need cold with cake. I like the ice cream,
like the cold temperature with the cake. All right, let's
put our relationship guidance caps on for Anthony bro.
Speaker 2 (37:47):
How are you, Anthony, Hi, good morning, Ryan, I'm morning.
Speaker 3 (37:52):
You know I need some help, Okay, So what I
know is your girlfriend has a study partner at school
and school is out and she's still hanging with the
study partner.
Speaker 4 (38:03):
What concerns you, Anthony.
Speaker 15 (38:05):
Yeah, it's just a weird situation. Like I don't want
to be a toxic boyfriend or anything, but he's over
like every day, and it's just getting really weird at
this point. Like, I know they're good friends and I
shouldn't be worried, but you know, school's over. I never
hung out with friends after school was over this much.
(38:28):
I know it's convenient because he lives close by, but
you know, sometimes when I'm not there, Yeah, I just
get a little bit worried because they're just super good
friends and they're both in the same major, and they
both share a lot of things in common, Like you know,
they're both English majors, so they love a bunch of
stuff that they just talk about for hours on end,
(38:50):
and it feels like, you know, maybe she's developing an
emotional connection with him that I just don't have with her.
Speaker 3 (38:58):
Anthony, What I want to say, because this is all
being broadcast, is don't worry about it. You love her,
trust her. But what I'm thinking is I don't like it.
I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (39:12):
I really don't like And how long have you guys
been together.
Speaker 15 (39:16):
We've been together for about two years.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I don't like it.
Speaker 3 (39:22):
This is like, these are the ingredients for something bad
to happen in my mind now that I don't know
if that would be my own insecurity or I just
feel like it is a little like, sure, you should
trust your girlfriend, but it's a little recipe for disaster.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Why are they spending so much time together if they're
not studying for a test or in some sort of
study group.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
This, you know, like you're saying school is out.
Speaker 15 (39:47):
Yeah, school though, I mean I understand being friends and
you know they have every right to hang out with
each other, but also you know, he's over, Like every day,
they spend a lot of time together.
Speaker 2 (40:00):
Are you ever around the two of them?
Speaker 15 (40:03):
Oh? I mean yeah, I'm home usually I work hybrids,
so on some days I'm in the office, some days
I'm home, and so'll be here for you know, lunch
sometimes dinners.
Speaker 3 (40:16):
The mature me wants to say don't worry about it.
But the me me says, worry about it.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
I don't know that I would address it with her,
right immature me would say, let's set him up with
a girl.
Speaker 4 (40:30):
Oh right, you know, detour, Yeah, to the detour route.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Get that guy bowed up.
Speaker 5 (40:35):
No, it's talking about It's not about the guy. It's
about your girlfriend. And I think that why she's the
immature me. She's taking advantage of your your faith in
her and your loyalty to her, and I just feel
like there is there's a line, and there's a boundary
that should be there when you're in a relationship and
how much time you're spending with somebody of the opposite sex.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
She could just be oblivious that she's doing this to you.
Speaker 4 (40:59):
So what we should do, Anthony, we meaning you, we're
not can't be there.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
But what you should do is be honest with your
girlfriend about how you feel and see her reaction to that,
because that reaction is going to help you with peace
of mind, or it's going to help you realize this
is a problem.
Speaker 4 (41:16):
But it's gonna go one mony the other.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Yeah, So can you do that, Anthony, She's either gonna
explode or it's gonna be no big deal.
Speaker 3 (41:22):
You're gonna get some clarity here, and any clarity you
can't just can't fester her.
Speaker 2 (41:26):
Does that work?
Speaker 4 (41:27):
Yeah, Anthony, good luck, buddy, Thank you very much for calling.
Speaker 12 (41:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:33):
It may be where she puts him totally at ease
right when when he talks to her, or it may
be I mean, I hope he's not. I mean, it
may be where she says, I gotta tell you something,
and that sucks.
Speaker 2 (41:48):
But to be doing it right under his nose, yikes.
Speaker 4 (41:52):
The latest dating trend in LA is speed dating?
Speaker 2 (41:55):
What version? And it's not for me. I'll give it
a try. Anything manufactured like this, I'm out.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
Yeah, you know, it's a little it's a little too
much pressure for me too. When when one of my
friends does this for friendships, like so it's not dating,
but it's like speed dating for friends.
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Right, And even that gives me anxiety. He's like, you talk,
you got to talk to my next one, and I
was like, okay, are they doing it now?
Speaker 1 (42:20):
So there's a bunch of different types of speed dating
that you could do, and I can get into those
in a second. But the craziest one that I thought
of a sudden I was reading this, I was like, oh,
I don't know that I would even ever want to
try this.
Speaker 2 (42:33):
Tntra speeding dating what yes?
Speaker 1 (42:36):
So contra okay, dirties, Yeah, we all know tantra dirty.
Speaker 4 (42:42):
It's like it's you know, it's patient.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
It's more about like connection, right, And so the male
attendees would go and they would get down on one
knee and they gaze into the eyes of their the
women that they're just they just met. I've never met,
they've never met, right. And then this is the craziest part.
You hug to see if you.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
Have a connection fully creeped down fully what kind of
setting are they in? Are they in? All?
Speaker 1 (43:10):
This is a yoga studio, so it really way out
checks out right, So it's being hosted a yoga studient
Echo park.
Speaker 4 (43:16):
This is a field their vibrations where you're hugging them
and it works.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
It guess if you listen, Michael and I do our
twenty second hug whenever we have stressed out days and
all that, and it really centers us like when we
just need it, and it's the best thing ever.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
I cannot do a twenty second hug, Like what do
you do I rolling my eyes.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Your girlfriend came up to you and said, I've had
a really stressful day. I need a twenty second hug.
You wouldn't give her a twenty second hug?
Speaker 4 (43:40):
Oh guilt trip? Well blah, well she would not say that.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
And I don't think. I mean, I think we.
Speaker 4 (43:46):
Talk and hug, but not.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
Can't you do a twenty second hunt?
Speaker 4 (43:51):
It's contrived?
Speaker 1 (43:52):
It's so nice, Ryan, try it it really, you feel
your heart beats.
Speaker 2 (43:56):
It's almost like this tauntra thing. But at least you
know her. Let me time it. Yeah, well I started,
go ahead, I'll keep talking.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
So every month you can find local events for all
different types of age groups. So if you're into this
type of speed dating, maybe it's not TNDRA. You can
do one that's themed for gamers or LGBTQ or anime enthusiasts,
like it's just the list goes on with the themes
of speed dating.
Speaker 3 (44:22):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (44:23):
So that wasn't that bad.
Speaker 3 (44:24):
But that was the longest report ever and I hugged
the whole time twenty seconds.
Speaker 4 (44:30):
I don't know, it's just anything like that seems. This
all feels to me to me a little contrived.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
Well, that I'm saying that speedating event is probably not
for you, but there's different types of events that you
could do.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
There's a seventy five.
Speaker 1 (44:43):
Percent jump in speed dating in general right now, according
to events Bright And why is that?
Speaker 2 (44:48):
There must be a reason. I think people are over
the apps.
Speaker 3 (44:51):
Oh, there's an app burn for the moment, I think.
So all right, well there you have it. Let us
know if it's worked for you. I'm very cus if
you've done this contra speed date. And also, how long
do you hug people?
