July 2, 2024 • 44 mins
MORNING HACK- eating this with your coffee in the morning…will prolong the effects of the caffeine so you can avoid that mid-day slump! SECOND DATE UPDATE- They met when he was her ride share driver. They hit it off and it led to more. He fears it’s fizzled, but hopes it hasn’t.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to Ryan Air on Air with
a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Hey are those winged cat I looks still in that
still a hot thing?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I think it just depends on your face. Like, if
that works for you, then keep doing it.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I started seeing them a long time ago. Now I've
seeing them everywhere. Winged cat eyes, rocket on, wing cat eyes, Yes,
I have.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
When what does the occasions I don't remember, probably like
a jingle ball back in the day, or you know,
have a fun event.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
The fact that I know what winged cat eyes are,
I need to talk to myself.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
I think it's good that you know this.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Ye, honey, do you wing cati?
Speaker 6 (00:40):
I used to back in the day, but I prefer
myself with less heavy eye make up.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Let me ask the coolest people here right back room,
who do you wing cat? I?
Speaker 7 (00:50):
I do, yes, very lightly though yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, but so it has not jumped the shark yet.
It's still something.
Speaker 7 (00:58):
Oh yeah, it's still something. I think it will always be.
I don't think it's ever gonna not be.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Like it must have become a trend because I started seeing.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
How lot maybe, but makeup trends always stay well.
Speaker 4 (01:08):
This depends on your face.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
The eye.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
It's the window to your soul. So decorate it right,
put it decorated?
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Why not?
Speaker 8 (01:17):
All right?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Now your eye might be looking up and seeing these
air taxis soon. So CS Consumer Electronics Show happen in
Vegas and they introduce a lot of new stuff. I
never know if it's really gonna happen and how much
it's gonna cost, because they always say here's a new TV,
and then you can't afford the TV for twenty years.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Then it's you know, on sale.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So they're talking about air taxis, and this is a
city and a region that could benefit from being able
to get from place to place in the air sysney.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
What do we know about the reality of it.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
It's Hyundai's Supernal.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
So it's an air taxi that's all electric and it
would take off vertically, so you don't need a runway.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
You don't.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
So it's a helicopter, but it's not a helicopter because
the proposal of a helicopter would be just like one
big one at the top right. This one has eight
This one has eight motors, and they're a drone kind
of yes, it's more like a drone like a giant
drone and they're saying it's so quiet, it sounds like
it's like it's as loud as a dishwasher.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
When it takes off and lands. Okay, because that's fascinating.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
And then you can go range between like twenty five
miles to forty miles. So picture like rush hour traffic
trying to get from Calabasas to downtown or late.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
It's for the miles so far.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
It's the direct line and the traffic right to get
to open exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
And I think this is the direction in the future
for especially big cities like Los Angeles.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
But how do they guard, protect and organize the airspace.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That I think they need to figure out what the
is it FAA Yeah, yes, yes, that that needs to
all get figured out. But they're saying you can, well,
you can fit up to four people in the model
that they showed. But this would be ready to go
by the Olympics in twenty twenty eight, so we're talking
four years from now we would be seeing these air attacks,
if not sooner.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
But where do you get it?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
That's the other part, Like if I have to get in,
are to get to the air taxi station to get
in the air plus the cost.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Is that better?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
They would have all these different locations of where you
can get these taxis from, and most of them are
gonna be on top of big buildings or parking structures,
and so that's gonna really, I think, benefit because they
don't have to find land.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
They don't. It's like it's already there, we had it
all ready to go.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Yeah, okay, but who's driving it? And trust?
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Oh yeah, I guess they'll be pilots and all that.
But yeah, do we trust it? That's the big question.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I mean, look, I'm looking at this thing. You're right,
it looks like a big drone that people can sit
inside of.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
It's got a lot of.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Different propellers or one of those things are on top
to make it feel safe and quiet. I just don't
know that. I don't know, like you got to. I
would like this thing to be running for a couple
of years to see how safe it is.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
That's exactly what Michael said yesterday when I was telling
him about this.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
He's, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
It would be the first person.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
To hop about. I don't want to when does it
come out. I don't want to do it.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
That year, not for the only yeah, twenty twenty eight
Summer Olympics. They really want these operational and running and
have this be a total normal thing for us here
in LA.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
But you can.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I mean, if you have these things everywhere, then you're
gonna have air traffic because you can't just fly aimlessly
through the sky.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
I'm sure there'll be some sort of organization.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
This to me is a long shot the way I
think this is happening, all.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
Right, tany would you take?
Speaker 7 (04:22):
This's no for me? Definitely no. I don't want to
be yes floating around.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
You can go to space and you go in this
little drone. Yeah, and you can get back to us
and then you.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Guys can stay in an hour and a half of
traffic and I'll get there in ten minutes.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
By the way, I would rather lives fine. Stephanie Corona,
thanks for calling in. How can we help you?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (04:42):
How are you?
Speaker 10 (04:43):
How are you good?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
So?
Speaker 9 (04:46):
I have a friend group and recently we added a
new girl into our group chat and me and my
best friend we just don't know how to feel about it.
So she was introduced to us by our her college friends,
and we've fung out with her a couple of times
and we you know, we've hung out with her, things
(05:07):
like that. But I and she's, like I said, she's
super sweet, super sweet, chilled girl. But I think she's
been how do I say this, she's been just like
we'll talk to her and she'll just throw in these comments,
and I think it's just a little too much sometimes
(05:28):
whenever we sing out and now we have her in
a group chat, so it's.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
It's a new friend I'm always speaking to candidly. What
is she doing this a little too much?
Speaker 11 (05:38):
Give me an example, like one day we were all
hanging out and you know, I don't know if I
was over sharing, but she just was going in on me,
like about me and my boyfriend's relationship.
Speaker 9 (05:53):
And like I said, I don't really know her. She's
very sweet, but I don't really know her that much
for her to just you know, come in with those comments.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
And what were the comments that irked you?
Speaker 9 (06:06):
The comments were like, oh, well, my boyfriend would never
do that, or oh your boyfriend this, or your boyfriend
that your boyfriend should be doing this, Oh, things like that.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
I don't have the.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Time for this, but m so, what's the question. Now,
I guess the question is how do we deal with her?
How do we kick her out of the friend group
she's messing up the chat box.
Speaker 9 (06:26):
Yeah, well, now we have her in a in this
group chat, but I we kind of I kind of
me and my other friend we kind of don't want
her in it the group chat anymore. And I don't
know how to really tell our other friends this because
our other friends were the ones that kind of invited
her in the group. And like I said, she's she's sweet,
but it's just she can be a little too much
(06:47):
sometimes with her.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Why don't you leave that group the way that it
is and start a new chain and leave her out
and keep both of them going.
Speaker 9 (06:59):
Okay?
Speaker 12 (07:00):
Because I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 9 (07:02):
I don't know if I should talk to my other
friends about it, the ones that brought her into the group,
or to just like, you know, leave it how it is.
I'm not too sure. That's why I'm kind of a
little stuck because my.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Friend, here's the thing, like, look, life's too short to
let this person come in and be having these kinds
of feelings. So I think Tiny's advice is right. Don't
respond to that group chat, create a new group chat,
she's not in it unless go yeah, yeah, I mean
if it were me, I just want to respond to
a group chat and not create another group chat and
just not deal with the texting bats.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, but when you have to see her in person,
it's like a whole other demos.
Speaker 9 (07:35):
That's the thing. That's why I'm like, I don't know
if I should tell my friends this, because like I.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Can in the new group chat, they say, look, I
started in new group one because I'm not so comfortable
with this new friend and what she's saying. I mean,
she can't just cozy up and start judging and criticizing
my relationship about me and I don't like it.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Now, I'm here for it, let's go. I mean, it's
twenty twenty.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
You could also just be directed her too the next
time she says something like that and be like, oh,
I appreciate comments like that.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Yeah, exactly, but with a little yeah, a little finesse, yeah,
a little less edge, yeah, a little less edge.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
On your ten year anniversary. Thank you Stephanie for calling good.
Speaker 9 (08:09):
Luck, Yes, thank you.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Yeah, And everything is just edit right. Less friends can
be better, that's your friends. Fewer of the best, fewer.
I'm gonna get this quote, right, higher quality, less volume.
Speaker 7 (08:21):
Nice?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Yeah, well I agree.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Higher quality le's volume because it's twenty twenty four. You're
on a roll this morning, I know, am I no, thanks,
I don't really know.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
I just said that. It sounds like I was on
a roll. I liked that.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Oh so I was going to tell you this. I
know you are getting some scam calls. I got a
scam text. Did you guys get this text from an
unknown number? And they said, coming to La, do you
recommend any great hikes?
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Oh my gosh, so this old buddy.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Yeah, well no, I knew, like no one would ever
just out of the blue say come in LA, can
you recommend any good hikes to me?
Speaker 5 (09:06):
I just seems so odd. Again, I feel like it's
very un brand free for you.
Speaker 7 (09:10):
Yeah, wouldn't, but.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
They wouldn't say who they are or high or what's up? Bro,
like something like that a scam goal for you?
Speaker 7 (09:17):
Yeah, I think it might be legit.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Somebody looking for that actually might be like an old
friend of yours. Yeah, really coming to LA and trying to.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
Say hey, it's me.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Probably think you have their contacts saved in correct.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
But see that's the thing I don't have a lot
of contacts saved here.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
Here, here's here it is. It's from what's the area?
Speaker 7 (09:38):
Is there a link?
Speaker 5 (09:40):
I didn't click into it?
Speaker 7 (09:41):
Bro Oh, there is a link.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
I don't know. I didn't click.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
You didn't even open the town.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
I didn't open the link.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
It's one line. Hey, here it is. I plan to
go hiking in La. Do you have any recommended place?
Speaker 5 (09:51):
No one sending me that. No one's sending me that.
Speaker 7 (09:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Fifty fifty you know, go both ways with you.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Unless you guys are toying with me over there.
Speaker 7 (09:59):
No.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
No.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
But the recent scam call that I got made me
also question whether it was real or not.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
What'd you get?
Speaker 11 (10:07):
So?
Speaker 2 (10:08):
And I've received multiple of these calls now it was
a phone call from someone from jail or prison?
Speaker 11 (10:16):
What?
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (10:17):
And I have the audio because it left the voicemail.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Before we play it, I need to understand how did
you It was a voicemail.
Speaker 5 (10:25):
Left for you?
Speaker 2 (10:26):
It was the call came through and I didn't answer,
and then I went to voicemail. And then when I
listened to the voicemail, this is what was on it.
And it was coming from Santa Clarita, and so I
was like, okay, and then I'm like, would I know anybody
in jail? I don't know, so Radom and then it
just like multiple I've gotten these. This is like the
fifth one or sixth one that I've received.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
Okay, let's listen.
Speaker 13 (10:44):
Hello, this is a free call from an inmate in
the North County Correctional Facility. To accept this free call,
press zero to refuse this free call, hang up or
press one was not accept It is scam.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
It's a scam. I don't know. Maybe someone misled your
number and.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
Who is Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Multiple times, plus you can't even understand that person's name.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
Okay, but what are they trying to do?
