FULL SHOW: The Unconventional Pet

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
I want to tell you Tanya that I did you
take your advice, And good morning to you and sicinly.

Speaker 3 (00:17):
Good morning morning. You watched Love Island UK.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
No, I bet you I know what he's going to.

Speaker 5 (00:22):
Say, good morning to the back room.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
Good morning morning.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
I've not had much of my coffee yet, so let's
tread lightly here, Okay, all of us. Okay, I didn't
time stamp last night. I was going to say you
did time stamp.

Speaker 5 (00:41):
I didn't timestamp.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
I took Tanya's advice, and that was she thought I'd
get a better night sleep if I didn't look at
my clock.

Speaker 5 (00:49):
And that's right.

Speaker 4 (00:49):
You weren't supposed to of.

Speaker 5 (00:51):
The evening and I didn't. I didn't do it last night.

Speaker 3 (00:55):
And did you have better sleep?

Speaker 5 (00:57):
I'm not sure yet because I feel a little tired.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Be honest with you, I'm telling you this works.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
But maybe it takes work, a few runs at it,
a few times at it to get it down.

Speaker 4 (01:07):
But are you feeling tired it? In general? Like, did
you need to change anything?

Speaker 6 (01:12):
No?

Speaker 5 (01:12):
I made this also maybe placebo, maybe because I changed
my routine. I think I'm more tired.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Well, I think maybe getsnic tired.

Speaker 5 (01:20):
Tanya said that.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
She thinks life changing guidance would be to get a
better night sleep if we don't look at our clocks
or our phones when we roll over the middle of
the night, so.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
You're not like counting the hours that you have till
you have to wait up?

Speaker 5 (01:33):
Who does that?

Speaker 6 (01:34):
Like?

Speaker 4 (01:34):
I never do that?

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Well, Arianna Huffington writes about it in Our Sleep Book.
She says, this is something you should not check the clock,
don't do the math, don't do those calculations.

Speaker 5 (01:44):
And we all do it. I mean human nature.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
You go down, you look, you look at how many
hours you have left, You start calculating that trying to
get back asleep, and you can't, and then it's time
to get up. And it's just the way we're wired.
We do so make keep trying it. I'll let you
report back.

Speaker 5 (01:58):
But I did. I did take your advice.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Because, like I'm telling you, I wake up naturally right
before my alarm, and normally I would reach over and
look at my phone and be like, oh I still
ten minutes, But I'm not looking at my phone. I'm
still just laying there and just trying to go back
to sleep, and then my alarm was off off. My
body naturally disassed like shock.

Speaker 5 (02:17):
When your alarm goes off, it just goes Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
Yeah, I too have woken up minutes before my alarm
goes off remarkably.

Speaker 5 (02:26):
And that's something with the body too, isn't it that?

Speaker 4 (02:28):
That's well, it's just like our bodies are trained at
this point.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Well, body clock, I will say that on a regular routine,
like my body clock.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Stays the same the weekends.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
And how about when you ever say, oh, tomorrow, finally
I have one morning I can sleep in and you can't.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
No, yeah, possible, you can't.

Speaker 5 (02:44):
You can't do it. Today's June e teenth, everybody, that's right.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
June teenth, commemorating the end of slavery in the United
States after the Civil War.

Speaker 5 (02:55):
All banks, government buildings closed.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
There will be no mail today. So juneteenth, very important day,
very important to think about that. Yeah, in the back
room is.

Speaker 5 (03:11):
One of my favorite parts.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
You can't tell I'm boring them or they're just really
relaxed listening to the show.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
It's not either.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
It's doing nothing back there.

Speaker 2 (03:19):
Why No, they're busy every time and I put up
to be fair. You're right, I just throw the microphone
on and they're actually like answering phones and pulling up
computer screens and getting us preparation for something like, for example,
thank you for getting Josh on hold back room, and Josh,
thank you for thinking that.

Speaker 7 (03:37):
How are you, Josh, I'm doing okay. Thank you for
taking the call. A big fan of the show.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Thanks bro, I appreciate that. So you're can you need
some advice or guidance about your girlfriend?

Speaker 7 (03:47):
I do. Yeah, So my girlfriend just moved across the
country to live with me. We've been dating front nine months.
We went on vacation, we did a long distance thing,
we visited and honestly, I mean, I hate a strong word,
but I guess I strongly dislike the way things are
living with her right now.

Speaker 6 (04:06):
And you'd like her.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
You you now live together, and you don't like living
with her?

Speaker 7 (04:11):
Correct, Yeah, So there's some circumstances though, I mean, and
I kind of just need your advice and and and
see if you've heard of somebody having this issue before.
But it's been about three months and she's she's trently,
she's still looking for a job and doesn't have a car,
so it's just always in the house. And it's tough
because if if we had our own support groups and

(04:32):
we're in our own cities, that would be different. But
she moved out here for me, and it's just it's
no breaks. It's one hundred percent of She's always the apartment,
doesn't really clean up after herself sometimes too, which is
kind of frustrating. It's just basically we moved in together
and and since she's not working and it's never out
of the house, I'm just you can't stand kind of
we're kind of in a rough patch here.

Speaker 5 (04:51):
Yeah, it is this like a different person from who
you thought she was.