Speaker 2 (45:04):
Call me? I know, you know what's interesting.
Speaker 5 (45:06):
I used to hug people a lot, and like really
girthy hugs, and now I'm realizing, like I didn't realize
how intimate hugs were.
Speaker 2 (45:14):
Twenty second hug, bro, that's long. That's fine for your husband,
but yeah, text me or.
Speaker 3 (45:19):
Call me four one two seven? How long do you
hug normally? Text me that talk back on the IET
radio app?
Speaker 2 (45:25):
Christina?
Speaker 3 (45:25):
How can we help in your relationship? Your boyfriend's mother's
making you split the rent? Tell us more?
Speaker 13 (45:32):
Ah, yeah, So, so she's had this apartment for a
few years and when my boyfriend and I decided to
move in with her, we decided that she and I
would split the rent because he's a creative and he
gets paid inconsistently with like gigs and stuff. So I
originally agreed to that. And he also has a brother
(45:55):
with a disability. With them, that's been totally good and fine.
But the sister moved back in, so she's finishing up college.
Moved back in. The big problem with that is that
we were using that room as like an office and
we've had to like move everything out of there to
make room for her. And now it feels like I'm
(46:18):
kind of supporting half of the entire family. Yeah, he's
not paying rent, Like, he's not paying rent, which is fine,
but that's not really.
Speaker 10 (46:30):
What I feel like.
Speaker 7 (46:31):
I agreed to what you signed up for.
Speaker 13 (46:34):
Yeah, and the utilities too, I'm still paying half of
the utilities.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
Oh my god, Wait, six people live there, five of us,
five people live there, and you pay.
Speaker 4 (46:45):
Half the rent utilities.
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Yep, No, that's not okay.
Speaker 10 (46:50):
That is raw?
Speaker 4 (46:51):
And why how could they not see that that's not okay?
Speaker 3 (46:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (46:55):
I don't know. I don't.
Speaker 13 (46:56):
I think it's just like a slow creep situation that
sort of happened, and I don't really know, Like me
and his mom, like we don't have the warmest connection,
Like we're okay.
Speaker 3 (47:10):
But can't he help you communicate with his mom about
this issue? Which seems very fair.
Speaker 13 (47:15):
That's what I'm feeling, like, I feel like I really
want him to handle this, but I'm wondering if I'm
kind of like taking the cowards way out.
Speaker 2 (47:24):
And I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (47:26):
I don't think cowchback, Like you've been doing this for
all those people for a minute now. So if it
were me and I have a great relationship with his mom,
I would say to him, you know what his name is, bro,
this is just like making me feel bad. You know,
I think I'm being taken advantage of or it's not
(47:47):
fair or this is not what I expected and things change.
I get it, but please, let's let's address this. Let's
address this and then address it and have a little
meeting about it. But I think you're only going to
build resentment. It's not gonna get worse if you don't
address it, and you don't want it to get worse
to like impact your relationship with him, right.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
Yeah, the sister needs to be pain at least a
little bit at this.
Speaker 13 (48:09):
Point, right, And I get it, Like she's in college.
She's still getting her legs underneath her.
Speaker 3 (48:15):
But you could say, look, I got it. Things change, things,
of all. But it's kind of the place where we
should address this. We need to just talk about it
because I need a little bit more of a fair
program here and this is not what I expected. Fine, okay,
but here, let's talk. Let's talk it through and go
that route. I mean, he loves you, he's gonna support you,
He'll help you with the liaising with the mother there,
and let's get I mean, definitely, one thing is for sure.
(48:37):
It doesn't change if you don't say anything exactly.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
And then at that point, if it's still dicey and
not in a good place, then you have your answer.
Speaker 4 (48:48):
You don't want.
Speaker 3 (48:54):
I was gonna do it for us this morning before
we go. What do you do on your foot or
hand falls asleep? This happens to me every once in
a while, or having.
Speaker 2 (49:00):
To you want to Yes, I just hit it. Yeah,
you gotta just shake it off.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
You have to move it as fast as you can.
I'm trying to sleep, not on my back all the time,
on my side, but my arm falls asleep.
Speaker 2 (49:12):
You sleep on it.
Speaker 1 (49:12):
It's funny when it happens to my kiss because it's
all new stuff for them, and we're like, yeah, they're like,
what is this moment?
Speaker 14 (49:18):
So mad?
Speaker 3 (49:19):
Who's inside of me doing this? Sisney's got you till
eleven o'clock non stop here on Kiss.
Speaker 4 (49:24):
Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make
sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Good morning, everybody. Nice to have you with us. Back room,
Good morning. Still got quite a crew in the back room.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
It's fun time.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, it's good times. People just come in to watch
the show, right, what.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
If you could watch this radio show.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Well, there are a bunch of people in the other
room doing it right now.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I know, but like like a live webcam.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
Yes, I'm down with it. No, No, I mean we're
not doing it. I'm just saying, how crazy is that.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I don't have that authority. I'm not a rule maker here.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Well I see this stuff posted up all the time.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Right, they're social clips.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
But I'm just you know, Ruby, Samantha, Michayla, Marianna Collette,
all in the back room. Good morning to all of y'all.
Speaker 6 (00:53):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Wow, what a team. If you're not growing, you're staying stagnant.
That's true.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
With the quote of the days coming up?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Nice all right.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
It's fascinating the baby name trends. This is something that
Sisney was talking about. How many names have changed, like
the these are the most popular names.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
These are the most popular names today.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, okay, so if you are pregnant or you're thinking
about having kids. Sisney's got a list of the baby
trend names, the trending baby names, the popular baby names,
like one.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Hundred years ago, Helen, Betty, Charles, George, those are the
most popular names. Fifty years ago it was Jason, David, Amy,
and Jennifer. Today it's Noah, Liam, Emma, and Olivia.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Okay, but the trends, they.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Just keep changing, and this may give us an idea
of the most popular names in the next ten years.
So Maverick is more popular for boys than Christopher.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Now now I feel like that is going to get overdone.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Okay, yeah, I think I know. I know a Maverick,
all right, I know Maverick. But my friend's baby is Maverick.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
If I was named Maverick, it's too much pressure.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, it's a lot of pressure.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And she named him Maverick around I think maybe like
three years ago, maybe before the top but they're a
huge top.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Gun obviously, Goosey Brinley.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Brindley is more popular for girls in Brittany Brinley Brinley.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Okay, I like that.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Messiah is more popular for boys and Patrick Okay, Promise
is more popular for girls than Kelly.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Promise is so cute. Have you met anyone named I
don't think so.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
I've never met a promise, Actually I don't. I've not
heard much about a promise more popular than Kelly.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Okay, so let's break it down now, just specific to California.
These are the fastest growing baby names in our state.
Girls Renleynariah, are Lette, Georgina, and amer Okay, boys chosen Dutton.
(02:49):
I'm not even saying these right, Casey, Kasa, and Ethan
and then these names were way more popular in California
than anywhere else. For girls it's Valeria, Camilla, and Catalina,
and for boys it's Enzo, Adriel and Andres.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
The I don't know anybody named those names neither.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
But the best person at naming kids is Sicity.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Thank you for that. I don't think I'm the best,
but thank you.