Speaker 2 (11:17):
I don't know what they would try to do once
I got in or accepted or did whatever. But I
did number one, copy the number, and I put it
in Google. And it turns out that that number has
been used for these type of scam calls throughout the
whole US. So that's what made me feel a little
bit better. But at the same time, it did for
the first Then the first time I heard it, I
(11:37):
was like, do I know anybody that would be trying
to call me? I was like Jojo list in Santa Clarita.
I said, would ivy JoJo's first call?
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I feel like he would call.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
His interesting, who would your first call be? I feel
like he would Maybe he didn't want to tell her that. Also,
you want to keep it on the l by calling you.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
That also been through my head.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I mean, but then there was multiple times that this happened,
and I was like, this seems.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Like a skin.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
I just think the rule of thumb is anything you
have to second guess, you just can't click into or respond.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Definitely don't click.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Yeah, I agree, Like if I get a link that
says click this to talk about olive oil, I might
be tempted, but I can't.
Speaker 5 (12:14):
I gotta fight the urge. So yeah, if you are
like us.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
I could kind of live for the coffee in the morning,
can't wait to have it, actually get so bummed.
Speaker 5 (12:23):
You know.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
I am impatient, and I shouldn't. I need to focus
on not thinking about the end of stuff, Like on Friday,
it's already in my head gonna be Sunday fast. But
I hate it when it's over. I don't like it
when coffee's gone to have my two cups and it's over.
Speaker 7 (12:37):
I get kind of bummed too, Like I kind.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Of I look through a lens of sadness.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
And so if you're looking to extend the buzz that
you get from your morning coffee, they say skip the
second cup and try eating this instead.
Speaker 5 (12:51):
I believe what it is.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
I have no idea what you're gonna say.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Grapefruit.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
No, that was not what I was expecting.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
So eating grapefruit or drinking grapefruit juice increases the time
caffeine stays in your body. Cabbage, broccoli, and brussels sprouts
up to how much of that you're eating in the morning.
But that does the opposite, that gets it out of
your system.
Speaker 5 (13:15):
That canna be good at dinner.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
But I think, try the grapefruit and see if it works.
Good experiment.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
Yeah, how much of it? The whole thing? Yea so tart,
I know, some cottage cheese or something with it.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Some people never change Today's quote of the day. Some
people never change, and that's their journey. It's not yours
to try to fix for them.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
On air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
Yeah, it's cheeseburger Week in Pasadena one hundred years ago.
I did not know. How did I not know this?
And we've done the show for twenty years.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Listen, we have to know a lot of things, so
there's only so much space.
Speaker 7 (13:53):
If there is something Ryan would know.
Speaker 5 (13:55):
It does I'm not giving myself a pass on this.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
Maybe not cheeseburger really, but I like burgers, can like
the burger.
Speaker 5 (14:02):
One hundred years ago.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
Think back about one hundred years ago, were we to well,
nothing right, you weren't doing a thing. But it was
nineteen twenty four and the cheeseburger was invented in Pasadena.
Sixteen year old what did you do at sixteen that
was so memorable? Maybe you took out your car snuck out.
Sixteen year old Lionel Sternberger Burger was working at his
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Burger was working at his dad's restaurant, the right spot,
the right spot on Colorado Boulevard and Avenue sixty four,
and young Lionel had the idea to put cheese on
a hamburger.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
It was a big hit.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
The spot is now a credit union, but a plaque
is on the Wallmarting, this's great to mention.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
That hamburger was here, but not the cheese burger.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
Oh the details, look come on now, Yeah, the hamburger
was here.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
But he meant it the cheeseburger.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Now, maybe his dad invented the hamburger.
Speaker 7 (15:00):
The last name why to go Lionel slapping some cheese
on that.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
So anyway, that's how the cheeseburger was invented, But not
the hamburger.
Speaker 11 (15:09):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
It's not the only food invented in LA. The hot
Budge Sunday was invented in nineteen thirteen by Clarence Clifton
Brown working at Christopher's Confectionery on South Broadway downtown.
Speaker 5 (15:19):
The French dip, you know the French.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Dep Oh that sounds so nice today because it's all
gloomy like a French dip sandwich.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Felipees that's well known. Felipes.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Yeah, the smoothie of course, La La. That makes sense,
but it was nineteen twenty six. Julius Freed went on
to found the mall's Orange Julius, these are foods that
were invented in LA. It still exists in malls across America.
And one final food invented in LA before we get
to Ryan's roses, the cob salad.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
Oh good salad.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
I love a cos we do. You gotta be in
the mood for it.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
But yes, I'm with you.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
I just like the way it's assembled. And then I
mix it up, comes in pods and I mess it
all up. And then if I Robert H. Cobb, no
surprise there. Who ran the brown derbyed Hollywood and Vine.
The story goes some Hollywood big shots come in many
many years ago, and he grabbed everything he could find
in the kitchen and threw it in a bowl and
made the cob solid.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
So this is a second date update. I gotta get
to know Nick Nick and Woodland Hills. So Nick is
a ride share driver and hooked up with one of
his passengers. Nick, thank you for coming on for a
second date update. Is this the first time you've ever
hooked up with a passenger of yours?
Speaker 10 (16:35):
Yep, not even close before.
Speaker 5 (16:38):
Okay, and what made you cross the line this time?
Speaker 10 (16:43):
Well, so, yeah, I'm a student at Pierce College in
Woodland Hills and I drive a ridehair car on the side.
You know, just a few weeks ago, a bunch of
girls from Sea Sun, you know, I give him a
ride to a bar just in Ansino, and there was
four of them. And the thing is is one of
them had to sit up front with me, and I
tell you, she was like the most beautiful, stunning person
(17:03):
I've ever met in my life. And uh so, when
I dropped him off at the bar, I told her
if they need a ride later, you know, to just
call me directly, and I gave her my number, so basically, yeah,
a few hours later, she actually called me back, and
when I got there, it was just her. You know,
she left her friends at the bar because she said
she wanted to see me, so I gave her ride
(17:26):
back to north Ridge. That's when we hooked up in
my car. And you know, I've been texting her since then.
You know, she hasn't blocked me, but I haven't been
getting any responses from her, so you know, I'm starting
to get the message that this was just a one
time thing for her. But you know, if I could
get a hold of her, you know, I think this
would really be something great.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
So curious to wonder how often this happens with a
driver and a passenger.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Well, you're giving.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Her your number, then that's you know, you're extending that
chance for it to escalate.
Speaker 5 (17:59):
So you think she's saw this as a one time thing.
Speaker 10 (18:03):
Yeah, Unfortunately, that's the vibe I'm getting or I don't know,
Like like you said, it's kind of like weird hooking
up with your right chair driver. So I have a
feeling that's basically the gist of it. She's just kind
of you know, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
It's fine in the moment, but she does want to
pursue it. All right.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Well, look, I mean, Nick, this is what a second
date update is for. We've never had this one this
scenario before, but I guarantee you You've got other righte share
drivers listening right now.
Speaker 5 (18:29):
I want to hear how this one goes. So hang
on one second. Did she tip you?
Speaker 8 (18:34):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I mean, hold on, Nick, this is I really want
to get to it fast. Let's come back. We'll find out.
Her name is Cynthia. What's up with Cynthia. She's agreed
to come on. Thank you for listening, Thank you for streaming.
If you got to go to work, take us with
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(19:00):
and Mark works hard on the podcast. It comes out later.
Speaker 9 (19:05):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (19:06):
What times that post? Well, we try to get it
up for sure by noon every day.
Speaker 8 (19:10):
Sometimes I'm right there at ten o'clock, sometimes close to eleven,
depends on.
Speaker 5 (19:13):
The day, but I do my best to get it
up as quickly as possible.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
Well, the deal is if you miss anything or you
want to hear something again. It's all on a podcast
later called on Airthrone and Seacrest on iHeartRadio. So this
is a second date update. Nick is with us now,
and Nick has written to us saying, hey, look, I
am a ride share driver hooked up with a passenger.
She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. But now
she's ignoring my text. He thinks reality set in and
it was a one time thing, and she doesn't really
(19:37):
want to go back and revisit because of the dynamic
of them meeting in the car and crossing the line.
And I'm so curious, yeah to know more so, Nick,
don't even breathe, Well, breathe, but don't let us hear you.
I have Cynthia on the phone. She's agreed to come
on with us. She does not know you're on the
other line. Be very quiet, let us find out what's up.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
All right, We'll do it.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Thank you, Cynthia, Thank you for holding here. It is
Ryan SEACRESTY have Tanya Assistanty you're on Kiss FM. How
you doing Hi?
Speaker 12 (20:10):
I'm okay, thanks super.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
So we're calling you about a transfer you had not
too long ago with a ride share driver named Nick.
Speaker 5 (20:22):
Do you have fond memories that I sat up in the.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Front seat and then he gave you his number?
Speaker 8 (20:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (20:28):
I remember.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
So when I say, Nick, what do you think about?
Tell me about Nick?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:34):
My gosh, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 11 (20:39):
I mean Nick.
Speaker 12 (20:40):
He he's a nice guy.
Speaker 9 (20:41):
I mean, I just I made a.
Speaker 14 (20:43):
Mistake, all right, I hoped I hooked up with him
and he was my driver.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
But what's the mistake? What's the whole ro I'm very
interested in this outcome.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
I mean that is kind of wildly What is that?
Speaker 1 (20:54):
What?
Speaker 5 (20:54):
What is the mistake? And what was it that attracted
you to Nick?
Speaker 14 (20:59):
I mean, you know, it's just weird, like it was
one night. I wouldn't normally do this, but I thought
he was an interesting guy and I was just really
feeling it that night. And I don't even know him,
so it's just it's not something that I would usually do.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
And was this the reason he wasn't ghost him?
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Now?
Speaker 5 (21:21):
Was he romantic?
Speaker 4 (21:24):
Well?
Speaker 14 (21:25):
Look, I just I feel embarrassed about the whole thing,
Like I kind of just wanted to put it in
my past because I don't plan on doing anything like
that again.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Okay, but let me ask you this, Cynthia. I understand
that completely. But if he wasn't your ride share driver,
would you have wanted to see him again?
Speaker 14 (21:44):
I mean, he's a sweet guy, and then afterwards he
was like sending me a lot of sweet things.
Speaker 8 (21:50):
He was texting me, and I just I didn't know
what to say back. But yeah, I guess yeah, huh.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
But what's so bad about it being ride share drive?
What's about this? What's so bad about this scenario?
Speaker 14 (22:05):
This is I don't really know him that well. That's
the thing, Like.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
We do.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
We kind of love him. I'm gonna tell you why.
Nick is on the phone and I just got to
know him a little bit. Nick say hi to Cynthia.
Speaker 8 (22:19):
Hi, Cynthia.
Speaker 5 (22:20):
That's your Nick, Cynthia. So here's the deal.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
He reached out to us, which is very charming because
he was stumped that you weren't getting back to him.