Speaker 7 (04:56):
I mean, I I wouldn't say totally different, but I
mean I didn't expect that she would live this way.
I think the job thing is really was holding us
back here, and you know, at least have a conversation
about go ahead, sorry.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Is no Is it about her not having something of
her own to go do? Or is it about her
just being around too often trying to figure out what's
at the route?

Speaker 7 (05:20):
Sure? So, I mean I do like her a lot.
I want us to work out, but I think it's
just a rough patch. I mean I think it's more.
I think things would be different if she had her own,
her own job and had stuff to do out here.

Speaker 5 (05:33):
Did she move from her place to yours?

Speaker 6 (05:37):
Correct? Yeah, she moved to the apartment now, but.

Speaker 5 (05:40):
She moved across the country.

Speaker 7 (05:42):
Correct.

Speaker 5 (05:43):
Yeah, bron you got to come have.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
A little patience. In the words of guns and roses, wow, rock.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
Up guns, and.

Speaker 5 (05:54):
I think I patients.

Speaker 7 (05:56):
Yeah, I mean it's in about three months, and but
every time I pick up the the topic, it just
kind of leads to her for bed and done.

Speaker 5 (06:02):
Her look but trying to find a job or something
to do.

Speaker 4 (06:08):
Maybe you got it's going to do some more things.
Out of the house, go for a hike, get out,
do a picnic.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
You know, maybe a picnic.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Like maybe you guys are just on top of each
other because you're not getting out of the house.

Speaker 8 (06:23):
No.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
I think what I'm just what I'm trying to feel
for both of you, is it's not fair to evaluate
this until she finds her her purpose, her navigation, her job.
Then you can make a decision. Then you can decide
if you guys were that's going to take some fair
evaluation moment. That's going to take some time he can
help her.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
He can he can help her try to get a
job and focus and talk about it and encourage her.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
A little more, just a little more time, patience.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
If again, I'm trying to be on both sides of this,
I do think you can evaluate this only when it's
fair to evaluate this.

Speaker 5 (06:59):
I notice not what you want to hear. I can
tell the job thing.

Speaker 6 (07:03):
Is one thing.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
But I think the conversation about her messiness and all
that that can be fixed right now, you know, sure,
can we can have a conversation about that, be like, hey,
we got to clean up a little bit more.

Speaker 7 (07:15):
I mean, how long is long enough to wait?

Speaker 9 (07:17):
Though?

Speaker 3 (07:18):
How long has it been?

Speaker 6 (07:19):
Well?

Speaker 4 (07:19):
How much do you love her?

Speaker 7 (07:21):
Three months? And I like her a lot?

Speaker 5 (07:23):
But well I like her a lot. Careful with that
L word, not the other one.

Speaker 7 (07:28):
And she hears that, yeah, it's three months now here so.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
You heard what we think? Good luck?

Speaker 4 (07:39):
Good luck?

Speaker 2 (07:39):
And see I can't figure outf He just isn't into it.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
He's not into it, he said, I like her a lot.

Speaker 5 (07:46):
Well, bro, if you love her, just wait and let's
evaluate in a minute.

Speaker 4 (07:50):
He's having what is it? Buyers are more at this.

Speaker 5 (07:52):
Point sounds like he was. He was not happy with
our guidance.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
You like, get rid of her.

Speaker 5 (07:59):
Yeah, he was looking for one of us to say, bro, yeah,
you're right. Sorry, An, let's have a picnic anyway. That
sounds nice.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
So I think we need a family meeting. We have
a family meeting. Everyone, come on in, Come on in,
times Mark, why not back room?

Speaker 5 (08:23):
Might as well have your headphones on for this. Does
anybody have an unconventional pet here? Oh?

Speaker 4 (08:32):
I used to when I was a kid.

Speaker 5 (08:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (08:37):
Oh, I had spider monkeys.

Speaker 5 (08:40):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (08:41):
Yeah, I had a lot of pets as kids.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Has has a documentary on Netflix, and I saw he
has mini ponies, many ponies in the house.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
I want any pony? Do you? Or do you want
a bird?

Speaker 2 (08:59):
Not the poop part, but yeah, because the whole buzz
around the station is that you're in the market for
a bird.

Speaker 5 (09:04):
I do are the parrots getting to you?

Speaker 4 (09:06):
I mean intrigued. I'm intrigued by the birds.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
And parrots have gotten your attention and now you're thinking
about getting your own?

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Why not at this point? Like I feel like they're
self contained. They're in a cage, they're putty to look at.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
They sing, sound that will be the sound of your
morning and evening. Yeah, they have forty five of them.

Speaker 5 (09:31):
They might hate, they might have a little.

Speaker 1 (09:35):
When I was a kid, we had monkeys, We had
a bird. We had guinea pigs, we had bunnies, we
had cats, dogs, We had a bunch of animals growing up.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
The thing for me with a bird, though, is like
when you have an animal, they get you get love
from them, you know, like you get to cuddle them,
and like.

Speaker 4 (09:54):
You can do them with a bird.

Speaker 5 (09:56):
Can I think that? Like I think that it's a
nice dog too.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
I think it's a nice birthday gimmick, like a birthday
party gimmick.

Speaker 5 (10:04):
But I'm not so sure living with a bird.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
Birthday party gimmick, like having a bird at your birthday,
having a bird at your birthday party.

Speaker 5 (10:12):
That's fun. Yeah, that's all funny games.