Speaker 7 (03:22):
Just have them now.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
So but the two people I'm looking at you are
right up there.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I enjoy it. I don't.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I wouldn't say I'm the best. I love trying to
be creative with it.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
As a Maxim SURVEYA, it was great.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I really was trying not to be in the top
one thousand with naming my kids. Ryan, you peaked in
popularity in late eighties and early nineties.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
It was like number level.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
I peaked way back. I'm past my peak now.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Kind of peaked in nineteen eighty four, number forty six.
I wasn't even born them.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Then, your peak is still to come.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
My name's never been in the top one thousands.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Now, that's right, Sisney, But that's a great name. It's
one that people remember.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
One and only.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Molly is on the line in Fullerton, and I believe
needs a little advice. Molly, is that the case?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
How are you? I?
Speaker 8 (04:15):
I'm good, but yeah, I do need advice.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Does this have to do an engagement ring?
Speaker 8 (04:21):
It does?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Well, you've called the experts here. Okay, what's up with
the engagement ring? What's the problem.
Speaker 8 (04:28):
Well, I got engaged a few weeks ago and we
are so stoked.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
But there's we have.
Speaker 8 (04:35):
I mean, I have a huge issue right now. He
doesn't you know, I haven't told anybody, but I have,
Like God, I love Taylor Swift so much. I'm a
huge Swiftie. Yeah and yeah, my fiance knows that. And
he thought he was really sweet. So he decided to
get my engagement ring engraved, and he goes and he
(04:56):
engraves the inside of the ring and he writes all
too Well on there, which is my favorite song from Taylor. Oh,
but like, yeah, it's a breakup song.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
So he doesn't so he doesn't know what the song's
meaning is.
Speaker 9 (05:13):
No, he doesn't like Oh, I feel so I feel
so conflicted now because it's like such a sweet gesture
for him to do, but it's such a heartbreaking, like
breakup song.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
But I think I hold on for saying Molly, I
think what you got to realize is that the gesture
is what you should appreciate.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
And you are a fan of Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
And maybe maybe he thinks it means like the marriage
is going to be all too well.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Oh, I like the thoughtfulness behind it, even though I
know what you're saying about the lyrics. Is it common
to have things in engraved in your engagement ring? Tony,
do you have anything engraved in yours?
Speaker 10 (05:52):
I do not.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Could you please show it to me?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Like you always don't have anything in mind either, but
you know no one's going to see it.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I think you let it go.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Yeah, Molly, I would let this go.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I feel like he's like the guy's trying to be
thoughtful here with engraving it.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I think it's a funny story. You know, you can
laugh about yeah later.
Speaker 8 (06:11):
I don't think it's a bad omen though. I mean,
I feel like you might be.
Speaker 10 (06:14):
Bad luck.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
Marriages and in divorce, so you God, I feel you
can blame a lyrics.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Ryan told me the same thing on my wedding day.
Don't worry about it, Okay, I'm going.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Wedding day. That was so dark my wedding day.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
I told you on your wedding day, my wedding day. Well,
why were you at work on your wedding day?
Speaker 11 (06:33):
It was the friday before my wedding day, your wedding
day rehearsal right, it was your dinner.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Dinner, Molly, congratulations.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
I think it's gonna be.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Okay, Okay, thank you, all right, good luck. I get
a bad omen though.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
I know it's it's not I don't. I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
I think the guy's actually being thoughtful here. And I
don't remember saying that on your dinner rehearsal day.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
It was the friday morning, so I've had the rehearsal
dinner you.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Were telling me, I actually said on her dress rehearsal night,
the day morning, whatever that half of marriage is and
a divorce, Yes.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I can vouch for that. Yep.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Oh you don't remember that, Mark?
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Yes, do you really remember?
Speaker 1 (07:24):
You had me on the air, You and Ellen had
me on the air to wish me a great wedding.
I guess apparently, and then I just just gonna.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Slip ready, Yeah, it doesn't slip right in. I'm a realist.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I'm just trying to be real kid. It might it
might be different now, you might be less. I don't
know more or less.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Well, whatever it is a divorce rate these days.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Oh Tony, I don't think that should be in your
Google search right now?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Heyday, it's for work ten years in January. Congratulations, thank
you very much.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
What is the divorce rate?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Tanya?
Speaker 5 (07:56):
First marriages still end in divorce at a rate of
approximately thirty five to thirty five.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I could have told you. I should have told you that.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Then I just don't mention it.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
See, this is the reason we come in every day
moments like that. The audio we don't have the audio,
just like standing by I have it soon. Strange right,
we were talking about how uh marriage rates and divorce
rates are have been over the last many years. Equal, right,
half work half, don't. I think when you get into
(08:27):
your second and third marriage is less likely to work
out too. But what's interesting is that Sisney said, you know,
you threw that fact out the day before my wedding.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
It's just so dark.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
It's not dark, it's realist.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
And then I started second guessing did I really with
Ellen when before you were here every day? Right?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
But that's Ryan.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
It's just his little jabs. I didn't take it job,
it didn't take it personal.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yeah, that kind of.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Do you You know how I feel about merits like I,
I have lots of questions.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
So we've been trying to find that audio and it's funny.
Doesn't exist. No, it does not exist, Mark, do we
How is that possible? It's not very strange, it's very strange.
Speaker 11 (09:13):
That was a big show for us. We had Julia
Roberts that day. We had Cameron Diaz that day. Oh,
come on, we had Cameron and Julia Roberts on the
same show. Yes, there was also an earthquake that morning.
We were taking calls from people who have felt the earthquake. Well,
did the earthquake shake out the archives?
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I don't know. I don't don't have a good explanation
for this shake out the archives.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Crazy is that there's like any of the arts back
up upon backups. With the way this show runs and
this station runs, we have really yes, we have this
thing called logger that, like, you know, essentially records the
entire station, so you can go back and get clips
if you wanted to to.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Use them or how to use that logger system.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Yes, we do, but that one only goes so far back,
so that was like, are not really a good one
to use?
Speaker 4 (10:00):
But Nick Veastudo is he's got a library of my he.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Really does end And not only that, you know, we
got back up between like our national side and all that,
and nobody.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
I'm telling you, he's so strong.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Nobody has this like they have the whole show it
Maybe that's what happened break, No, it did happen. Everyone
remembers no.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
So that's what I thought. I was like, maybe did
he call you just on his phone? Anyway, scrub the break.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I just think it's interesting to look at the stats, like, look,
my parents have been married fifty four years, fifty three years.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
They love each other. It's amazing.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Fifty for my parents as well.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
I come from that I've never been married. I have
I apparently have to work through why not? Like what
freaks me out about it? But that's my problem. But
I did start looking at the numbers and we you know,
we talk to people who are in great relationships all
the time, and Systney you're in one, and Tony you're
I am married.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Too, almost married for ten years in January.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
Thank you for a decade of marriage toms.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Are you hearing this? No, you're not. It is possible.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
So according to the CDC, almost fifty percent of all
marriages will end in divorce.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
There it is again, I'm just looking at the CDC stats.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
That includes forty one percent of first marriages, sixty percent
a second, and seventy three percent of third marriages.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
I feel like, if you're on your thigh, it's like,
why that's the point, what's the point? Why do it?
Speaker 4 (11:20):
But you might be saying, Ryan, where's the positive?