He was blown away by you and wanted to see
you again and is trying to figure out how can
we look past this fact that you were a passenger
and this is a weird scenario to have met and
is there a way to do that?
Speaker 5 (22:39):
I guess that's the question, Nick, right, Well.
Speaker 10 (22:43):
Yeah, like so Cynthia, like I get like this is
totally super embarrassing and it's not your style. Well, the
thing is is, it's not my style either. It's not
like I just you know, try to hook up with
you know, passengers all the time. You know, I've been
doing this for a couple of years now, that's never
happened before. I just think that you and I, you know,
it's like we have this you know, undeniable spark and
(23:04):
it shouldn't matter if like we met because I'm your
driver or you know, we could have met at a
grocery store on a dating app or whatever. But you know,
it's like, at the end of the day, we did
meet and I think we have a real connection. So
you know, you know, why don't you let me take
you on a real date this time? You know, maybe
we'll get dinner, you know, some drinks.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Like I think.
Speaker 8 (23:25):
I don't drink.
Speaker 5 (23:26):
I'm sorry, Well that's totally.
Speaker 10 (23:30):
Fine, Like we can get dinner, you know, maybe I
can take you out for some ice cream or something.
I'll walk you know, I'll plan a great night and
you know, you know, with zero expectations, and you know,
it'll just be like a real first date.
Speaker 14 (23:46):
I mean, gosh, it's really sweet that you're actually going
through all this trouble to talk to me.
Speaker 12 (23:53):
So I appreciate that.
Speaker 10 (23:56):
Well, yeah, like, I don't think unless we go on
another day and I'll be able to move on. It's
like I think about you all the time. It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (24:04):
Oh my god.
Speaker 14 (24:04):
Well, when you put it that way, fine, we'll go out.
Speaker 5 (24:09):
Oh all right, it's a match. Yes, victory.
Speaker 12 (24:17):
He's so sweet.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Congratulations Nick, way too get that response. Yeah, I mean beautiful, Well, Cynthia,
good luck, hop it goes well with Nick. He's also
a student. He's doing this on the side, so maybe things,
you know, you could talk about what he's studying, all
that stuff, and good luck.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
Okay, tell him what to talk about on their date.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
I'm telling saying like he's also a student, he's just
doing this job on the side.
Speaker 5 (24:43):
Okay, bye, guys, thankye. I thought she was gonna say no,
I mean I thought she.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
Was gonna say, oh, put it that way. No, that's
what I thought she's in the second it's not a
little over the top.
Speaker 4 (24:55):
I thought he's wearing his heart on his sleeve.
Speaker 5 (24:57):
And I liked that he wants to go on an
ice cream date.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
I missed that part.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
Yeah, I was picturing like an ice cream date short,
but it's very cute.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
Would you get a cone or a cup?
Speaker 4 (25:09):
Cone?
Speaker 11 (25:10):
See?
Speaker 3 (25:10):
I always want to get a cone, but it drips
down the bottom and a cup's.
Speaker 5 (25:14):
Easier to handle, especially on a date.
Speaker 8 (25:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (25:18):
Cone, That is a second date update, and that's why
we ice.
Speaker 7 (25:21):
Cream on the first or second date.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
For On Air with Ryan says, all.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Right, so Rachel says that her boyfriend is invited on
a bachelorette weekend, but he's the only dude going.
Speaker 5 (25:37):
Rachel, thanks for hanging on and coming on with us
this morning. How are you?
Speaker 12 (25:42):
Absolutely? I'm good. Ryan, how about you?
Speaker 5 (25:44):
I'm solid. Thank you so much for asking.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
So your boyfriend was invited on a bachelorette weekend.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
What's the story?
Speaker 12 (25:50):
Yes, yeah, so it's really sweet. He has a friend
from college who's the girl and they're just like super close,
and then she asked him to be a part of
her wedding party. Sort of as like a bribe man
not you know. So, uh, it's him and a bunch
of girls. We're also bridesmaids, and I'm trying to be cool,
like it's a cool girlfriend and starting, but I'm just
(26:11):
like starting to feel uncomfortable because he's going to the
bachelorette party and a bunch of the girls are single
and like have been like really floating with him part
even though you know they know that he has a girlfriend.
So like, do I ask him not to go on
the bachelorette party because I don't want to be like controlling,
But I'm also like really uncomforty with him going on
(26:32):
those trips.
Speaker 5 (26:34):
Interesting. Yeah, I've got.
Speaker 3 (26:35):
A best friend that's a woman who's married. But I
could see, you know, in another life earlier, I could
see her inviting me maybe to something like that. But
I also could see how that might not feel well,
since you are with him that he's going to be there.
Speaker 5 (26:51):
But if you trust him, what's the big deal?
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Well, right, exactly, I mean you know what I mean,
I almost trust him, doesn't trust the other women.
Speaker 5 (27:01):
Well, if you trust him, then it's fine.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
You need two parties to tango. So if you trust him,
and it's his good friend. Do you want to block it?
Speaker 5 (27:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, I mean I didn't get this is what she
has to roll the dice and just go with it
and hope that it all works out.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
Roll the dice. She trusts a boyfriend because she.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Doesn't sounds like it's not about trust.
Speaker 7 (27:24):
It's like it's about maybe you want.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
You want him to make the choice of not going,
but she doesn't want to tell him that.
Speaker 5 (27:30):
But why would he say so if he doesn't go?
Speaker 3 (27:32):
What's he's saying, like, I'm gonna I don't want to
go because I want you uncomfortable.
Speaker 6 (27:36):
If this situation makes you uncomfortable, making you comfortable, well,
that's a good.
Speaker 5 (27:40):
Way to say it.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
That's a good way to say it. Can you get
him to say that?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Can we get him to say that?
Speaker 3 (27:46):
Can we get him to say that to you? And
then you can say what you honestly think.
Speaker 12 (27:51):
That's just a really good point.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Yeah, get him, get him to get those words out
of his mouth, and then you say, you know what,
thank you for thoughtfully bringing that up. And since you
did bring that up, yeah I'm uncomfortable.
Speaker 12 (28:07):
That's a really good point. Yeah. Yeah, pushing him into it.
Speaker 15 (28:11):
Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 5 (28:12):
I mean that's it's a relationship. That's what we do.
Speaker 4 (28:14):
Maybe turn the tables to make think about it. If
it were you.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Yeah, I that's a good one too. All right, Well,
good advice, good advice this morning. Would you want Michael
to do that? Would you be okay with it?
Speaker 4 (28:26):
That's so something that would never happen at this.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Pointy Robbie back in the day, what about Robbie.
Speaker 6 (28:32):
Yeah, if Robbie said some girl was coming on his
bachelor party, I'd be like.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
No, but it's he's going He's going on bast party.
Speaker 7 (28:42):
So like twelve girl even weirder.
Speaker 5 (28:45):
That's what she was. That's what she was talking about
for her boyfriend.
Speaker 7 (28:47):
I know, I'm with her. I would think it was
a little odd.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
I don't love it depends on how young they are.
You know, in your twenties you do crazier stuff.
Speaker 5 (28:56):
Well, let's see what happens.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
Keep us close to Rachel Sarah, good morning, and thank
you keep for having on kids FM. So I just
want to jump right into why you're calling your pressure
to follow your sister in law on Instagram.
Speaker 5 (29:06):
Tell us about that.
Speaker 8 (29:09):
Yeah, she she called me out at a family dinner.
It was like the most awkward thing ever. I haven't
I've never followed her on social media or anything like,
no no platforms, no acts, no Instagram. And recently we
all got together to see my brother, my sister in law,
and she called me out over dinner like, oh, so
now you'll follow me, right, And it was so awkward
(29:32):
and tense, and I just kind of like laughed it off.
But I honestly do not want to follow her on Instagram.
I do not like her. I don't want to say
like I hate her, but like, I really do not
like her, and I don't want to see any of
her stuff on social media.
Speaker 5 (29:47):
So why don't you like your sister in law? What's up?
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (29:52):
I know, well he listen. None of my family likes her,
so it's not like I'm the odd man out of
the black sheep. We just feel like she doesn't contribute
to like my brother's partnership. They have a couple of kids,
and she really doesn't pull her weight in the family.
My brother's always like running around bringing the kids to everything,
and we just from my perspective, I think she doesn't,
(30:15):
you know, support my brother, and it just really irritates me,
So I don't want to see her, you know, getting
her nails done while my brother is like running around
with the kids on social media.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Oh wow, Well this sounds like a bigger issue than Instagram.
The fact that your family doesn't like who he's married to.
Forget Instagram, that's the problem, and what do you do
about that as a family? I know, how could your
brother not see it? And have you guys talked to
him about it?
Speaker 8 (30:46):
We tried to have a conversation with him, you know,
before they got married, and he is just he's so
in love with her, which is really admirable. I'm happy
that he's in love, but he's so blinded by all
of this and he doesn't see that he could you know.
I don't want to say do better, but that he
needs support in his life. And so it's just your right.
(31:09):
Instagram is the tip of the iceberg. But it's the
only control I have in not following her.
Speaker 3 (31:13):
You know, well don't because she already I know she
already senses that you guys don't vibe with her, and so.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
If she's asking you to follow her that it's almost
not a cry for help.
Speaker 5 (31:24):
But maybe you do it now it's going to be artific.
It's not. It's artificial.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
But I've been seen it way past that. Sarah.
Speaker 2 (31:31):
I feel as if you should try to get to
know her and see if you can actually be her friend.
Speaker 7 (31:39):
Maybe encourage her to help out more.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Yeah, and then maybe things will change with the way
she treats her brother and the way the family views her.
If you're the olive branch that kind of welcomes her in.
I know, you got to be the bigger person here.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
All right, Well, good luck Sarah with that, and thank
you very much for listening to us. It's one of
two point seven kiss FM. That's a tough one. But
why is the family not like the wife of their
brother son? Yeah, well that's the big issue now, Tania,
what's the advice you need?
Speaker 6 (32:12):
So I was thinking that you could help me because
I feel like this is your wheelhouse. So Robbie and
I are on a little bit of a survivor detox.
We're only allowing ourselves to watch one season at a time.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Well, really starting to become a problem.
Speaker 5 (32:27):
Huh. Great self discipline.
Speaker 7 (32:28):
Yeah, thank you so much. It feels good. It feels good.
Speaker 6 (32:31):
But in the interim we're trying to read more, and
so I love self help books. You won't find a
self help book that I don't love. So we started
reading this book. It's called the Magic of Thinking Big,
and it's kind of like one of those books like
here five tips to you know what I mean, Like
it gives you these practical, little, bite sized things. And
Robbie's not so into that type of self help book.
(32:53):
He was like, maybe there's a way that we can
be inspired and motivated by somebody's story by reading somebody's biography,
like reading actual people's life stories. And so I thought
maybe you had some that you could recommend that are
a little aspirational inspirational.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
You know what's interesting is that I like bite size
books for me.
Speaker 11 (33:15):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (33:15):
For example, I'm gonna pull up what's right here on
my desk. Look at this.
Speaker 7 (33:19):
That's not cute self care.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
It's the size of a wallet book. Yeah, and it's called, uh,
the Little Book of Self Care, And inside it's got
like one thing on a page.