Speaker 6 (10:15):
Now.

Speaker 5 (10:15):
I will tell you this. Parents do like to be touched,
so they are they They will cuddle, Yeah, they will
cut away you take them on and but I don't know.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
There's something about a parrot that makes me feel like
the fun will wear off fast.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
Maybe maybe not. And then you can teach parent words
and speak back to you.

Speaker 5 (10:36):
Micklay you had a pair of keets growing up.

Speaker 10 (10:38):
I did.

Speaker 5 (10:39):
Yeah, it's a pair of keet compared to a parrot.

Speaker 10 (10:42):
They don't talk, but they are loud still and they're smaller.
But when I was a kid, I loved one of
them because I would just play with it. It would go
on my Barbie dolls in the house, like it would
cuddle with me. It was literally my best friend growing up.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
Why would you get the ones that don't talk. It's like,
if you're gonna get one, get one that's kind, is
talked to.

Speaker 10 (10:59):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
I probably didn't want those ones.

Speaker 5 (11:02):
So you get what you get?

Speaker 8 (11:04):
Uh?

Speaker 5 (11:04):
So did you? How do you pursue this?

Speaker 4 (11:07):
I either just get it and I don't tell Michael.

Speaker 5 (11:10):
Seems like that's great for your marriage.

Speaker 3 (11:11):
That's not the best path.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
I don't think he'll sign off on this, So we
don't know about your interest. No, no, But like this
is a conversation. If I tell Michael about the bird,
he's gonna he's gonna not want it.

Speaker 5 (11:24):
I have a great idea, tell let's get it as
a gift for sin to celebrate something. Always that's always
what do you say?

Speaker 6 (11:33):
No?

Speaker 5 (11:34):
Right, Michael? I want to say no.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Ryan and Systney were so thoughtful they went to the
parrot mall and they got this parrot.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
You can't gift somebody an animal?

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Well, people do it all the time. You can and
did people do? And I will and we shall if
you really want us to.

Speaker 5 (11:50):
What would a person name be? You're great with names,
you know.

Speaker 4 (11:53):
I'm not on that path yet. I would have to
be something cool though.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
And then how often you do like feed this bird
and change?

Speaker 4 (12:00):
I have seeds in there, don't you.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
I had gerbils and that was it, gold fish and gerbils.

Speaker 5 (12:06):
Goldfish and gerbils.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
So I had kind of unconventional but those were like
you know, pets you have when you're young and your
mom doesn't want to deal with anything.

Speaker 5 (12:16):
Yeah, but a parrot, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
There's a parrot store in North Hollywood, though, guys on
Riverside Drive, we could check it out.

Speaker 5 (12:23):
It's called the Perfect Parrot.

Speaker 6 (12:24):
Cool.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
What is the most unconventional pet? And you're listening right now,
most unconventional pet you've ever had that maybe surprised you
to be a great pet, or maybe maybe one that
maybe one that went the other direction.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
Hamsters are pretty cute. We had a hamster when we
were love.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
They remind me of.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
Rodents. Dmitri had a goat. I mean he's in the running.
Didn't know him well enough to get the milk though
back then I wanted the milk and the cheese, right,
He didn't like send that over for the holidays. What
is the most unconventional pet that you had got that
was like a total great idea and then what turned on?

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you are a server or somebody you know.

Speaker 5 (13:20):
Is the research I read says you'll get better tips
if you wear this when working as a server in
a restaurant or a bar.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
What are your thoughts for guys? Tight stubble, tight stubble,
room stubble.

Speaker 4 (13:36):
Yeah, that's interesting, that makes sense.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
I'm wondering what that means.

Speaker 5 (13:41):
Women, it's pigtails. What are pigtails? That is weird telling
you what it says.

Speaker 4 (13:47):
It's a weird fetish, weird.

Speaker 5 (13:50):
Dark path researchers say you'll get better tips if you
wear pigtails.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
Are a well groomed stubble. What's a dark path? Did
you wear pigtails once?

Speaker 4 (13:59):
No, that's like you want to be served by like
a little girl.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
Yeah, I'm just telling you what the research some weird fantasy.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
Yeah. I haven't worn pigtails, I think since like eighth grade.

Speaker 4 (14:08):
I tried to rock them the other day and I
was like, this is not the look.

Speaker 5 (14:11):
What's all right?

Speaker 3 (14:14):
Well, what's the up bun?

Speaker 4 (14:17):
The topknot?

Speaker 5 (14:19):
That's cool, right, yeah.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
Not a pigtail.

Speaker 5 (14:21):
That's different different. Yeah, well well all right, then the
researcher should research it top knot.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
But the stuble tight's double. See it means I think
people find it hot.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
Well, there you have it. If you are a server,
that's what. I don't know what this like a new
report that just breaking news all of a sudden tonight. Yes,
the pigtails was Yes, I did dig a little bit
on the stubble thing, but the pigtail thing was everywhere.

Speaker 5 (14:46):
Really so strange. I agree, all right, today's quad.

Speaker 2 (14:50):
You can forgive people without letting them back in your life.
Apology accepted, access denied, oh it's good.

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Speaker 2 (15:52):
So, anyway, there's a new trend on TikTok. What's happening cisiny.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
So a lot of people are going to TikTok and
sharing their what's on their notes app?