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Yeah? Is because so many people listening right now are
happily married. And I will tell you this, the marriage
and divorce rates have both been dropping over the last
three decades. Okay, the marriage and divorce rates. So lets
people getting married divorce the same.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
So those who wait to.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Marry until they're over twenty five years old are twenty
four percent less likely to get divorced.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I can see that.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
If your parents are happily married.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
We have that.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
I have that.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Yet, Yeah, you have that.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Everyone has that. Yeah, your risk of divorce goes down
by fifteen percent.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Okay, so you add that with the twenty four and
then you're good. January. How do you feel about the
month of January. I love the month.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I like January.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
That's when I got married. Oddly enough, January is considered
divorce month.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Oh my god, I didn't know that divorce month.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Well that makes sense, that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Yeah, because people get through the holidays.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Yeah, they just bridge it.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I think they get through the holidays, are just like,
let's just get through it, so not like, you know,
the cause mess here with the family, and then once
January breaks, they realize I just can't do this for
a whole nother year, and that's when they divorced.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
Well, I just wanted to cover all the bases there.
And I'm very excited that we are planning a wedding.
We are planning a wedding.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Hand this is all you have to look forward to Dania.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
I know the stats, But you know what, I have
faith in myself and I have faith in my partner.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
Oh yeah, maybe that's my problem. I don't have faith
in myself.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Well no, well, if there's one thing, I know, you
didn't rush into this.
Speaker 9 (12:58):
So I know.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Yeah, that's for sure.
Speaker 5 (13:01):
Somebody was telling me the other day. They were like,
you've been with Robbie longer than my marriage lasted.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
And I was like, thank you very much. I'm gonna
take that as a compliments. Those are the hold on.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Those are the people I don't need to hear from you,
like that's what freaks me out at night.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
But what I'm saying is I think I don't know
what your issues are, and I do think that you
would benefit from therapy just to dig into that.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I really do about you feel more comfortable with me.
I feel more comfortable. I was weirdy to.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Say that right has issues saying it. You're you're saying
it yourself.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
You just said it, Okay, the types you don't have tapes.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
There's no archives.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Yeah, there's no archives. You just said, I don't know
what my issues are.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
But what I'm saying is that I have faith in
myself and I have faith in my partner, and so
I don't need to listen to the stats because I.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Believe in our relationship. Yeah, and that's all that matters.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
Yeah, are you guys finished? Congratulations? I will work on myself.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
I get it.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
It's time I grow up and work on me.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
No, therapy is amazing, all right. Listen, guys. The reason
that come to work is this stuff. I love it
so much. You know I love Here is that audio?
Speaker 9 (14:07):
You know?
Speaker 2 (14:07):
I love you? And I say it with love?
Speaker 4 (14:09):
Okay, you don't have to say it.
Speaker 8 (14:10):
I know it.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
She's going to send me a text in this break.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
I guarantee you she's going to be like, do we
need to talk after the show?
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Just for quick minute? What was the last one you said?
Speaker 4 (14:19):
What was the last text you wanted to talk to
your Like?
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Can what was it? It's not urgent, but not you
call me? Yeah, not urgent, but can you call me
when you wake up? When you wake wake up?
Speaker 4 (14:28):
My gosh, no, what are you wearing to bed at night?
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Are you wearing this?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
If you're wearing this, you could be letting dangerous bacteria
in it's your morning hack. And I have done this
so many times. And I do this even the next
day sometimes mm hmm the socks you wore that day,
if you wear them to bed. Seventy percent of people
(14:59):
who air socks to bed don't bother putting on clean
ones guilty gross, and research shows about half of them
contain a bacteria commonly found in.
Speaker 4 (15:10):
Roach poo poo poo.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Okay, roach poo.
Speaker 4 (15:15):
Poo that causes infections in humans.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
First of all, I did not even know that roaches
poo poo.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yes, I've cleaned up many times. Everybody poopoos.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
I always carry a bag.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
I did not even think of that ever in my life.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Well, you need That's the reason we created the morning hack,
and this time every morning. So don't so listen if
you honestly, if you wear socks out, don't wear them
to bed. I've done it so many times.
Speaker 4 (15:39):
I've gone on trips socks. I've done it before when
it's cold.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Right the winter. Sometimes serial killers.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
By the way, I've also been traveling and in my
workout shoes which I just got hookahs.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Oh, I think it's I think it's hope. Yeah, it's
not hookah, it's hokahu.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Well, I run it's a hookah.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
It's funny because I call my sister got those and
I was like, I don't forget there's three oh's.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
He goes so fast.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
So anyway, and I ball up my socks and use
them the next day when I'm traveling, I do sometimes
with my underwear.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Ran, just stop talking. I want to remember. Do you
remember the Christmas that I bought you red underwear?
Speaker 12 (16:26):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (16:27):
It was so inappropriate.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
I actually don't even want to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
He left them in the studio. He didn't even take
them home.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Tanya was.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
Because all year you were talking about you only have
one pair and they're your favorite to wear on Fridays
because it's like the weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I was like, this is soul. Do you think it's
your role?
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Are you underwear? Girlfriend? At the time that it was
so thoughtful, I was like, this is the most thoughtful.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Gid speak to my girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
At the time about that. Yeah, imagine him coming home.
That may be one of the reasons she's not now. Yeah, right,
don't even time put that on me?
Speaker 4 (17:02):
Well, you put it on yourself. I never put them
on me.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
All right, Today's quote we don't need to rush if
something is bound to happen. It will happen in the
right time, with the right person and for the best reason.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
This FM headlines with siciny.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Well Lanes remain closed on the two ten this morning
because of a house on the freeway. A manufactured home
slid off a big rig last night around seven and
they are still working to remove it. The National Weather
Service issued a warning of ongoing heat hazards through Thursday
in La County, with highs up to one oh eight
(17:46):
across the mountains and valleys. The Lakers formally introduced their
new head coach, JJ Reddick and Jamie Lee Curtis and
Lindsay Lawn began production on the sequel Freaky Friday. The
film is scheduled for a twenty twenty five relief.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
On air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Good morning, Let's get to Samantha. Okay, here on Kiss Samantha.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
Good morning. How are you?
Speaker 13 (18:15):
Good morning.
Speaker 12 (18:16):
I'm doing okay. How are you guys?
Speaker 4 (18:18):
We're doing fine.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Thanks.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
So it says here I understand your co workers trying
to start a wedding war with you.
Speaker 12 (18:25):
Yeah, okay. So I got engaged a few weeks ago
and obviously super excited, but I work at a small
doctor's office and one of the other receptionists also just
got engaged as well, and like we're obviously so happy
for each other and stuff, but now she's like trying
(18:45):
to start a competition. At least I feel that way.
So like, for example, at first, my coworker wanted a
low key wedding, and I'm planning a big wedding, and
now suddenly she wants a big wedding and we're planning
for next October, and suddenly she's planning for next October.
I wanted Burgundy for my bridesmaids, and guess what she's
(19:05):
doing Burgundy as one I've heard.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
But that's so, why are you telling her all this? Yeah,
stop sharing the news.
Speaker 12 (19:13):
At first, it was just so excited, you know, because
you know, you just share because you're like looking forward
to it.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Yeah, you thought she was a friend.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (19:22):
But the worst part is I brought up something that
I had found that was cute, for like the commemoration
table for my dad who had passed away, and she
turned around and was like, that was my idea and
you stole that from me?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Okay, wow, why?