Speaker 5 (33:30):
Oh you did for that? You don't seem so excited.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
I'm kind of with Robbie, though, I kind of like,
I'm I like both Tanya, I can do a whole
self care book bite size, maybe like what Ryan's showing you.
But then I also want to read the Barber streisand
on audible where it's like sixty hours.
Speaker 5 (33:45):
On there reading.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
Okay, what do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (33:48):
You know my friend, my friend Lisa said that to
me other day. She goes, I read all the time
while I cook. I'm like, how do you read and cook?
Speaker 5 (33:54):
Honestly? Yeah, but that's not reading.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
If Barbara Streisan is doing the narrative, I will listen
to her for sixty hours. I but don't you feel
like that'll be inspirational, like hearing that's her story.
Speaker 6 (34:06):
It's like Chris Jenner wrote a book like I'd want
to hear about the thirty and doing the treadmill and
how she does her emails and how she is.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
I start, but I don't finish a lot of things. Well,
series books, binge, watching all of that stuff. I mean,
I'm reading a book about Winston Churchill if that's interesting
to him.
Speaker 6 (34:22):
But is that is it like aspirational motivationalspiration history?
Speaker 5 (34:26):
It could be I don't know, it's history.
Speaker 7 (34:28):
Yeah, it sounds snoozy.
Speaker 5 (34:30):
Well, then don't ask.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
Like my little wallet size, I do like about that
fit in your pocket that is cute.
Speaker 4 (34:36):
Let me, let me, is this where you get your
mindful mood?
Speaker 7 (34:39):
Yes, it's one of the places.
Speaker 3 (34:41):
It's one of the places. Let me shove it up
to random page. Right, Okay, here we go, today's page
one O five. I just opened it up from a
little book that could give your skin a treat. The
silk dress, it's always lurking, unworn at the back of
the wardrobe. Bring it out and wear it. Yes, appreciate
how the fabric feels against your skin. Revel in the
sense of luxury that fine fabrics bring to your body.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
Now is that relatable to you, Ryan, No, so I
would have turned to the next next page.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
Treat yourself if time and finances allow, enjoying a massage
probably the finest way to hit your self care. High
Oiled hands, pubbling taught muscles are soothing. They really wrote that,
oiled oiled hands, bubbling muscles.
Speaker 5 (35:28):
Oh, it's powerful.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
So you know it's so graphic, though, But when you
really think about massages.
Speaker 4 (35:34):
They're so weird.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
Strange massage in your naked body, and it is strange.
Speaker 5 (35:42):
It's strange. And they always say you don't have to
wear anything.
Speaker 7 (35:45):
I know, I never do.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I don't either, but it's like, when what world is
it okay for that to happen?
Speaker 3 (35:50):
I mean the way that they or a GOMMI hammock
that sheet around you is like a whole sign.
Speaker 5 (35:54):
I know, Mike.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
When I got a couple of massages the other day
for our anniversary, and it was just like again weird.
Speaker 5 (35:59):
I was worried.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
When she'll say, do you want me to stretch you,
I'm like, yeah, all of a sudden, my legs are
up in the air. I don't know what else is happening.
Good morning, Elijah, how are you?
Speaker 15 (36:14):
Good morning?
Speaker 13 (36:15):
How you doing?
Speaker 5 (36:16):
What's going on?
Speaker 11 (36:16):
Buddy?
Speaker 5 (36:17):
I can I help you?
Speaker 15 (36:19):
Yeah? So my girlfriend made a vision board and it's
kind of freaking me out.
Speaker 2 (36:26):
I'd run fast, excuse and why wait a minute?
Speaker 15 (36:32):
So well, look, I don't even think I was supposed
to see it in the first place. She and her
friends got together and did it right after the New Year.
But I was looking for a post it in a
drawer and I found it and it had like a
bride and there was like this enormous diamond engagement.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
Range, all normal things that women usually put on their
vision boards.
Speaker 15 (36:55):
Right, like an expensive car and these island vacations like.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
I mean, the vision board is aspirational too, right, It's
supposed to be just that, you know, maybe beyond what
your goals are. But it's a nice thing to aspire
to be.
Speaker 4 (37:10):
What's the issue?
Speaker 15 (37:11):
Yeah, I mean you.
Speaker 5 (37:12):
Don't want to get married? Is that the deal?
Speaker 15 (37:14):
Here's the thing, here's the thing. I get all that,
But we've only been dating for only five months.
Speaker 6 (37:20):
Well, bro, just because she has this vision board doesn't
mean it's you, you know what.
Speaker 15 (37:27):
I mean, Like, it's a vision board for this year,
and I'm not that rich or anything, like, I don't
make that much money.
Speaker 5 (37:36):
But what were you?
Speaker 3 (37:37):
I guess what we're hearing you say is that you're
feeling some pressure because of her vision board, and that
pressure has to do with the future of your commitment
to and with her.
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Yeah, is that what I'm hearing that?
Speaker 15 (37:49):
And the finances? I mean, look, am I line of
work I'm telling to be an EMC people like me
don't usually get rich.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Maybe you should make a vision board and then you'll
be rich.
Speaker 11 (37:59):
You know what?
Speaker 6 (38:00):
It doesn't right, No, but I think also too, like
maybe that's worth a discussion that you can have with her,
because if you know, if she has like these fancy
cars and these fancy vacations, maybe there.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
Is is that important to her, right, Maybe that's a
good jumping off point to have a real conversation Elijah
about who you guys are.
Speaker 5 (38:19):
It's a great idea, Tonya.
Speaker 4 (38:20):
And it might not be that big of a deal.
Speaker 2 (38:22):
She might be like, oh, this is just the stuff
that I just cut out of magazine, like it's vacation.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
It's just like I mean, it's like the screensaver on
your phone actually, like you're going to live on that beach,
but you like to look at it exactly. I use
this as a point to talk about what you're really
thinking and feeling here in your relationship at all.
Speaker 4 (38:39):
I think you should be. It's beautiful that she wants
to harry you.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
It's a healthy exercise to to do a vision board.
Tanya does it here all the time in life.
Speaker 6 (38:46):
I used to put rings and brides since twenty fifteen
on my vision board.
Speaker 5 (38:50):
Yeah, it took a little while, but she got there.
I got there.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Thank you and good luck with the mt BRO. Thanks
for saving lives.
Speaker 15 (38:58):
Oh absolutely yeah, thank you guys for hearing me out
and give me some advice.
Speaker 5 (39:02):
I needed to hear that call anytime.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
It is interesting that like, okay, where he thought her
putting those things up is just bad news. Actually it's
great news because he can now have a conversation about
who they really are, like who he is or who
he's looking for, or what and what she really wants
or means by all that.
Speaker 4 (39:19):
Yes, and maybe it's just like she wants it.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
Eventually she just doesn't. You know, it doesn't need to
happen this year.
Speaker 6 (39:25):
But I probably scared off so many men because I
would keep my vision board in like on my bathroom window,
or i'd keep it in the kitchen, so I thought
every morning I was making my coffee.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
So when they'd come over to your house, it would
just be out yep with bridle ring.
Speaker 6 (39:39):
And bridled and uh song lyrics.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
I mean, we could have helped move the vision board
and this would happen.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
On air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
I got Rebecca on the line, So Rebecca, everybody listening
on this, Rebecca's calling. She says, Uh, you told your
sister in law that you're pregnant, and now what happened?
Speaker 8 (40:04):
Oh, it went real bad, Ryan, real real bad. So
I need I need some advice because I don't know
what to do about this.
Speaker 3 (40:12):
So you you shared the good news in the spirits
of celebration, and how could it go bad?
Speaker 1 (40:19):
I know.
Speaker 8 (40:20):
So my sister in law and my brother in law's
both my husband's brother and his wife. They've been experiencing
infertility for years, which the whole family has just been
so there every step of the way with them on
the journey. So I know how hard this has been
for them. And you know, when we got pregnant, we
were of course ecstatic, but we wanted to handle the
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news really carefully, so we took them out to dinner.
You know, at the end of the dinner, we told
them the good news, and my sister in law stood
up and just told us we were selfish. How could
we do this to her? She can't believe it, she
can't even look at us, and basically stormed away.
Speaker 5 (41:01):
Do this to her?
Speaker 3 (41:02):
I mean, you're creating the greatest gift in right, I mean,
it's the most beautiful thing, and selfishly she's acting like that.
What's at the root of that, there's what's deep down
inside there.
Speaker 2 (41:13):
It's the fact that she's been struggling with her own
struggles of trying to get pregnant. It's not it's not
right that she reacted this way, but it is. It's
it's all right, So.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
Then we should give her. Then let's understand that, right.
Like I guess, Sisney, you could speak to this more
than anybody. Put yourself in her shoes.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
Yeah, I've having to go through that, and I can't
imagine like the years and years and years that they
have been struggling. But what are you supposed to do,
pause your life and not be able to live your life.
You've got to give her some time. I think that
eventually she's going to come around. The way she reacted
was not the right way, but I don't think that
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it's something to shut her out for.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
So give her time.
Speaker 2 (41:56):
Maybe reach out again and say you want to have
some lunch, or let's talk.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
Let's I think it's talk in a very what's what's
the right word? Sort of in a very open and
generous way, invite the dialogue with warmth, right for both
of you, and I just think that's the way to
do it.
Speaker 2 (42:19):
And eventually she's hopefully she's the one that actually reaches
out to you, because she's the one that needs to
probably apologize.
Speaker 8 (42:28):
Right, And I love her and I think everything you're saying,
I really wanted you. But she won't even look at
me at family events. So I'm trying to take her.
Speaker 3 (42:38):
But you got to think you got to get to
this conversation a very just like a very compassionate conversation
with the two of you, to create the dialogue, to
break the ice, to get to a new place, because
I think you can get there.
Speaker 6 (42:49):
It's also not about you, like she is just in it,
in it, in it with herself, and she's projecting these
you know, like this is a crazy hard thing. So
she's probably deeply depressed and going through stuff that you
have no idea and you can't even relate to.
Speaker 5 (43:05):
And so I think can't fix it either.
Speaker 7 (43:08):
Right, I think just give her a little bit of
grace and sometime.
Speaker 8 (43:13):
Absolutely I think we'll see you know, we'll try and
meet up for launch. I think that's a great idea.
And just like you said, I we're all cards on
the table and just listen.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Sounds like yeah, with warmth and love, good luck. Thank
you for calling and sharing that with us, and congratulations
to you.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 5 (43:32):
It's a great point, Tony.
Speaker 3 (43:33):
You know, when people respond in ways like that, it's
what they're dealing with, and she's just not conveying it
in a helpful way, a productive way.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
Right right on air on Air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3 (43:48):
All right, this is one question I've always wondered, Sisnytani.
What's the most common thing you find yourself zoning out
and staring at.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
A high speed car chase?
Speaker 5 (44:00):
Yeah, that's crazy. How we can't stop.
Speaker 2 (44:03):
Yeah, everything gets put down and I'm just I'm in.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
I do it with my pantry. I just stare at stuff.