Speaker 2 (16:04):
And sorry, the trend is just that you just open
up your notes and read it.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
Yeah, so so these are real like books I want
to read and potential dog names, times and locations. I've
cried in what I will say when I quit my
job at the yogurt store Christmas gifts for that, you know,
for my non existent boyfriend. So I thought it would
be fun if we all opened up our notes app
and read what's in our notes app.

Speaker 5 (16:30):
All right, let's play some All yeah, I'm read from
your notes music.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
Here's a nice song.

Speaker 5 (16:37):
It's not song, it's just gonna be some vibe. All right,
go ahead, you want to start.

Speaker 4 (16:42):
Who wants to go first?

Speaker 5 (16:44):
Me? Okay?

Speaker 1 (16:45):
Mine? Mine is not that exciting. But I have mine
organized into folders.

Speaker 5 (16:52):
Oh boy.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
So I have my sister in law's baby shower coming up,
so amber shower. I have my finances folder. I have
a kindergarten folder because the twins start in two months.
So all my to dos of what I have to
do for them. There's a to do for the garage.
They are my Fiji notes. I have a folder called bananas.
But that's a secret code for something else.

Speaker 5 (17:15):
Well you shouldn't tell us that. Well you know it's
a password.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
No, it's a bananas, but a secret for something else,
I think it's you. I have my kids book notes,
which is like where I write all my notes that
I think of throughout the days and weeks for them
that I then write into their journals that I write
on their birthdays.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
What else do I have in here?

Speaker 1 (17:36):
I guess hot new trend is that maxis fifth birthday party.
I guess I can delete that one single, the MYO songs,
my airline frequent.

Speaker 4 (17:46):
Flyer mile numbers.

Speaker 1 (17:49):
I have a squirrel, which is code for links that
I will buy Michael birthday gifts and things like that.

Speaker 5 (17:56):
You use your note section a lot, do you do?

Speaker 11 (17:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (18:00):
Is like very on brand. And my favorite notes page
is my I've documented the first day of my period
for the last like three years, so that note goes
really long and deep.

Speaker 4 (18:11):
Why need to put that on your calendar?

Speaker 6 (18:13):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (18:13):
I don't know, because I like to have it all
just here.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
That looks like my schedule. Yeah, so that's it looks
like three days in my schedule.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
I will have a poem that I wrote for Robbie
for one of our date nights. Would you like to
hear it?

Speaker 5 (18:29):
Nothing would make my heart warm?

Speaker 3 (18:30):
Okay, our next stop tonight is right?

Speaker 7 (18:33):
Is right?

Speaker 3 (18:33):
Down the street. You are in for a treat. Equality
I love about you is you really are very funny.
But tonight you'll sit back and watch a random dummy.
They say laughter is medicine, and I think we could
use a good one, So let's go to the laugh factory.
Then we are done.

Speaker 5 (18:49):
Are going to give it to him? Or have you? Y?

Speaker 3 (18:51):
I already did. It was for like a date night
that I planned for us.

Speaker 5 (18:54):
All right, so we're reading for my notes, big trend
on TikTok, and.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
Then I have like follicular and ovulatory phases and what
I can eat and work out in each face.

Speaker 5 (19:01):
So you're you're very practical with yours.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
Yeah, all right, let's see what we got here. Just
caesar salad, the wooden the wooden palette makes the trolley.

Speaker 5 (19:12):
I was at a restaurant.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
I saw them do a table side caesar salad with
a trolley, and I thought, wouldn't that be fun?

Speaker 5 (19:18):
The family have a little caesar salad. Let's see what
else we've got here. A lot of a lot of
notes that just don't make any sense, but that's well
read them.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
That's very olive.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
Oil benefits are in there. Food companies are in there.
Oh do you want to try podcast ideas? We Oh, okay, okay,
I nope, no, no goos have one by Now let's
see what else? Oak and steel just says oak and steel.
Don't know why oak and steel very confusing?

Speaker 5 (19:53):
What else?

Speaker 2 (19:53):
This is us doing the new trend, which is reading
for food candle ideas good.

Speaker 5 (19:59):
Candles other way.

Speaker 2 (20:00):
I don't know if there are candles that you can
eat or candles that smell food. Maybe there's that George's paperwork.

Speaker 5 (20:07):
Oh, I have found.

Speaker 1 (20:08):
Paperwork for Dakota Gypsy too, food show ideas, packing notes.

Speaker 3 (20:15):
I have a share those.

Speaker 5 (20:17):
It says, says charge speaker and devices.

Speaker 4 (20:20):
That's your only packing list.

Speaker 5 (20:23):
Future.

Speaker 4 (20:24):
That's funny.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
Oh wow, Future plans.

Speaker 5 (20:27):
Just says Future. Then there's one says fish. Oh my god,
I caught Alaskan sockeye salmon.

Speaker 4 (20:32):
I found one that has all my piercings.

Speaker 5 (20:35):
Your piercing my left ear.

Speaker 1 (20:36):
My left ear is one lower lobe, two upper loads,
and of my rook and then my right ear is
my one lower lobe and one upper lobe.

Speaker 5 (20:45):
But you don't know where you're piercing.

Speaker 2 (20:46):
Are to give it? I need a note to direct traffic.

Speaker 4 (20:50):
I had to tell somebody.

Speaker 2 (20:52):
And then finally, I don't know what does this mean?
Birthday chain, smokers, killers.