Speaker 3 (19:36):
I mean it's like, you know, when you think you
know someone and like them, and then they turn like
this on you. Yep, what's going on?
Speaker 4 (19:42):
What is at the roots of this? Why is she
jealous of you?
Speaker 12 (19:46):
I honestly couldn't tell you. Maybe maybe because we got
engaged around the same time, she feels like maybe, I
don't know, stealing her spotlight or something.
Speaker 6 (19:55):
But I don't know.
Speaker 12 (19:57):
It's starting to be a little too much, and like
coworkers are still arting to pick up on it. And
because we're both receptionists, like are we going to be
out at the same time now, because we're going to
be on our honeymoons?
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Yeah, put your vacations in now, girl.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
Yeah, there's only one thing you can do in this
situation in my view, Oh no, what is it?
Speaker 2 (20:20):
Ignore her? No, definitely, don't share anymore wedding ignore her.
Speaker 6 (20:29):
Yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
Make up some stuff that you're doing but you're not,
so she does it, and make it like really, really something.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
You would never do a real life bride wars.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
Right, but own it and then maybe you she'll copy
the stuff that is ridiculous and then you have a
completely different company.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
Yeah, you know, I'm changing my colors to neon green.
Speaker 8 (20:55):
I'll give it a try and let you guys know
how it goes.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I just don't understand the petiness in this.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
It's crazy and congratulations, you know you and Tony both
getting married.
Speaker 5 (21:06):
I have three other friends getting Three other friends get
trying to get married in twenty twenty four, close friends
of mine.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
So they're also Burgundy too.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
No, I'm not dealing with this because I'm not in
the weeds yet of wedding planning. But but what if
they have choose the same weekend that you want to complication?
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Yeah, this would be a lot.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Imagine if me and Tanya are both engaged at the
same time, it'd be the exact same thing.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
It's really stressful.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
I have to take a sabbatical.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
And when you say Tony, thank you, Samantha and congrats
good luck, ignore her.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
Uh, Tony.
Speaker 4 (21:38):
When you say friends trying to get married, what are
they trying to?
Speaker 10 (21:41):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Well, no, like they're getting married, but not sure if
everybody wants to get married next year, So I'm trying
to get married next year or maybe the year after.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Because trying means like you have to try to find
the venue today. This they have to line.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
Up all right, Well, it'll all be play by play
here on the show because Mark would love it as
the eight oh eight break every day wedding planning.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
What's the latest?
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Yes, all right, Carlos is on the line here, so
Carlos for a second date update. Met her on Hinge.
Had two amazing dates, planned a really fun third with
the plan that she was going to spend the night
at my place, but she decided not to spend the
night and now she won't return my text. Carlos, good morning,
(22:27):
thanks for coming on.
Speaker 7 (22:29):
Hey, what's up?
Speaker 2 (22:31):
So you tell me?
Speaker 3 (22:32):
I want to get to the third date? You had
two good ones. You actually saw her on the third
day and you there was a plan for her to
spend the night, but she didn't.
Speaker 7 (22:42):
Yeah, no, she didn't. She did she pack a bag,
she did, she had an overnight bag.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
And when you made this plan, just tell how does
that go when you asked somebody to plan to spend
the night before they spend the night.
Speaker 7 (22:57):
You know, yeah, I mean, well, our second day was
like so good.
Speaker 14 (23:02):
We had like such a good time that like things
just got really physical and we just kind of stopped
ourselves were just like next time, you know, only second day, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
It's on okay, And then in the last hour before
she decided not to stay.
Speaker 4 (23:21):
What did y'all do? And how did she leave it?
When she left, I don't know, Like she.
Speaker 7 (23:29):
Came over, we ate and and then she asked me
to take her home, and uh, like I was, you know,
I guess abruptly. I guess I was thinking, yeah, well yeah,
kind of.
Speaker 14 (23:42):
I mean, I guess I was just thinking, Okay, she
changed her mind about spending the night, totally fine, but yeah,
now she's like totally ghosting.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Okay, well so sisany I mean, could it be that
Carlos had it it on his mind so much that
like maybe that kind of made her push back.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Maybe it came on a little so strong. I don't know,
says we.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Were so focused on her being there overnight that maybe
that turned her off.
Speaker 4 (24:14):
Let's find out.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Carlos.
Speaker 7 (24:15):
Can you hang on, Oh yeah, definitely, Okay, hold.
Speaker 4 (24:19):
Tight for one second, we'll come back. We're going to
try and give.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
Her a call.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
What's her name, It's Brooke, Brooke. Okay, hold on one second,
we'll get Brooke on the other line. Hang on for
a secon. Okay, Carlos and Brook. So, Carlos, are you there?
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yeah, I'm here, all right, here's the deal.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
We have Brooke on the phone. She's agreed to come on.
I'm going to jump on with her right now.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Be very quiet.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Let's see we can find out about why she left
after you guys planned to spend the night on a
third day.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
Okay, okay, Hello Brooke, Hey.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
Hi, thank you for a green to come on with us.
I have sisany Tanya here. You are being broadcast on
the air. Nice to meet you. Hey, broo, hey, so
quickly to jump into it, we're calling about a guy
named Carlos she met on Hinge.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
Okay, hey, and you guys went out a few times.
How how was it with Carlos?
Speaker 6 (25:23):
Yeah, oh my god, it's the second date update.
Speaker 12 (25:27):
It is.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
Yes, it is second date up date and so yes,
he's told us that you guys went out twice.
Speaker 4 (25:35):
I'm just going to tell you what he told me.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
So thanks for listening, and by the way, thank you
for welcome.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Yeah, that's very nice of you. We do this every
once in a while.
Speaker 3 (25:43):
It's not always a great idea personally, I don't love
it sometimes, but then other times it works out.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
I do because we can get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
So he told us that you were planning to spend
the night with him on the third date, and then
on that third day you packed the bag and everything,
but you bailed, you left, and he can't figure out
why can you tell us?
Speaker 6 (26:05):
Well, I think it's hilarious that he called you.
Speaker 15 (26:09):
Because hes yeah, it did not go well.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
Yeah, okay, well this is he's he's on the line, Carlos.
Speaker 12 (26:20):
Hey, what's hi, brook.
Speaker 4 (26:25):
Brooks.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
What happened?
Speaker 6 (26:27):
Okay, okay, I'll tell you exactly, you know what happened.
So we went to Vond's that night to get some
ice cream to take back to his place, and I
didn't like that. He was extremely rude to the cashier.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Oh what what did you do?
Speaker 4 (26:43):
What did you do? Carlos to the cashier, I don't know, Like,
what did he do?
Speaker 6 (26:51):
Brow?
Speaker 15 (26:52):
Is that.
Speaker 6 (26:54):
You were so rude. We went to the checkout aisle
and the woman was putting up the clothes sign and
she apologized profusely. It was like, sorry, this lane is closed,
and he was all sarcastic, like, oh, of course it is.
It was honestly embarrassing, like it wasn't even up to her.
Speaker 14 (27:10):
I was just frustrated because the only other lane open
had like five people in it, it would have taken
her like ten seconds to check us out.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
Well, this is the reason she didn't spend the night.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
This is the reason she didn't spend the night because
you're rude to a stranger, which, by the way, I mean,
I wasn't there, but I'm not a fan.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Of that either. It's not cool. I would have.