Speaker 7 (44:10):
Oh my, I do that all the time, and I
can't make a decision.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
Open the fridge.
Speaker 5 (44:16):
Ye, take good care.
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to Ryan Air on Air with
a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Hey are those winged cat I looks still in that
still a hot thing?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I think it just depends on your face. Like, if
that works for you, then keep doing it.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I started seeing them a long time ago. Now I've
seeing them everywhere. Winged cat eyes, rocket on, wing cat eyes, Yes,
I have.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
When what does the occasions I don't remember, probably like
a jingle ball back in the day, or you know,
have a fun event.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
The fact that I know what winged cat eyes are,
I need to talk to myself.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
I think it's good that you know this.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Ye, honey, do you wing cati?
Speaker 6 (00:40):
I used to back in the day, but I prefer
myself with less heavy eye make up.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Let me ask the coolest people here right back room,
who do you wing cat? I?
Speaker 7 (00:50):
I do, yes, very lightly though yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, but so it has not jumped the shark yet.
It's still something.
Speaker 7 (00:58):
Oh yeah, it's still something. I think it will always be.
I don't think it's ever gonna not be.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Like it must have become a trend because I started seeing.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
How lot maybe, but makeup trends always stay well.
Speaker 4 (01:08):
This depends on your face.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
The eye.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
It's the window to your soul. So decorate it right,
put it decorated?
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Why not?
Speaker 8 (01:17):
All right?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Now your eye might be looking up and seeing these
air taxis soon. So CS Consumer Electronics Show happen in
Vegas and they introduce a lot of new stuff. I
never know if it's really gonna happen and how much
it's gonna cost, because they always say here's a new TV,
and then you can't afford the TV for twenty years.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Then it's you know, on sale.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So they're talking about air taxis, and this is a
city and a region that could benefit from being able
to get from place to place in the air sysney.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
What do we know about the reality of it.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
It's Hyundai's Supernal.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
So it's an air taxi that's all electric and it
would take off vertically, so you don't need a runway.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
You don't.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
So it's a helicopter, but it's not a helicopter because
the proposal of a helicopter would be just like one
big one at the top right. This one has eight
This one has eight motors, and they're a drone kind
of yes, it's more like a drone like a giant
drone and they're saying it's so quiet, it sounds like
it's like it's as loud as a dishwasher.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
When it takes off and lands. Okay, because that's fascinating.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
And then you can go range between like twenty five
miles to forty miles. So picture like rush hour traffic
trying to get from Calabasas to downtown or late.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
It's for the miles so far.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
It's the direct line and the traffic right to get
to open exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
And I think this is the direction in the future
for especially big cities like Los Angeles.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
But how do they guard, protect and organize the airspace.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That I think they need to figure out what the
is it FAA Yeah, yes, yes, that that needs to
all get figured out. But they're saying you can, well,
you can fit up to four people in the model
that they showed. But this would be ready to go
by the Olympics in twenty twenty eight, so we're talking
four years from now we would be seeing these air attacks,
if not sooner.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
But where do you get it?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
That's the other part, Like if I have to get in,
are to get to the air taxi station to get
in the air plus the cost.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Is that better?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
They would have all these different locations of where you
can get these taxis from, and most of them are
gonna be on top of big buildings or parking structures,
and so that's gonna really, I think, benefit because they
don't have to find land.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
They don't. It's like it's already there, we had it
all ready to go.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Yeah, okay, but who's driving it? And trust?
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Oh yeah, I guess they'll be pilots and all that.
But yeah, do we trust it? That's the big question.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I mean, look, I'm looking at this thing. You're right,
it looks like a big drone that people can sit
inside of.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
It's got a lot of.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Different propellers or one of those things are on top
to make it feel safe and quiet. I just don't
know that. I don't know, like you got to. I
would like this thing to be running for a couple
of years to see how safe it is.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
That's exactly what Michael said yesterday when I was telling
him about this.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
He's, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
It would be the first person.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
To hop about. I don't want to when does it
come out. I don't want to do it.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
That year, not for the only yeah, twenty twenty eight
Summer Olympics. They really want these operational and running and
have this be a total normal thing for us here
in LA.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
But you can.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I mean, if you have these things everywhere, then you're
gonna have air traffic because you can't just fly aimlessly
through the sky.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
I'm sure there'll be some sort of organization.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
This to me is a long shot the way I
think this is happening, all.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
Right, tany would you take?
Speaker 7 (04:22):
This's no for me? Definitely no. I don't want to
be yes floating around.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
You can go to space and you go in this
little drone. Yeah, and you can get back to us
and then you.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Guys can stay in an hour and a half of
traffic and I'll get there in ten minutes.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
By the way, I would rather lives fine. Stephanie Corona,
thanks for calling in. How can we help you?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (04:42):
How are you?
Speaker 10 (04:43):
How are you good?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
So?
Speaker 9 (04:46):
I have a friend group and recently we added a
new girl into our group chat and me and my
best friend we just don't know how to feel about it.
So she was introduced to us by our her college friends,
and we've fung out with her a couple of times
and we you know, we've hung out with her, things
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like that. But I and she's, like I said, she's
super sweet, super sweet, chilled girl. But I think she's
been how do I say this, she's been just like
we'll talk to her and she'll just throw in these comments,
and I think it's just a little too much sometimes
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whenever we sing out and now we have her in
a group chat, so it's.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
It's a new friend I'm always speaking to candidly. What
is she doing this a little too much?
Speaker 11 (05:38):
Give me an example, like one day we were all
hanging out and you know, I don't know if I
was over sharing, but she just was going in on me,
like about me and my boyfriend's relationship.
Speaker 9 (05:53):
And like I said, I don't really know her. She's
very sweet, but I don't really know her that much
for her to just you know, come in with those comments.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
And what were the comments that irked you?
Speaker 9 (06:06):
The comments were like, oh, well, my boyfriend would never
do that, or oh your boyfriend this, or your boyfriend
that your boyfriend should be doing this, Oh, things like that.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
I don't have the.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Time for this, but m so, what's the question. Now,
I guess the question is how do we deal with her?
How do we kick her out of the friend group
she's messing up the chat box.
Speaker 9 (06:26):
Yeah, well, now we have her in a in this
group chat, but I we kind of I kind of
me and my other friend we kind of don't want
her in it the group chat anymore. And I don't
know how to really tell our other friends this because
our other friends were the ones that kind of invited
her in the group. And like I said, she's she's sweet,
but it's just she can be a little too much
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sometimes with her.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Why don't you leave that group the way that it
is and start a new chain and leave her out
and keep both of them going.
Speaker 9 (06:59):
Okay?
Speaker 12 (07:00):
Because I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 9 (07:02):
I don't know if I should talk to my other
friends about it, the ones that brought her into the group,
or to just like, you know, leave it how it is.
I'm not too sure. That's why I'm kind of a
little stuck because my.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Friend, here's the thing, like, look, life's too short to
let this person come in and be having these kinds
of feelings. So I think Tiny's advice is right. Don't
respond to that group chat, create a new group chat,
she's not in it unless go yeah, yeah, I mean
if it were me, I just want to respond to
a group chat and not create another group chat and
just not deal with the texting bats.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, but when you have to see her in person,
it's like a whole other demos.
Speaker 9 (07:35):
That's the thing. That's why I'm like, I don't know
if I should tell my friends this, because like I.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Can in the new group chat, they say, look, I
started in new group one because I'm not so comfortable
with this new friend and what she's saying. I mean,
she can't just cozy up and start judging and criticizing
my relationship about me and I don't like it.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Now, I'm here for it, let's go. I mean, it's
twenty twenty.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
You could also just be directed her too the next
time she says something like that and be like, oh,
I appreciate comments like that.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Yeah, exactly, but with a little yeah, a little finesse, yeah,
a little less edge, yeah, a little less edge.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
On your ten year anniversary. Thank you Stephanie for calling good.
Speaker 9 (08:09):
Luck, Yes, thank you.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Yeah, And everything is just edit right. Less friends can
be better, that's your friends. Fewer of the best, fewer.
I'm gonna get this quote, right, higher quality, less volume.
Speaker 7 (08:21):
Nice?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Yeah, well I agree.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Higher quality le's volume because it's twenty twenty four. You're
on a roll this morning, I know, am I no, thanks,
I don't really know.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
I just said that. It sounds like I was on
a roll. I liked that.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Oh so I was going to tell you this. I
know you are getting some scam calls. I got a
scam text. Did you guys get this text from an
unknown number? And they said, coming to La, do you
recommend any great hikes?
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Oh my gosh, so this old buddy.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Yeah, well no, I knew, like no one would ever
just out of the blue say come in LA, can
you recommend any good hikes to me?
Speaker 5 (09:06):
I just seems so odd. Again, I feel like it's
very un brand free for you.
Speaker 7 (09:10):
Yeah, wouldn't, but.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
They wouldn't say who they are or high or what's up? Bro,
like something like that a scam goal for you?
Speaker 7 (09:17):
Yeah, I think it might be legit.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Somebody looking for that actually might be like an old
friend of yours. Yeah, really coming to LA and trying to.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
Say hey, it's me.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Probably think you have their contacts saved in correct.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
But see that's the thing I don't have a lot
of contacts saved here.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
Here, here's here it is. It's from what's the area?
Speaker 7 (09:38):
Is there a link?
Speaker 5 (09:40):
I didn't click into it?
Speaker 7 (09:41):
Bro Oh, there is a link.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
I don't know. I didn't click.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
You didn't even open the town.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
I didn't open the link.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
It's one line. Hey, here it is. I plan to
go hiking in La. Do you have any recommended place?
Speaker 5 (09:51):
No one sending me that. No one's sending me that.
Speaker 7 (09:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Fifty fifty you know, go both ways with you.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Unless you guys are toying with me over there.
Speaker 7 (09:59):
No.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
No.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
But the recent scam call that I got made me
also question whether it was real or not.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
What'd you get?
Speaker 11 (10:07):
So?
Speaker 2 (10:08):
And I've received multiple of these calls now it was
a phone call from someone from jail or prison?
Speaker 11 (10:16):
What?
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (10:17):
And I have the audio because it left the voicemail.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Before we play it, I need to understand how did
you It was a voicemail.
Speaker 5 (10:25):
Left for you?
Speaker 2 (10:26):
It was the call came through and I didn't answer,
and then I went to voicemail. And then when I
listened to the voicemail, this is what was on it.
And it was coming from Santa Clarita, and so I
was like, okay, and then I'm like, would I know anybody
in jail? I don't know, so Radom and then it
just like multiple I've gotten these. This is like the
fifth one or sixth one that I've received.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
Okay, let's listen.
Speaker 13 (10:44):
Hello, this is a free call from an inmate in
the North County Correctional Facility. To accept this free call,
press zero to refuse this free call, hang up or
press one was not accept It is scam.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
It's a scam. I don't know. Maybe someone misled your
number and.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
Who is Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Multiple times, plus you can't even understand that person's name.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
Okay, but what are they trying to do?