Speaker 3 (20:59):
It's for you needed it, if you wanted to get
a birthday gift for the chance, the.

Speaker 5 (21:03):
Chamkers and the killers.

Speaker 2 (21:05):
Oh my god, I don't know how long that trend's
gonna last.

Speaker 5 (21:08):
So Brad Ryan and Joy Ryan are on the line.
It's a very sweet story.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
And I think everybody around here close to their grandmothers,
whether they're with us or no. Definitely for me, I
was with my Nannis, But I guess in twenty sixteen,
four years ago, Brad and his ninety three year old
grandma Joy, they went out on this journey to visit
sixty three all sixty three national parks, and last month

(21:35):
they did it.

Speaker 5 (21:36):
They completed it. They arrived at the National Park of
American Samoa.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
And they did this after Brad's grandmother told him she
regretted in life.

Speaker 5 (21:47):
How few trips she'd ever taken.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
And he said, I want to get rid of that
regret and I'm gonna help you out. And so Brad
and his grandma Joy joining us right now.

Speaker 7 (21:57):
Good morning, Good morning.

Speaker 5 (22:01):
Well how was the trip, Joy?

Speaker 8 (22:04):
Oh, the trip was wonderful and complain about a thing.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Do you feel now, like, Brad, taking out to all
these different parks has made you feel like you travel
a little bit.

Speaker 8 (22:17):
Oh, yeah, it's been. It's been really great, it really has.
We've seen so many wonderful sights and wonderful people that
makes you peppy.

Speaker 5 (22:27):
Hey, Brad, we think this is such a cool idea.

Speaker 12 (22:31):
Hey, I think everybody should take their grandma out. Hopefully
we're starting a new trend.

Speaker 5 (22:36):
Yeah, how'd you end up pulling this off?

Speaker 12 (22:39):
You know, honestly, it couldn't have happened without Grandma Joy's
spirit being what it is. I mean, really, you have
to have a willing spirit in life. You have to
be willing to say yes when opportunities present themselves. And luckily,
when I opened by passenger door, she was gained for it,
and really her whole life changed because of one simple word,
and that's yes.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
But what struck you, I mean, what really resonated with
you that you heard from your grandmother to take her
to do.

Speaker 5 (23:09):
All this well?

Speaker 12 (23:10):
She told me that she had never seen a mountain,
and that was really the start of it. Because I
had been fortunate enough to do a lot of traveling
in my life, and I hiked the Appalachian Trail in
two thousand and nine. And so when you when you
see somebody like Grandma Joy, who is so full of
potential and zes for life, even in her eighties, and
she tells you that she regrets never seeing a mountain,

(23:32):
something that so many of us take for granted, that
that was really a seed that got planted that I
couldn't I couldn't forget. And so it took a few years.
But when the opportunity presented itself to go through that
first mountain, she was there and she climbed a mountain
with me, and I think that's why we kept writing

(23:52):
more adventures together.

Speaker 5 (23:54):
And they went to sixty three national parks.

Speaker 2 (23:55):
Grandma Joy, did you have a favorite park of all?

Speaker 8 (24:00):
I guess it was flun It's really exciting to be
tied to set the young man and hip through the trees.
Not very many people get to do that.

Speaker 2 (24:12):
Oh yeah, And would you do it all over again?

Speaker 8 (24:17):
I surely would.

Speaker 5 (24:19):
You recommend people go out and see these parks?

Speaker 9 (24:21):
Huh?

Speaker 8 (24:22):
Oh, yes, the parks are beautiful. People don't know what
they're missing. They go overseas and they have all these
wonderful things right in their backyard. That's need to wake
up and at least go to one. Anyway, they could
surely do that.

Speaker 2 (24:39):
Well, Grandma Joy, what was your impression of seeing your
first mountain?

Speaker 8 (24:44):
Oh? Great, I even conned the daggon things.

Speaker 5 (24:49):
How was the view from the top?

Speaker 8 (24:52):
Well, when I got to the top, all the college
kids was at the top, and they gave.

Speaker 7 (24:57):
Me a roaring chair.

Speaker 8 (24:58):
So I guess I did a pretty good.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
That's awesome, Brad, that's awesome. Warms are heart to hear
this story. Thank you both for coming on.

Speaker 8 (25:05):
We're read too.

Speaker 12 (25:07):
Thank you very much.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
Take care, Reddy bye bye. She's got great personality. Yes,
that's I mean that takes some energy too. She's ninety
three years old, climbing mountains, going to all those parks.
I won eight hundred and five to two. I want
to two seven into the studio anytime. It is Ryan Seacrest,
didst need Tanya, It's everybody. Let's get Monique and now

(25:29):
Hamber listened to us this morning. Monique, how are you
surviving June gloom?

Speaker 5 (25:33):
How you doing?

Speaker 4 (25:34):
Oh?

Speaker 13 (25:34):
I'm doing okay.

Speaker 9 (25:37):
I mean I've been dating this guy for like a month,
so I'm gonna guess you could say it's going pretty well.

Speaker 2 (25:43):
You've been dating a guy for a month, it's going well,
but you're calling us for some guidance.

Speaker 9 (25:48):
Yeah, well okay, So here's the thing. So it's still
kind of new and I really really like him. And
the other day I was kind of like looking around
on his Instagram, yeah, and I saw something that was
kind of weird.