Speaker 4 (27:30):
Packed my bag.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
Exactly like I mean. And it's like, why should you
get special treatment over the five people in front of
you anyway, Carlos, all right, so okay.
Speaker 7 (27:44):
Maybe I was wrong.
Speaker 14 (27:46):
I'm sorry, but it's like, is that, like, seriously a
reason that just cut me off?
Speaker 9 (27:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (27:53):
And also I didn't like what you said earlier.
Speaker 7 (27:56):
What did I say earlier?
Speaker 6 (27:59):
I said I would play the next day, and you
were all like, that's the least you can do.
Speaker 12 (28:03):
Oh, okay, it was a joke.
Speaker 14 (28:06):
I was joking because I had paid for everything on
all of our dates.
Speaker 12 (28:11):
But I was kidding.
Speaker 6 (28:13):
You really weren't, like you're a rude person, and I
didn't see that at first, but now I know, and
I'm glad.
Speaker 8 (28:19):
I saw it.
Speaker 4 (28:20):
All right, Well, Brooke Carlos, thank you guys very much.
Speaker 3 (28:25):
Met on a dating app, so they didn't know each
other and it did not go well, and Carlos, maybe
this is a teaching moment. I have a great morning,
and thank you very much, Brooke, thank you, thank you,
thank you.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (28:39):
All right, bye bye. That's one of the ones where
I don't love these That's one of the ones where.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
I just find that.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
But aren't they already too intense with each other?
Speaker 12 (28:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (28:51):
No, it's gonna work.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
Right, there's there's edge. There's already edge.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
I mean, I get like the guy was rude, but
there's already edge in his response and the way she's
talking to him.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Hopefully Carlos learns from this, that's all we can hope for.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
I mean, when I looked at the notes for the
show and so that you had a report about quiet dumping,
so many things crossed my mind.
Speaker 2 (29:15):
You know, the same thing happened to me when I
first heard about this. It was like, why are you talking?
Speaker 3 (29:23):
What?
Speaker 12 (29:24):
You just do it?
Speaker 2 (29:24):
Really quietly?
Speaker 1 (29:25):
So confused, So that's not what it is, not what
you're thinking about.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
No, why dumping? And why are people doing it? So
it's obviously it's not. Ghosting is different than ghosting.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
I think it might be even worse than ghosting because
it's manipulative, it's it's gas lighting, it's it's it's a
cross between quite quitting and ghosting. Do you remember we
talked about quite quitting a few weeks ago, from probably
months ago at this point. Yeah, And it's when people
only put the minimum amount of energy into their job
(30:01):
when they're over it already because they're already looking for
something new. But they're just like, I'll just be do
the minimum anyways, and if they get fired, to get
fired or all eventually quit or I just don't care.
Speaker 4 (30:10):
So is this people trying to get people to break
up with them.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Yeah, it's people just doing the minimum into but now
into the relationship and so.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
That the other person sees that there's like nothing there
and they break up with them. They don't have to
do the breaking up exactly or forever. It could go
on forever, Noble. It all depends on what your style
of dumpiness.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
Maybe this is your style.
Speaker 2 (30:34):
I mean, I don't know, I think that. No, Ryan
seems very familiar with it. No, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 4 (30:39):
I'm just saying I feel like the term maybe is new.
Speaker 3 (30:43):
But I do think that people have lost interest for
decades in relationships and they just go quiet.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
It's a slow phasing out right, So it's quiet. Yeah,
it's quite quitting, but just in a relationship. But it's
it's a form of gaslighting because then you start making
the other person feel like they're doing something wrong when
in reality they're not doing something wrong. It's you with
the issue and you're the one that's not It doesn't
have the you know, wabeles to in the relationship.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
Tanya, have you ever just gone sort of silent or
less engaging in a relationship to get them to be
turned on less or turned off?
Speaker 1 (31:21):
I can't say that I have. I'm usually the dumpy.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
The dumpy. Yeah, you're the dumpy. Yeah, you say, can
we have a chat?
Speaker 2 (31:30):
Oh no, sorry, the dumped dumped?
Speaker 4 (31:33):
Yeah, that is the dumpy, then, isn't the dumper to
the dumpy?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
I think you're right.
Speaker 4 (31:38):
Yeah, I think I'm right, because which reminds me I
don't know that.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
But she's saying she's not the dumper, therefore she is
the one that's dumped.
Speaker 4 (31:46):
Yeah, you're saying you get dumped.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Yes, dum word. I know it's so sad, well, but.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
We keep saying it over and over again, say it.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
Thank you, Ryan, thank you, thank you so much.
Speaker 4 (32:02):
I mean, we know the value that she provides. They're lost.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
Yeah, you weren't the right What do you say you
weren't the right sock for them?
Speaker 12 (32:09):
Right?
Speaker 2 (32:09):
There wasn't the right sock for their phone.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
They're listening, some of them are listening right now, hearing
about the success that you were having with Robbie, thinking, oh,
she's the one that got away.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Right, She's the sock that got away. Believe I do
believe that, actually.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Yep, And I think I know one of the few
specifically that's saying that.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
Now, why you gotta go and put some nonsense in
her head like that? Well, look at her face, but
you see she's all let up now. She wants to
know who she's gonna go and like search old instagrams and.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Reason you think it is. She's engaged bliss right now.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
And you're okay, okay, we don't need to go down
a rabbit.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
Hey, this all stays here. It doesn't stay here, stay
here a microphone.
Speaker 4 (32:55):
Yeah, but they're not listening.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Yeah, yeah. Anyways, the point of this is, let this
be a PSA. And so if you're in a relationship,
like this, maybe it's time to evaluate it.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
And that's all.
Speaker 3 (33:07):
That's all I'm trying to say, Stephanie on the line
here in Los Angeles, this is interesting.
Speaker 9 (33:15):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
By the way, how are you warning?
Speaker 10 (33:18):
Just a little confused, but these situationships, situationships?
Speaker 4 (33:22):
What is up with the situations? So are you in
a situationship?
Speaker 15 (33:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (33:28):
And how do you know it's a situationship.
Speaker 10 (33:31):
It's because we to go on date and then we
do talk. But the confusing part is that so I
basically got flowers to my house for my birthday and
I am talking to three different guys. So I'm like,
who sent them? I don't want a message.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
Thank you to the wrong This is your fault, Stephanie,
your situation in shipping with three guys.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
She should her fault. This is her blessing.
Speaker 3 (33:54):
She should. This is your confusion created by you. Wait,
what do you want me to tell you? You got
three guys on the line there and one.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Of asking what to do? Who does she think?
Speaker 1 (34:08):
I say, you just waited out and you just continue.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Kind of talking to them and somebody something canna drop.
Speaker 3 (34:14):
A hend mystery flowers from potentially one of three guys.
But you don't know which one because you're in a
try situationship, right, because.
Speaker 10 (34:23):
I don't know it from like, they all seem to
be so nice and we all like, I go along
with them so good. It's like, who to I even think?
How do I bring it up?
Speaker 3 (34:33):
Well, they definitely don't know you're in a situationship with
other guys. They would have signed their name so you knew, right, Like,
if I knew you were seeing other guys, I would
to make sure I signed my name otherwise it could
be confused with those other guys.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
Wait, wait, wait, I have a really good idea.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
Well, I wouldn't say it until.