Speaker 2 (11:17):
I don't know what they would try to do once
I got in or accepted or did whatever. But I
did number one, copy the number, and I put it
in Google. And it turns out that that number has
been used for these type of scam calls throughout the
whole US. So that's what made me feel a little
bit better. But at the same time, it did for
the first Then the first time I heard it, I
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was like, do I know anybody that would be trying
to call me? I was like Jojo list in Santa Clarita.
I said, would ivy JoJo's first call?
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I feel like he would call.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
His interesting, who would your first call be? I feel
like he would Maybe he didn't want to tell her that. Also,
you want to keep it on the l by calling you.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
That also been through my head.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I mean, but then there was multiple times that this happened,
and I was like, this seems.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Like a skin.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
I just think the rule of thumb is anything you
have to second guess, you just can't click into or respond.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Definitely don't click.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Yeah, I agree, Like if I get a link that
says click this to talk about olive oil, I might
be tempted, but I can't.
Speaker 5 (12:14):
I gotta fight the urge. So yeah, if you are
like us.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
I could kind of live for the coffee in the morning,
can't wait to have it, actually get so bummed.
Speaker 5 (12:23):
You know.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
I am impatient, and I shouldn't. I need to focus
on not thinking about the end of stuff, Like on Friday,
it's already in my head gonna be Sunday fast. But
I hate it when it's over. I don't like it
when coffee's gone to have my two cups and it's over.
Speaker 7 (12:37):
I get kind of bummed too, Like I kind.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Of I look through a lens of sadness.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
And so if you're looking to extend the buzz that
you get from your morning coffee, they say skip the
second cup and try eating this instead.
Speaker 5 (12:51):
I believe what it is.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
I have no idea what you're gonna say.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Grapefruit.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
No, that was not what I was expecting.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
So eating grapefruit or drinking grapefruit juice increases the time
caffeine stays in your body. Cabbage, broccoli, and brussels sprouts
up to how much of that you're eating in the morning.
But that does the opposite, that gets it out of
your system.
Speaker 5 (13:15):
That canna be good at dinner.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
But I think, try the grapefruit and see if it works.
Good experiment.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
Yeah, how much of it? The whole thing? Yea so tart,
I know, some cottage cheese or something with it.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Some people never change Today's quote of the day. Some
people never change, and that's their journey. It's not yours
to try to fix for them.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
On air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
Yeah, it's cheeseburger Week in Pasadena one hundred years ago.
I did not know. How did I not know this?
And we've done the show for twenty years.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Listen, we have to know a lot of things, so
there's only so much space.
Speaker 7 (13:53):
If there is something Ryan would know.
Speaker 5 (13:55):
It does I'm not giving myself a pass on this.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
Maybe not cheeseburger really, but I like burgers, can like
the burger.
Speaker 5 (14:02):
One hundred years ago.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
Think back about one hundred years ago, were we to well,
nothing right, you weren't doing a thing. But it was
nineteen twenty four and the cheeseburger was invented in Pasadena.
Sixteen year old what did you do at sixteen that
was so memorable? Maybe you took out your car snuck out.
Sixteen year old Lionel Sternberger Burger was working at his
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Burger was working at his dad's restaurant, the right spot,
the right spot on Colorado Boulevard and Avenue sixty four,
and young Lionel had the idea to put cheese on
a hamburger.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
It was a big hit.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
The spot is now a credit union, but a plaque
is on the Wallmarting, this's great to mention.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
That hamburger was here, but not the cheese burger.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
Oh the details, look come on now, Yeah, the hamburger
was here.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
But he meant it the cheeseburger.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Now, maybe his dad invented the hamburger.
Speaker 7 (15:00):
The last name why to go Lionel slapping some cheese
on that.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
So anyway, that's how the cheeseburger was invented, But not
the hamburger.
Speaker 11 (15:09):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
It's not the only food invented in LA. The hot
Budge Sunday was invented in nineteen thirteen by Clarence Clifton
Brown working at Christopher's Confectionery on South Broadway downtown.
Speaker 5 (15:19):
The French dip, you know the French.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Dep Oh that sounds so nice today because it's all
gloomy like a French dip sandwich.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Felipees that's well known. Felipes.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Yeah, the smoothie of course, La La. That makes sense,
but it was nineteen twenty six. Julius Freed went on
to found the mall's Orange Julius, these are foods that
were invented in LA. It still exists in malls across America.
And one final food invented in LA before we get
to Ryan's roses, the cob salad.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
Oh good salad.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
I love a cos we do. You gotta be in
the mood for it.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
But yes, I'm with you.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
I just like the way it's assembled. And then I
mix it up, comes in pods and I mess it
all up. And then if I Robert H. Cobb, no
surprise there. Who ran the brown derbyed Hollywood and Vine.
The story goes some Hollywood big shots come in many
many years ago, and he grabbed everything he could find
in the kitchen and threw it in a bowl and
made the cob solid.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
So this is a second date update. I gotta get
to know Nick Nick and Woodland Hills. So Nick is
a ride share driver and hooked up with one of
his passengers. Nick, thank you for coming on for a
second date update. Is this the first time you've ever
hooked up with a passenger of yours?
Speaker 10 (16:35):
Yep, not even close before.
Speaker 5 (16:38):
Okay, and what made you cross the line this time?
Speaker 10 (16:43):
Well, so, yeah, I'm a student at Pierce College in
Woodland Hills and I drive a ridehair car on the side.
You know, just a few weeks ago, a bunch of
girls from Sea Sun, you know, I give him a
ride to a bar just in Ansino, and there was
four of them. And the thing is is one of
them had to sit up front with me, and I
tell you, she was like the most beautiful, stunning person
(17:03):
I've ever met in my life. And uh so, when
I dropped him off at the bar, I told her
if they need a ride later, you know, to just
call me directly, and I gave her my number, so basically, yeah,
a few hours later, she actually called me back, and
when I got there, it was just her. You know,
she left her friends at the bar because she said
she wanted to see me, so I gave her ride
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back to north Ridge. That's when we hooked up in
my car. And you know, I've been texting her since then.
You know, she hasn't blocked me, but I haven't been
getting any responses from her, so you know, I'm starting
to get the message that this was just a one
time thing for her. But you know, if I could
get a hold of her, you know, I think this
would really be something great.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
So curious to wonder how often this happens with a
driver and a passenger.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Well, you're giving.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Her your number, then that's you know, you're extending that
chance for it to escalate.
Speaker 5 (17:59):
So you think she's saw this as a one time thing.
Speaker 10 (18:03):
Yeah, Unfortunately, that's the vibe I'm getting or I don't know,
Like like you said, it's kind of like weird hooking
up with your right chair driver. So I have a
feeling that's basically the gist of it. She's just kind
of you know, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
It's fine in the moment, but she does want to
pursue it. All right.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Well, look, I mean, Nick, this is what a second
date update is for. We've never had this one this
scenario before, but I guarantee you You've got other righte share
drivers listening right now.
Speaker 5 (18:29):
I want to hear how this one goes. So hang
on one second. Did she tip you?
Speaker 8 (18:34):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I mean, hold on, Nick, this is I really want
to get to it fast. Let's come back. We'll find out.
Her name is Cynthia. What's up with Cynthia. She's agreed
to come on. Thank you for listening, Thank you for streaming.
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and Mark works hard on the podcast. It comes out later.
Speaker 9 (19:05):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (19:06):
What times that post? Well, we try to get it
up for sure by noon every day.
Speaker 8 (19:10):
Sometimes I'm right there at ten o'clock, sometimes close to eleven,
depends on.
Speaker 5 (19:13):
The day, but I do my best to get it
up as quickly as possible.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
Well, the deal is if you miss anything or you
want to hear something again. It's all on a podcast
later called on Airthrone and Seacrest on iHeartRadio. So this
is a second date update. Nick is with us now,
and Nick has written to us saying, hey, look, I
am a ride share driver hooked up with a passenger.
She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. But now
she's ignoring my text. He thinks reality set in and
it was a one time thing, and she doesn't really
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want to go back and revisit because of the dynamic
of them meeting in the car and crossing the line.
And I'm so curious, yeah to know more so, Nick,
don't even breathe, Well, breathe, but don't let us hear you.
I have Cynthia on the phone. She's agreed to come
on with us. She does not know you're on the
other line. Be very quiet, let us find out what's up.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
All right, We'll do it.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Thank you, Cynthia, Thank you for holding here. It is
Ryan SEACRESTY have Tanya Assistanty you're on Kiss FM. How
you doing Hi?
Speaker 12 (20:10):
I'm okay, thanks super.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
So we're calling you about a transfer you had not
too long ago with a ride share driver named Nick.
Speaker 5 (20:22):
Do you have fond memories that I sat up in the.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Front seat and then he gave you his number?
Speaker 8 (20:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (20:28):
I remember.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
So when I say, Nick, what do you think about?
Tell me about Nick?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:34):
My gosh, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 11 (20:39):
I mean Nick.
Speaker 12 (20:40):
He he's a nice guy.
Speaker 9 (20:41):
I mean, I just I made a.
Speaker 14 (20:43):
Mistake, all right, I hoped I hooked up with him
and he was my driver.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
But what's the mistake? What's the whole ro I'm very
interested in this outcome.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
I mean that is kind of wildly What is that?
Speaker 1 (20:54):
What?
Speaker 5 (20:54):
What is the mistake? And what was it that attracted
you to Nick?
Speaker 14 (20:59):
I mean, you know, it's just weird, like it was
one night. I wouldn't normally do this, but I thought
he was an interesting guy and I was just really
feeling it that night. And I don't even know him,
so it's just it's not something that I would usually do.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
And was this the reason he wasn't ghost him?
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Now?
Speaker 5 (21:21):
Was he romantic?
Speaker 4 (21:24):
Well?
Speaker 14 (21:25):
Look, I just I feel embarrassed about the whole thing,
Like I kind of just wanted to put it in
my past because I don't plan on doing anything like
that again.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Okay, but let me ask you this, Cynthia. I understand
that completely. But if he wasn't your ride share driver,
would you have wanted to see him again?
Speaker 14 (21:44):
I mean, he's a sweet guy, and then afterwards he
was like sending me a lot of sweet things.
Speaker 8 (21:50):
He was texting me, and I just I didn't know
what to say back. But yeah, I guess yeah, huh.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
But what's so bad about it being ride share drive?
What's about this? What's so bad about this scenario?
Speaker 14 (22:05):
This is I don't really know him that well. That's
the thing, Like.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
We do.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
We kind of love him. I'm gonna tell you why.
Nick is on the phone and I just got to
know him a little bit. Nick say hi to Cynthia.
Speaker 8 (22:19):
Hi, Cynthia.
Speaker 5 (22:20):
That's your Nick, Cynthia. So here's the deal.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
He reached out to us, which is very charming because
he was stumped that you weren't getting back to him.
He was blown away by you and wanted to see
you again and is trying to figure out how can
we look past this fact that you were a passenger
and this is a weird scenario to have met and
is there a way to do that?
Speaker 5 (22:39):
I guess that's the question, Nick, right, Well.