Speaker 14 (26:02):
So I looked to see who he was following, and
it's just kind of he's following like dozens of just
like kind of like bikini babes, Like there's like a
lot of women that he's just you know, it's like
these girls are posting pictures of themselves, like practically naked, and.

Speaker 9 (26:23):
It's like almost everyone that he's following. I'm just like, okay,
is this kind of a red flag?

Speaker 2 (26:28):
So he was following all of these girls before you met.

Speaker 9 (26:35):
Yeah, it's like, I know it's new and everything, it
just kind of feels like a red flag, Like I
don't want to say something.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
Yeah you can't.

Speaker 5 (26:43):
Why can't you say something?

Speaker 8 (26:45):
I live?

Speaker 5 (26:48):
Yeah right now. Hey, you know, I think things are
going real well with us. I get Mayde.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
While you were single, you followed all these other people
by should we?

Speaker 3 (27:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (27:03):
Yeah, should we reapproach? Should we?

Speaker 1 (27:06):
She can't come in, She can't come in demanding him
to unfollow people on dat.

Speaker 5 (27:12):
She can just take note right now and see where
it goes.

Speaker 4 (27:14):
Wait, how long has been dating?

Speaker 5 (27:16):
A month?

Speaker 7 (27:17):
It's been a month?

Speaker 9 (27:18):
Yeah, and like he's do you see him?

Speaker 5 (27:22):
Like looking at the photos when you're around?

Speaker 1 (27:24):
What if you're like funny about it? Like hey, you
like are you like friends? Like like like, well, can't
wait to meet all your friends?

Speaker 2 (27:31):
Seems like all your friends have a similar quality.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
Yeah, Like yeah, like your friends love to go to
the feat?

Speaker 5 (27:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (27:40):
I mean I'm just confused, like who's the real hymn?
Like is he just like following these girls and or whatever?
Is like he's like perven out on Instagram?

Speaker 4 (27:48):
Like I don't know.

Speaker 2 (27:49):
I think you'd make a joke about it, Like that
might be the way to handle him. Make a joke,
but make it known that you're being serious inside that joke.

Speaker 4 (27:57):
I think. So, I mean, why is he following them?

Speaker 1 (28:00):
Does he know them?

Speaker 15 (28:01):
No?

Speaker 4 (28:02):
Then say that.

Speaker 9 (28:04):
Well, and then it's like the other thing is like
are all guys like this? And like I just need
to get over it?

Speaker 1 (28:09):
Or is that like, no, no, my husband doesn't follow.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
I think relationship, you're not supposed to follow a bunch
of other girls, like that's the deal. But you guys
are at the beginning and he was single. So I
like Sicin's tact of make the joke, but make it
unjoky enough that it's.

Speaker 4 (28:26):
Well, what if you say, like, hey, we should have
a summer barbecue?

Speaker 1 (28:28):
Should I inviuy all of your Instagram friends?

Speaker 6 (28:33):
No?

Speaker 3 (28:34):
Yeah, because because he's like, what are you talking about?
And then you're gonna be like I went through all
your followers, what would you say? I think it's too
soon to say anything.

Speaker 2 (28:45):
Well, then wait another month and see how you feel.
But I like Sisney's idea of the joke Monique good luck.
It may be a red flag, but let's just put
that flag in our pocket for the moment.

Speaker 6 (28:56):
And see, okay, good luck, thank you.

Speaker 2 (28:59):
So at what point, then Tanya does she say, hey, bro,
it's uncool to be following all these people going to
the beach every day.

Speaker 3 (29:08):
If I'm being honest, I don't think she's even gonna
have to get there. I think he's not gonna be
it for her.

Speaker 5 (29:15):
I'm glad she's not on the line.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
Maybe he doesn't even realize he's following them.

Speaker 2 (29:22):
Uh, probably he does, right, But I do, Like, I
mean you guys that I mean, aren't those pictures up
there for people to look at? Right, Like, guys do that.
But when you start seeing somebody, you got to drop it.

Speaker 12 (29:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (29:36):
And also like there's a difference if you want to
fill your Discover feed with all these bikini models and stuff, sure,
but following them is like a whole lot.

Speaker 5 (29:45):
Well, he's suppsual to be seeing somebody.

Speaker 6 (29:49):
On air with Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 5 (29:55):
Hey Rob, good morning, Rob. How are you good?

Speaker 15 (29:59):
How are you?

Speaker 5 (30:00):
I'm good.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
So it says here on the call screen, you've been
interviewing for a company, so like a job.

Speaker 15 (30:06):
Yeah. Yeah, I've been on the jump job hunt lately,
and with this one company that I'm really excited about.
I've gone through three rounds of interviews and I'm feeling
really good about it. But this morning I woke up
to an email from the last person I interviewed with,
and I'm not sure what it means. So the body

(30:27):
of the email is blank, but the subject reads Amber,
and I'm obviously not Amber, and I never interviewed with
an Amber. So I don't know whether to like really
respond or ignore it. And I'm also kind of worrying
out that they're giving this Amber person the job, and
I don't know what to do.

Speaker 2 (30:45):
Oh, a weird email from one of the people you
interviewed with.

Speaker 5 (30:52):
What's in the email?

Speaker 4 (30:53):
It is blank?

Speaker 5 (30:54):
There's nothing?