Speaker 2 (34:50):
We hear it.
Speaker 5 (34:51):
Okay, do the do any of the three men think
that you were exclusively dating?
Speaker 13 (34:56):
I think they all do, no, because I feel.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
She said no.
Speaker 5 (35:02):
No, Okay, here's what you do. You send all three
men thank you so much for the flowers. They're gorgeous.
Then you're thinking the right one one of whoever it
is with, for the flowers, which is great and you
should do.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
And then the other two were going to be like
those weren't for me? Who else are you dating?
Speaker 5 (35:19):
And then they're going to get in their hunter mentality
and they're going to pursue you even harder. And then
if they respond and they're like, oh, it wasn't me,
you can be like, oh sorry, there wasn't a name
on the on the card.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
So I just wasn't sure. Or they might be mad.
You're like, who else are you dating? That's be mad?
You have two others? This is great, but what if
she likes that makes them mad? Seventy Do you see
what we have to blame here?
Speaker 11 (35:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (35:47):
I don't know that that's the best ones here on
this situations.
Speaker 5 (35:52):
Eventually one of them is going to be like, hey,
did you get my flowers? It's so rude though, not
to thank someone for sending you flowers.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
Right, we don't know who you think? All right, Stephanie,
thank them all.
Speaker 3 (36:04):
I'm going to have to say, like Sisney said, you
have to wait this one out. Yeah, smoke it out,
smoke it out.
Speaker 2 (36:12):
Oh you think? Oh I know, I got it.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
It just took me a minute. So when they finally
do say hey did you get my flowers? And then
actually I did, But I was waiting to thank you in.
Speaker 4 (36:22):
Person until you see them before and we just.
Speaker 3 (36:26):
Don't see any of them, wait till they you're in
a situation less ship until you can get to the
box exactly.
Speaker 4 (36:34):
And Sydney, do you make zoo sounds when you have
eph epiphany? Q?
Speaker 3 (36:40):
Seventy Good luck. I think you've heard several ways to
handle this and hopefully you're having fun.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
Thank you, and guys, ladies, sign the card.
Speaker 4 (36:53):
Sign the card. Don't leave it up for ambiguity.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
Sometimes it's so cool to like send something without ensigning,
like it's n notes.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
From you unless you're seeing other people.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
Yeah, I'm telling you it's a good move to thank
him for the flowers.
Speaker 3 (37:09):
Today's National ice Cream Cake Day. I point that out
because my mother loves ice cream cake and his kids.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
That's what we had. We had the Baskin Robins ice
cream cake. For our birthday.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
We had the Baskin Robin's ice cream pie. That was
like our thing. Was it round as well?
Speaker 5 (37:25):
It's round, It's like in a pie tin, but so
not like the log. He right has oreo crust and
it has like a caramel on top.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
So because you're wondering, I'm not just a cake person.
I need cold with cake. I like the ice cream,
like the cold temperature with the cake. All right, let's
put our relationship guidance caps on for Anthony bro.
Speaker 2 (37:47):
How are you, Anthony, Hi, good morning, Ryan, I'm morning.
Speaker 3 (37:52):
You know I need some help, Okay, So what I
know is your girlfriend has a study partner at school
and school is out and she's still hanging with the
study partner.
Speaker 4 (38:03):
What concerns you, Anthony.
Speaker 15 (38:05):
Yeah, it's just a weird situation. Like I don't want
to be a toxic boyfriend or anything, but he's over
like every day, and it's just getting really weird at
this point. Like, I know they're good friends and I
shouldn't be worried, but you know, school's over. I never
hung out with friends after school was over this much.
(38:28):
I know it's convenient because he lives close by, but
you know, sometimes when I'm not there, Yeah, I just
get a little bit worried because they're just super good
friends and they're both in the same major, and they
both share a lot of things in common, Like you know,
they're both English majors, so they love a bunch of
stuff that they just talk about for hours on end,
(38:50):
and it feels like, you know, maybe she's developing an
emotional connection with him that I just don't have with her.
Speaker 3 (38:58):
Anthony, What I want to say, because this is all
being broadcast, is don't worry about it. You love her,
trust her. But what I'm thinking is I don't like it.
I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (39:12):
I really don't like And how long have you guys
been together.
Speaker 15 (39:16):
We've been together for about two years.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I don't like it.
Speaker 3 (39:22):
This is like, these are the ingredients for something bad
to happen in my mind now that I don't know
if that would be my own insecurity or I just
feel like it is a little like, sure, you should
trust your girlfriend, but it's a little recipe for disaster.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Why are they spending so much time together if they're
not studying for a test or in some sort of
study group.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
This, you know, like you're saying school is out.
Speaker 15 (39:47):
Yeah, school though, I mean I understand being friends and
you know they have every right to hang out with
each other, but also you know, he's over, Like every day,
they spend a lot of time together.
Speaker 2 (40:00):
Are you ever around the two of them?
Speaker 15 (40:03):
Oh? I mean yeah, I'm home usually I work hybrids,
so on some days I'm in the office, some days
I'm home, and so'll be here for you know, lunch
sometimes dinners.
Speaker 3 (40:16):
The mature me wants to say don't worry about it.
But the me me says, worry about it.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
I don't know that I would address it with her,
right immature me would say, let's set him up with
a girl.
Speaker 4 (40:30):
Oh right, you know, detour, Yeah, to the detour route.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Get that guy bowed up.
Speaker 5 (40:35):
No, it's talking about It's not about the guy. It's
about your girlfriend. And I think that why she's the
immature me. She's taking advantage of your your faith in
her and your loyalty to her, and I just feel
like there is there's a line, and there's a boundary
that should be there when you're in a relationship and
how much time you're spending with somebody of the opposite sex.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
She could just be oblivious that she's doing this to you.
Speaker 4 (40:59):
So what we should do, Anthony, we meaning you, we're
not can't be there.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
But what you should do is be honest with your
girlfriend about how you feel and see her reaction to that,
because that reaction is going to help you with peace
of mind, or it's going to help you realize this
is a problem.
Speaker 4 (41:16):
But it's gonna go one mony the other.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Yeah, So can you do that, Anthony, She's either gonna
explode or it's gonna be no big deal.
Speaker 3 (41:22):
You're gonna get some clarity here, and any clarity you
can't just can't fester her.
Speaker 2 (41:26):
Does that work?
Speaker 4 (41:27):
Yeah, Anthony, good luck, buddy, Thank you very much for calling.
Speaker 12 (41:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:33):
It may be where she puts him totally at ease
right when when he talks to her, or it may
be I mean, I hope he's not. I mean, it
may be where she says, I gotta tell you something,
and that sucks.
Speaker 2 (41:48):
But to be doing it right under his nose, yikes.
Speaker 4 (41:52):
The latest dating trend in LA is speed dating?
Speaker 2 (41:55):
What version? And it's not for me. I'll give it
a try. Anything manufactured like this, I'm out.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
Yeah, you know, it's a little it's a little too
much pressure for me too. When when one of my
friends does this for friendships, like so it's not dating,
but it's like speed dating for friends.
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Right, And even that gives me anxiety. He's like, you talk,
you got to talk to my next one, and I
was like, okay, are they doing it now?