Speaker 10 (22:43):
Yeah, like so Cynthia, like I get like this is
totally super embarrassing and it's not your style. Well, the
thing is is, it's not my style either. It's not
like I just you know, try to hook up with
you know, passengers all the time. You know, I've been
doing this for a couple of years now, that's never
happened before. I just think that you and I, you know,
it's like we have this you know, undeniable spark and
(23:04):
it shouldn't matter if like we met because I'm your
driver or you know, we could have met at a
grocery store on a dating app or whatever. But you know,
it's like, at the end of the day, we did
meet and I think we have a real connection. So
you know, you know, why don't you let me take
you on a real date this time? You know, maybe
we'll get dinner, you know, some drinks.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Like I think.
Speaker 8 (23:25):
I don't drink.
Speaker 5 (23:26):
I'm sorry, Well that's totally.
Speaker 10 (23:30):
Fine, Like we can get dinner, you know, maybe I
can take you out for some ice cream or something.
I'll walk you know, I'll plan a great night and
you know, you know, with zero expectations, and you know,
it'll just be like a real first date.
Speaker 14 (23:46):
I mean, gosh, it's really sweet that you're actually going
through all this trouble to talk to me.
Speaker 12 (23:53):
So I appreciate that.
Speaker 10 (23:56):
Well, yeah, like, I don't think unless we go on
another day and I'll be able to move on. It's
like I think about you all the time. It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (24:04):
Oh my god.
Speaker 14 (24:04):
Well, when you put it that way, fine, we'll go out.
Speaker 5 (24:09):
Oh all right, it's a match. Yes, victory.
Speaker 12 (24:17):
He's so sweet.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Congratulations Nick, way too get that response. Yeah, I mean beautiful, Well, Cynthia,
good luck, hop it goes well with Nick. He's also
a student. He's doing this on the side, so maybe things,
you know, you could talk about what he's studying, all
that stuff, and good luck.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
Okay, tell him what to talk about on their date.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
I'm telling saying like he's also a student, he's just
doing this job on the side.
Speaker 5 (24:43):
Okay, bye, guys, thankye. I thought she was gonna say no,
I mean I thought she.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
Was gonna say, oh, put it that way. No, that's
what I thought she's in the second it's not a
little over the top.
Speaker 4 (24:55):
I thought he's wearing his heart on his sleeve.
Speaker 5 (24:57):
And I liked that he wants to go on an
ice cream date.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
I missed that part.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
Yeah, I was picturing like an ice cream date short,
but it's very cute.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
Would you get a cone or a cup?
Speaker 4 (25:09):
Cone?
Speaker 11 (25:10):
See?
Speaker 3 (25:10):
I always want to get a cone, but it drips
down the bottom and a cup's.
Speaker 5 (25:14):
Easier to handle, especially on a date.
Speaker 8 (25:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (25:18):
Cone, That is a second date update, and that's why
we ice.
Speaker 7 (25:21):
Cream on the first or second date.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
For On Air with Ryan says, all.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Right, so Rachel says that her boyfriend is invited on
a bachelorette weekend, but he's the only dude going.
Speaker 5 (25:37):
Rachel, thanks for hanging on and coming on with us
this morning. How are you?
Speaker 12 (25:42):
Absolutely? I'm good. Ryan, how about you?
Speaker 5 (25:44):
I'm solid. Thank you so much for asking.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
So your boyfriend was invited on a bachelorette weekend.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
What's the story?
Speaker 12 (25:50):
Yes, yeah, so it's really sweet. He has a friend
from college who's the girl and they're just like super close,
and then she asked him to be a part of
her wedding party. Sort of as like a bribe man
not you know. So, uh, it's him and a bunch
of girls. We're also bridesmaids, and I'm trying to be cool,
like it's a cool girlfriend and starting, but I'm just
(26:11):
like starting to feel uncomfortable because he's going to the
bachelorette party and a bunch of the girls are single
and like have been like really floating with him part
even though you know they know that he has a girlfriend.
So like, do I ask him not to go on
the bachelorette party because I don't want to be like controlling,
But I'm also like really uncomforty with him going on
(26:32):
those trips.
Speaker 5 (26:34):
Interesting. Yeah, I've got.
Speaker 3 (26:35):
A best friend that's a woman who's married. But I
could see, you know, in another life earlier, I could
see her inviting me maybe to something like that. But
I also could see how that might not feel well,
since you are with him that he's going to be there.
Speaker 5 (26:51):
But if you trust him, what's the big deal?
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Well, right, exactly, I mean you know what I mean,
I almost trust him, doesn't trust the other women.
Speaker 5 (27:01):
Well, if you trust him, then it's fine.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
You need two parties to tango. So if you trust him,
and it's his good friend. Do you want to block it?
Speaker 5 (27:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, I mean I didn't get this is what she
has to roll the dice and just go with it
and hope that it all works out.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
Roll the dice. She trusts a boyfriend because she.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Doesn't sounds like it's not about trust.
Speaker 7 (27:24):
It's like it's about maybe you want.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
You want him to make the choice of not going,
but she doesn't want to tell him that.
Speaker 5 (27:30):
But why would he say so if he doesn't go?
Speaker 3 (27:32):
What's he's saying, like, I'm gonna I don't want to
go because I want you uncomfortable.
Speaker 6 (27:36):
If this situation makes you uncomfortable, making you comfortable, well,
that's a good.
Speaker 5 (27:40):
Way to say it.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
That's a good way to say it. Can you get
him to say that?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Can we get him to say that?
Speaker 3 (27:46):
Can we get him to say that to you? And
then you can say what you honestly think.
Speaker 12 (27:51):
That's just a really good point.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Yeah, get him, get him to get those words out
of his mouth, and then you say, you know what,
thank you for thoughtfully bringing that up. And since you
did bring that up, yeah I'm uncomfortable.
Speaker 12 (28:07):
That's a really good point. Yeah. Yeah, pushing him into it.
Speaker 15 (28:11):
Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 5 (28:12):
I mean that's it's a relationship. That's what we do.
Speaker 4 (28:14):
Maybe turn the tables to make think about it. If
it were you.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Yeah, I that's a good one too. All right, Well,
good advice, good advice this morning. Would you want Michael
to do that? Would you be okay with it?
Speaker 4 (28:26):
That's so something that would never happen at this.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Pointy Robbie back in the day, what about Robbie.
Speaker 6 (28:32):
Yeah, if Robbie said some girl was coming on his
bachelor party, I'd be like.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
No, but it's he's going He's going on bast party.
Speaker 7 (28:42):
So like twelve girl even weirder.
Speaker 5 (28:45):
That's what she was. That's what she was talking about
for her boyfriend.
Speaker 7 (28:47):
I know, I'm with her. I would think it was
a little odd.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
I don't love it depends on how young they are.
You know, in your twenties you do crazier stuff.
Speaker 5 (28:56):
Well, let's see what happens.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
Keep us close to Rachel Sarah, good morning, and thank
you keep for having on kids FM. So I just
want to jump right into why you're calling your pressure
to follow your sister in law on Instagram.
Speaker 5 (29:06):
Tell us about that.
Speaker 8 (29:09):
Yeah, she she called me out at a family dinner.
It was like the most awkward thing ever. I haven't
I've never followed her on social media or anything like,
no no platforms, no acts, no Instagram. And recently we
all got together to see my brother, my sister in law,
and she called me out over dinner like, oh, so
now you'll follow me, right, And it was so awkward
(29:32):
and tense, and I just kind of like laughed it off.
But I honestly do not want to follow her on Instagram.
I do not like her. I don't want to say
like I hate her, but like, I really do not
like her, and I don't want to see any of
her stuff on social media.
Speaker 5 (29:47):
So why don't you like your sister in law? What's up?
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (29:52):
I know, well he listen. None of my family likes her,
so it's not like I'm the odd man out of
the black sheep. We just feel like she doesn't contribute
to like my brother's partnership. They have a couple of kids,
and she really doesn't pull her weight in the family.
My brother's always like running around bringing the kids to everything,
and we just from my perspective, I think she doesn't,
(30:15):
you know, support my brother, and it just really irritates me,
So I don't want to see her, you know, getting
her nails done while my brother is like running around
with the kids on social media.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Oh wow, Well this sounds like a bigger issue than Instagram.
The fact that your family doesn't like who he's married to.
Forget Instagram, that's the problem, and what do you do
about that as a family? I know, how could your
brother not see it? And have you guys talked to
him about it?
Speaker 8 (30:46):
We tried to have a conversation with him, you know,
before they got married, and he is just he's so
in love with her, which is really admirable. I'm happy
that he's in love, but he's so blinded by all
of this and he doesn't see that he could you know.
I don't want to say do better, but that he
needs support in his life. And so it's just your right.
(31:09):
Instagram is the tip of the iceberg. But it's the
only control I have in not following her.
Speaker 3 (31:13):
You know, well don't because she already I know she
already senses that you guys don't vibe with her, and so.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
If she's asking you to follow her that it's almost
not a cry for help.
Speaker 5 (31:24):
But maybe you do it now it's going to be artific.
It's not. It's artificial.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
But I've been seen it way past that. Sarah.
Speaker 2 (31:31):
I feel as if you should try to get to
know her and see if you can actually be her friend.
Speaker 7 (31:39):
Maybe encourage her to help out more.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Yeah, and then maybe things will change with the way
she treats her brother and the way the family views her.
If you're the olive branch that kind of welcomes her in.
I know, you got to be the bigger person here.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
All right, Well, good luck Sarah with that, and thank
you very much for listening to us. It's one of
two point seven kiss FM. That's a tough one. But
why is the family not like the wife of their
brother son? Yeah, well that's the big issue now, Tania,
what's the advice you need?
Speaker 6 (32:12):
So I was thinking that you could help me because
I feel like this is your wheelhouse. So Robbie and
I are on a little bit of a survivor detox.
We're only allowing ourselves to watch one season at a time.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Well, really starting to become a problem.
Speaker 5 (32:27):
Huh. Great self discipline.
Speaker 7 (32:28):
Yeah, thank you so much. It feels good. It feels good.
Speaker 6 (32:31):
But in the interim we're trying to read more, and
so I love self help books. You won't find a
self help book that I don't love. So we started
reading this book. It's called the Magic of Thinking Big,
and it's kind of like one of those books like
here five tips to you know what I mean, Like
it gives you these practical, little, bite sized things. And
Robbie's not so into that type of self help book.
(32:53):
He was like, maybe there's a way that we can
be inspired and motivated by somebody's story by reading somebody's biography,
like reading actual people's life stories. And so I thought
maybe you had some that you could recommend that are
a little aspirational inspirational.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
You know what's interesting is that I like bite size
books for me.
Speaker 11 (33:15):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (33:15):
For example, I'm gonna pull up what's right here on
my desk. Look at this.
Speaker 7 (33:19):
That's not cute self care.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
It's the size of a wallet book. Yeah, and it's called, uh,
the Little Book of Self Care, And inside it's got
like one thing on a page.
Speaker 5 (33:30):
Oh you did for that? You don't seem so excited.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
I'm kind of with Robbie, though, I kind of like,
I'm I like both Tanya, I can do a whole
self care book bite size, maybe like what Ryan's showing you.