Speaker 4 (30:56):
Yeah, nothing, and that subject line has Amber in it.

Speaker 5 (30:59):
And then it was sent Yeah, there's nothing in the space.

Speaker 4 (31:02):
The potential new boss of yours.

Speaker 3 (31:05):
Yeah, I just deleteded by Yeah.

Speaker 2 (31:10):
I guess it's something you're not supposed to have and
you're just gonna have to wait. They're gonna get back
to you, obviously and let you know, right. I don't
know I would respond back.

Speaker 5 (31:17):
What do you say, accidentally sent this?

Speaker 6 (31:20):
Hey?

Speaker 5 (31:20):
Yeah, did you actually this wrong receiver?

Speaker 4 (31:23):
Or what is this?

Speaker 3 (31:24):
I'm not ember?

Speaker 15 (31:28):
Uh yeah, yeah, I see it. Like I don't want to.
I don't want to, Like, you know, with jobs, they
can pick any reason to not pick you.

Speaker 2 (31:35):
So I'm just worried, so do a polite uh reply.
I think this was misdirected.

Speaker 1 (31:41):
I think so because not saying anything already shows that
you're not attention to detail.

Speaker 5 (31:44):
Okay, you're overruled on my opinion. You're correct.

Speaker 2 (31:47):
That great, So maybe a nice like, perhaps this is
the wrong recipient, wrong recipient?

Speaker 4 (31:53):
Did you mean to send this?

Speaker 3 (31:55):
Or no, you'd be like sorry maybe never.

Speaker 5 (31:59):
No, never sorry weakness all right, So.

Speaker 3 (32:03):
That's not weakness, that's actually strength if you can admit
you too.

Speaker 5 (32:07):
We're talking about Rob's job. Guys. He's had three interviews.

Speaker 2 (32:12):
So Rob, I think you don't ask a question, you
don't say sorry, say wrong recipient, thank.

Speaker 3 (32:16):
You, thank you, thank you?

Speaker 5 (32:19):
Nice Hello, wrong recipient, thank you? Sure well, good luck?
Three interviews? Come on, you got this, Rob, get this?

Speaker 15 (32:26):
Thank you guys, so much.

Speaker 12 (32:27):
Good luck.

Speaker 3 (32:29):
Or he could use it as an opportunity to say,
so sorry, this is not Amber. My name is Rob.
Do you have a follow up from my third interview?

Speaker 2 (32:41):
Hey take out so sorry, so sorry? Hello hello, wrong recipient. No, no,
we're on something collaborate.

Speaker 4 (32:48):
I like the second part.

Speaker 5 (32:49):
Wrong recipient, This is Rob.

Speaker 3 (32:54):
Since I have you.

Speaker 5 (32:55):
No, No, I don't know Rob.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
You you need your help here, but you're looking forward
to your feedback from our interview.

Speaker 3 (33:05):
Third interview.

Speaker 5 (33:06):
Yeah, oh Rob, this is gootting here.

Speaker 4 (33:09):
You got this?

Speaker 2 (33:11):
Only takes five of us but.

Speaker 3 (33:14):
We got there.

Speaker 4 (33:15):
Uh huh, you're just you're not so sorry?

Speaker 5 (33:17):
No, no, no, Rob, good luck, brother with the job.

Speaker 7 (33:19):
Okay, all right, thank you guys so much.

Speaker 5 (33:22):
Right, thank you.

Speaker 2 (33:23):
It takes a while, right, but we sort of read
the engines and then boom. Yeah, that's that's what brainstorm
is all about.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
And speaking of brainstorming, this is something to think about
lunch today.

Speaker 4 (33:34):
What are you gonna do? Look, if you're an on
the go person.

Speaker 5 (33:37):
Like me, I get you.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
We we barely have time to eat, so grabbing something
that's delicious and quick may seem impossible.

Speaker 4 (33:43):
But not anymore. I love how convenient it.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
Is to go to Elio and you have to try
their new stuff case of the s. They come loaded
with a melty cheese, handcut avocados and the famous fire
grilled boil.

Speaker 4 (33:55):
It is delicious. Oh my gosh, I'm thinking about it now.

Speaker 1 (33:58):
Order online in the rewards app, or just get to
a location near you.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
Four back to Disneyland right now, eight hundred and five
to one to seven.

Speaker 5 (34:08):
You got a friend in me?

Speaker 4 (34:10):
You got a friend?

Speaker 5 (34:11):
You got a friend. How's it? You got a friend
in't me?

Speaker 9 (34:15):
No?

Speaker 5 (34:15):
I did in me?

Speaker 3 (34:18):
Then you gotta friend in me.

Speaker 4 (34:25):
The times and the best.

Speaker 5 (34:30):
So sad, I gotta tell you.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
I was in an uper the other day, get in
the back, talk to the gentleman driving me.

Speaker 5 (34:41):
Can't remember his name, you can probably.

Speaker 3 (34:43):
Find it in your phone. Yeah, true, No, I didn't
take too on.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
Sorry anyway, nicest guy, where'd you grow up? Koreatown?

Speaker 5 (34:55):
Suck? I love it?

Speaker 2 (34:57):
He's like, yeah, talking about LA kind of likes restaurants
and food. So we struck it up conversation in the back.
Uber says, uh yeah, puts on the radio, not on
kiss FM.