Speaker 1 (42:20):
So there's a bunch of different types of speed dating
that you could do, and I can get into those
in a second. But the craziest one that I thought
of a sudden I was reading this, I was like, oh,
I don't know that I would even ever want to
try this.
Speaker 2 (42:33):
Tntra speeding dating what yes?
Speaker 1 (42:36):
So contra okay, dirties, Yeah, we all know tantra dirty.
Speaker 4 (42:42):
It's like it's you know, it's patient.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
It's more about like connection, right, And so the male
attendees would go and they would get down on one
knee and they gaze into the eyes of their the
women that they're just they just met. I've never met,
they've never met, right. And then this is the craziest part.
You hug to see if you.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
Have a connection fully creeped down fully what kind of
setting are they in? Are they in? All?
Speaker 1 (43:10):
This is a yoga studio, so it really way out
checks out right, So it's being hosted a yoga studient
Echo park.
Speaker 4 (43:16):
This is a field their vibrations where you're hugging them
and it works.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
It guess if you listen, Michael and I do our
twenty second hug whenever we have stressed out days and
all that, and it really centers us like when we
just need it, and it's the best thing ever.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
I cannot do a twenty second hug, Like what do
you do I rolling my eyes.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Your girlfriend came up to you and said, I've had
a really stressful day. I need a twenty second hug.
You wouldn't give her a twenty second hug?
Speaker 4 (43:40):
Oh guilt trip? Well blah, well she would not say that.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
And I don't think. I mean, I think we.
Speaker 4 (43:46):
Talk and hug, but not.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
Can't you do a twenty second hunt?
Speaker 4 (43:51):
It's contrived?
Speaker 1 (43:52):
It's so nice, Ryan, try it it really, you feel
your heart beats.
Speaker 2 (43:56):
It's almost like this tauntra thing. But at least you
know her. Let me time it. Yeah, well I started,
go ahead, I'll keep talking.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
So every month you can find local events for all
different types of age groups. So if you're into this
type of speed dating, maybe it's not TNDRA. You can
do one that's themed for gamers or LGBTQ or anime enthusiasts,
like it's just the list goes on with the themes
of speed dating.
Speaker 3 (44:22):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (44:23):
So that wasn't that bad.
Speaker 3 (44:24):
But that was the longest report ever and I hugged
the whole time twenty seconds.
Speaker 4 (44:30):
I don't know, it's just anything like that seems. This
all feels to me to me a little contrived.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
Well, that I'm saying that speedating event is probably not
for you, but there's different types of events that you
could do.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
There's a seventy five.
Speaker 1 (44:43):
Percent jump in speed dating in general right now, according
to events Bright And why is that?
Speaker 2 (44:48):
There must be a reason. I think people are over
the apps.
Speaker 3 (44:51):
Oh, there's an app burn for the moment, I think.
So all right, well there you have it. Let us
know if it's worked for you. I'm very cus if
you've done this contra speed date. And also, how long
do you hug people?
Speaker 2 (45:04):
Call me? I know, you know what's interesting.
Speaker 5 (45:06):
I used to hug people a lot, and like really
girthy hugs, and now I'm realizing, like I didn't realize
how intimate hugs were.
Speaker 2 (45:14):
Twenty second hug, bro, that's long. That's fine for your husband,
but yeah, text me or.
Speaker 3 (45:19):
Call me four one two seven? How long do you
hug normally? Text me that talk back on the IET
radio app?
Speaker 2 (45:25):
Christina?
Speaker 3 (45:25):
How can we help in your relationship? Your boyfriend's mother's
making you split the rent? Tell us more?
Speaker 13 (45:32):
Ah, yeah, So, so she's had this apartment for a
few years and when my boyfriend and I decided to
move in with her, we decided that she and I
would split the rent because he's a creative and he
gets paid inconsistently with like gigs and stuff. So I
originally agreed to that. And he also has a brother
(45:55):
with a disability. With them, that's been totally good and fine.
But the sister moved back in, so she's finishing up college.
Moved back in. The big problem with that is that
we were using that room as like an office and
we've had to like move everything out of there to
make room for her. And now it feels like I'm
(46:18):
kind of supporting half of the entire family. Yeah, he's
not paying rent, Like, he's not paying rent, which is fine,
but that's not really.
Speaker 10 (46:30):
What I feel like.
Speaker 7 (46:31):
I agreed to what you signed up for.
Speaker 13 (46:34):
Yeah, and the utilities too, I'm still paying half of
the utilities.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
Oh my god, Wait, six people live there, five of us,
five people live there, and you pay.
Speaker 4 (46:45):
Half the rent utilities.
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Yep, No, that's not okay.
Speaker 10 (46:50):
That is raw?
Speaker 4 (46:51):
And why how could they not see that that's not okay?
Speaker 3 (46:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (46:55):
I don't know. I don't.
Speaker 13 (46:56):
I think it's just like a slow creep situation that
sort of happened, and I don't really know, Like me
and his mom, like we don't have the warmest connection,
Like we're okay.
Speaker 3 (47:10):
But can't he help you communicate with his mom about
this issue? Which seems very fair.
Speaker 13 (47:15):
That's what I'm feeling, like, I feel like I really
want him to handle this, but I'm wondering if I'm
kind of like taking the cowards way out.
Speaker 2 (47:24):
And I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (47:26):
I don't think cowchback, Like you've been doing this for
all those people for a minute now. So if it
were me and I have a great relationship with his mom,
I would say to him, you know what his name is, bro,
this is just like making me feel bad. You know,
I think I'm being taken advantage of or it's not
(47:47):
fair or this is not what I expected and things change.
I get it, but please, let's let's address this. Let's
address this and then address it and have a little
meeting about it. But I think you're only going to
build resentment. It's not gonna get worse if you don't
address it, and you don't want it to get worse
to like impact your relationship with him, right.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
Yeah, the sister needs to be pain at least a
little bit at this.
Speaker 13 (48:09):
Point, right, And I get it, Like she's in college.
She's still getting her legs underneath her.
Speaker 3 (48:15):
But you could say, look, I got it. Things change, things,
of all. But it's kind of the place where we
should address this. We need to just talk about it
because I need a little bit more of a fair
program here and this is not what I expected. Fine, okay,
but here, let's talk. Let's talk it through and go
that route. I mean, he loves you, he's gonna support you,
He'll help you with the liaising with the mother there,
and let's get I mean, definitely, one thing is for sure.
(48:37):
It doesn't change if you don't say anything exactly.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
And then at that point, if it's still dicey and
not in a good place, then you have your answer.
Speaker 4 (48:48):
You don't want.
Speaker 3 (48:54):
I was gonna do it for us this morning before
we go. What do you do on your foot or
hand falls asleep? This happens to me every once in
a while, or having.
Speaker 2 (49:00):
To you want to Yes, I just hit it. Yeah,
you gotta just shake it off.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
You have to move it as fast as you can.
I'm trying to sleep, not on my back all the time,
on my side, but my arm falls asleep.
Speaker 2 (49:12):
You sleep on it.
Speaker 1 (49:12):
It's funny when it happens to my kiss because it's
all new stuff for them, and we're like, yeah, they're like,
what is this moment?
Speaker 14 (49:18):
So mad?
Speaker 3 (49:19):
Who's inside of me doing this? Sisney's got you till
eleven o'clock non stop here on Kiss.
Speaker 4 (49:24):
Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make
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