But then I also want to read the Barber streisand
on audible where it's like sixty hours.
Speaker 5 (33:45):
On there reading.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
Okay, what do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (33:48):
You know my friend, my friend Lisa said that to
me other day. She goes, I read all the time
while I cook. I'm like, how do you read and cook?
Speaker 5 (33:54):
Honestly? Yeah, but that's not reading.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
If Barbara Streisan is doing the narrative, I will listen
to her for sixty hours. I but don't you feel
like that'll be inspirational, like hearing that's her story.
Speaker 6 (34:06):
It's like Chris Jenner wrote a book like I'd want
to hear about the thirty and doing the treadmill and
how she does her emails and how she is.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
I start, but I don't finish a lot of things. Well,
series books, binge, watching all of that stuff. I mean,
I'm reading a book about Winston Churchill if that's interesting
to him.
Speaker 6 (34:22):
But is that is it like aspirational motivationalspiration history?
Speaker 5 (34:26):
It could be I don't know, it's history.
Speaker 7 (34:28):
Yeah, it sounds snoozy.
Speaker 5 (34:30):
Well, then don't ask.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
Like my little wallet size, I do like about that
fit in your pocket that is cute.
Speaker 4 (34:36):
Let me, let me, is this where you get your
mindful mood?
Speaker 7 (34:39):
Yes, it's one of the places.
Speaker 3 (34:41):
It's one of the places. Let me shove it up
to random page. Right, Okay, here we go, today's page
one O five. I just opened it up from a
little book that could give your skin a treat. The
silk dress, it's always lurking, unworn at the back of
the wardrobe. Bring it out and wear it. Yes, appreciate
how the fabric feels against your skin. Revel in the
sense of luxury that fine fabrics bring to your body.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
Now is that relatable to you, Ryan, No, so I
would have turned to the next next page.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
Treat yourself if time and finances allow, enjoying a massage
probably the finest way to hit your self care. High
Oiled hands, pubbling taught muscles are soothing. They really wrote that,
oiled oiled hands, bubbling muscles.
Speaker 5 (35:28):
Oh, it's powerful.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
So you know it's so graphic, though, But when you
really think about massages.
Speaker 4 (35:34):
They're so weird.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
Strange massage in your naked body, and it is strange.
Speaker 5 (35:42):
It's strange. And they always say you don't have to
wear anything.
Speaker 7 (35:45):
I know, I never do.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I don't either, but it's like, when what world is
it okay for that to happen?
Speaker 3 (35:50):
I mean the way that they or a GOMMI hammock
that sheet around you is like a whole sign.
Speaker 5 (35:54):
I know, Mike.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
When I got a couple of massages the other day
for our anniversary, and it was just like again weird.
Speaker 5 (35:59):
I was worried.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
When she'll say, do you want me to stretch you,
I'm like, yeah, all of a sudden, my legs are
up in the air. I don't know what else is happening.
Good morning, Elijah, how are you?
Speaker 15 (36:14):
Good morning?
Speaker 13 (36:15):
How you doing?
Speaker 5 (36:16):
What's going on?
Speaker 11 (36:16):
Buddy?
Speaker 5 (36:17):
I can I help you?
Speaker 15 (36:19):
Yeah? So my girlfriend made a vision board and it's
kind of freaking me out.
Speaker 2 (36:26):
I'd run fast, excuse and why wait a minute?
Speaker 15 (36:32):
So well, look, I don't even think I was supposed
to see it in the first place. She and her
friends got together and did it right after the New Year.
But I was looking for a post it in a
drawer and I found it and it had like a
bride and there was like this enormous diamond engagement.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
Range, all normal things that women usually put on their
vision boards.
Speaker 15 (36:55):
Right, like an expensive car and these island vacations like.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
I mean, the vision board is aspirational too, right, It's
supposed to be just that, you know, maybe beyond what
your goals are. But it's a nice thing to aspire
to be.
Speaker 4 (37:10):
What's the issue?
Speaker 15 (37:11):
Yeah, I mean you.
Speaker 5 (37:12):
Don't want to get married? Is that the deal?
Speaker 15 (37:14):
Here's the thing, here's the thing. I get all that,
But we've only been dating for only five months.
Speaker 6 (37:20):
Well, bro, just because she has this vision board doesn't
mean it's you, you know what.
Speaker 15 (37:27):
I mean, Like, it's a vision board for this year,
and I'm not that rich or anything, like, I don't
make that much money.
Speaker 5 (37:36):
But what were you?
Speaker 3 (37:37):
I guess what we're hearing you say is that you're
feeling some pressure because of her vision board, and that
pressure has to do with the future of your commitment
to and with her.
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Yeah, is that what I'm hearing that?
Speaker 15 (37:49):
And the finances? I mean, look, am I line of
work I'm telling to be an EMC people like me
don't usually get rich.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Maybe you should make a vision board and then you'll
be rich.
Speaker 11 (37:59):
You know what?
Speaker 6 (38:00):
It doesn't right, No, but I think also too, like
maybe that's worth a discussion that you can have with her,
because if you know, if she has like these fancy
cars and these fancy vacations, maybe there.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
Is is that important to her, right, Maybe that's a
good jumping off point to have a real conversation Elijah
about who you guys are.
Speaker 5 (38:19):
It's a great idea, Tonya.
Speaker 4 (38:20):
And it might not be that big of a deal.
Speaker 2 (38:22):
She might be like, oh, this is just the stuff
that I just cut out of magazine, like it's vacation.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
It's just like I mean, it's like the screensaver on
your phone actually, like you're going to live on that beach,
but you like to look at it exactly. I use
this as a point to talk about what you're really
thinking and feeling here in your relationship at all.
Speaker 4 (38:39):
I think you should be. It's beautiful that she wants
to harry you.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
It's a healthy exercise to to do a vision board.
Tanya does it here all the time in life.
Speaker 6 (38:46):
I used to put rings and brides since twenty fifteen
on my vision board.
Speaker 5 (38:50):
Yeah, it took a little while, but she got there.
I got there.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Thank you and good luck with the mt BRO. Thanks
for saving lives.
Speaker 15 (38:58):
Oh absolutely yeah, thank you guys for hearing me out
and give me some advice.
Speaker 5 (39:02):
I needed to hear that call anytime.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
It is interesting that like, okay, where he thought her
putting those things up is just bad news. Actually it's
great news because he can now have a conversation about
who they really are, like who he is or who
he's looking for, or what and what she really wants
or means by all that.
Speaker 4 (39:19):
Yes, and maybe it's just like she wants it.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
Eventually she just doesn't. You know, it doesn't need to
happen this year.
Speaker 6 (39:25):
But I probably scared off so many men because I
would keep my vision board in like on my bathroom window,
or i'd keep it in the kitchen, so I thought
every morning I was making my coffee.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
So when they'd come over to your house, it would
just be out yep with bridle ring.
Speaker 6 (39:39):
And bridled and uh song lyrics.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
I mean, we could have helped move the vision board
and this would happen.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
On air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
I got Rebecca on the line, So Rebecca, everybody listening
on this, Rebecca's calling. She says, Uh, you told your
sister in law that you're pregnant, and now what happened?
Speaker 8 (40:04):
Oh, it went real bad, Ryan, real real bad. So
I need I need some advice because I don't know
what to do about this.
Speaker 3 (40:12):
So you you shared the good news in the spirits
of celebration, and how could it go bad?
Speaker 1 (40:19):
I know.
Speaker 8 (40:20):
So my sister in law and my brother in law's
both my husband's brother and his wife. They've been experiencing
infertility for years, which the whole family has just been
so there every step of the way with them on
the journey. So I know how hard this has been
for them. And you know, when we got pregnant, we
were of course ecstatic, but we wanted to handle the
(40:41):
news really carefully, so we took them out to dinner.
You know, at the end of the dinner, we told
them the good news, and my sister in law stood
up and just told us we were selfish. How could
we do this to her? She can't believe it, she
can't even look at us, and basically stormed away.
Speaker 5 (41:01):
Do this to her?
Speaker 3 (41:02):
I mean, you're creating the greatest gift in right, I mean,
it's the most beautiful thing, and selfishly she's acting like that.
What's at the root of that, there's what's deep down
inside there.
Speaker 2 (41:13):
It's the fact that she's been struggling with her own
struggles of trying to get pregnant. It's not it's not
right that she reacted this way, but it is. It's
it's all right, So.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
Then we should give her. Then let's understand that, right.
Like I guess, Sisney, you could speak to this more
than anybody. Put yourself in her shoes.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
Yeah, I've having to go through that, and I can't
imagine like the years and years and years that they
have been struggling. But what are you supposed to do,
pause your life and not be able to live your life.
You've got to give her some time. I think that
eventually she's going to come around. The way she reacted
was not the right way, but I don't think that
(41:51):
it's something to shut her out for.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
So give her time.
Speaker 2 (41:56):
Maybe reach out again and say you want to have
some lunch, or let's talk.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
Let's I think it's talk in a very what's what's
the right word? Sort of in a very open and
generous way, invite the dialogue with warmth, right for both
of you, and I just think that's the way to
do it.
Speaker 2 (42:19):
And eventually she's hopefully she's the one that actually reaches
out to you, because she's the one that needs to
probably apologize.
Speaker 8 (42:28):
Right, And I love her and I think everything you're saying,
I really wanted you. But she won't even look at
me at family events. So I'm trying to take her.
Speaker 3 (42:38):
But you got to think you got to get to
this conversation a very just like a very compassionate conversation
with the two of you, to create the dialogue, to
break the ice, to get to a new place, because
I think you can get there.
Speaker 6 (42:49):
It's also not about you, like she is just in it,
in it, in it with herself, and she's projecting these
you know, like this is a crazy hard thing. So
she's probably deeply depressed and going through stuff that you
have no idea and you can't even relate to.
Speaker 5 (43:05):
And so I think can't fix it either.
Speaker 7 (43:08):
Right, I think just give her a little bit of
grace and sometime.
Speaker 8 (43:13):
Absolutely I think we'll see you know, we'll try and
meet up for launch. I think that's a great idea.
And just like you said, I we're all cards on
the table and just listen.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Sounds like yeah, with warmth and love, good luck. Thank
you for calling and sharing that with us, and congratulations
to you.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 5 (43:32):
It's a great point, Tony.
Speaker 3 (43:33):
You know, when people respond in ways like that, it's
what they're dealing with, and she's just not conveying it
in a helpful way, a productive way.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
Right right on air on Air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3 (43:48):
All right, this is one question I've always wondered, Sisnytani.
What's the most common thing you find yourself zoning out
and staring at.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
A high speed car chase?
Speaker 5 (44:00):
Yeah, that's crazy. How we can't stop.
Speaker 2 (44:03):
Yeah, everything gets put down and I'm just I'm in.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
I do it with my pantry. I just stare at stuff.
Speaker 7 (44:10):
Oh my, I do that all the time, and I
can't make a decision.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
Open the fridge.
Speaker 5 (44:16):
Ye, take good care.
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