Speaker 5 (35:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
So I was like, I mean, how do you this
is an interesting thing for us, Like it's always on
kiss for me?

Speaker 5 (35:23):
I like it? Right, So I like it.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
I get in and just ask him.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
But so I did a backdoor ask. I'm like, oh,
grow up here, what did you listen to growing up?
Goes kiss, and Power said, uh, awesome, I love kiss
He goes, yes, it's great, Like you want you won't
flip it on there because yeah, so put on kiss
and that was it. I get so excited about it

(35:50):
and so proud of it. When he said I grew
up listening to kissing, like, yes, I can do on
the tippy thing at the end and tippy tip rate rate.

Speaker 3 (36:00):
I'm just proud that you know how to use Uber.

Speaker 4 (36:02):
Yes, he knows how to use Uber.

Speaker 5 (36:06):
You remember the time I got a carpool or uber
pool and I didn't know it. And I'm like, yeah,
we're y'all going car growing up.

Speaker 4 (36:16):
If my eighty year old dad can use Uber, Ryan
can use Uber, my.

Speaker 5 (36:19):
Dad's way into it. Really, Yeah, my dad loves it.
I like the conversation now.

Speaker 2 (36:26):
I have been told to be quiet, not be quiet,
but I've been told, like, I don't have to talk
as much.

Speaker 5 (36:31):
Somebody that rides with me sometimes like, you know, you
talk too much to them.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
I'm like, why is that too much? I'm in a
car that h I can see that. She's like, you know,
you don't have to.

Speaker 5 (36:41):
I like it. He's like, but I think they may not.

Speaker 4 (36:45):
All they might actually, because they're in it all day.

Speaker 5 (36:49):
I don't know. Maybe by the time I get in
they're tired of talking.

Speaker 4 (36:52):
I mean, you ask a lot of questions.

Speaker 3 (36:54):
Yeah, where the tires from?

Speaker 1 (37:00):
That was one of the funniest things you've ever said.

Speaker 5 (37:05):
So much, Where the tires coming from? That's what?

Speaker 2 (37:10):
Because she's making the fun of the way I ask
about where the fish is from when we go out
for lunch. Yeah, Ruby, we got some news here for
unique La flea markets to check out this summer.

Speaker 5 (37:19):
Break it down.

Speaker 16 (37:20):
Yes, I am obsessed with flea markets in LA and
we have so many different kinds and they're everywhere from
Pasadena to Long Beach to Santa Monica. But these are
some of my favorites that you should definitely check out
this summer. Starting off with Melrose Trading Post.

Speaker 5 (37:36):
Right there past this every Sunday on my way to idle.

Speaker 16 (37:38):
Yep, they're open nine to five pm Fairfax High School
right They're off Melrose and Fairfax. But what I love
is you can find everything from you know, old clothes,
new clothes. They have great accessories, arts and crafts, and
a lot of the stuff that they offer is like
Y two K meets La streetwear esthetic. If you feel
overwhelmed when you go there. You can also check out

(38:00):
Silver Lake Flea Market. This is kind of like a cute,
smaller version of Melrose Trading Post, but it's right there
by the Tay French Restaurant off Sunset and they also
have really great indie street wear with great prices. Jewelry,
small batch candles, vinyl records, and of course we have

(38:21):
to talk about the Rose Bowl flea market, which is huge.
I mean they have over twenty five hundred vendors, twenty
thousand buyers and browsers, so a lot of people go
here and you can kind of find a little bit
of everything. They also have food and booze. It's a
really good time.

Speaker 4 (38:37):
And that one's not every weekend though, right, No.

Speaker 5 (38:39):
That's more sporadic.

Speaker 16 (38:41):
Yeah, that's the second Sunday of the month.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
What's the best thing jeans? What's the best Thing's just
the full proof thing to get.

Speaker 16 (38:49):
Definitely denim. You could get really good quality denim at
a good price.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
I have one pair from the flea market that's that
like whitewash, really whitewash hole in the knees, but the
whole was his foot size when I got it, and
I put my foot through it so many times putting
on the pants, and now it's the size of a bucket. Yeah,
you still wearing ruin. I do wear them, but y'all
don't see those.

Speaker 5 (39:13):
Yeah. I wear around the house of my foot flops,
very comfortable.

Speaker 4 (39:17):
What had time to be alive?

Speaker 13 (39:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 16 (39:19):
You can definitely get some good five O ones, Yeah,
for sure, like.

Speaker 3 (39:22):
A good I've seen you in a ripped gene.

Speaker 5 (39:24):
Oh you didn't seen my ramone?

Speaker 4 (39:26):
He only wears it at home.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
I got I got my Ramote T shirts.

Speaker 5 (39:30):
The flea market well next anymore.

Speaker 16 (39:33):
Yeah, they have good furniture too, which I have a
friend who actually bought like everything from the Rose Bowl
flea market. Her entire apartment is just like all this
decor and furniture and it's all really unique, good quality pieces.
So that's what I love about these flea markets. And
last one that you should check out is the Black
Market flea. This is in South LA. They have over

(39:54):
ten I'm sorry, two hundred black vendors. Everything's like handmade clothing,
then goods, and they also have a DJ so there's
a lot of dancing going on it like a good time.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
Why are they called flea markets that I don't know,
well I'm looking it up. So named after those pesky
little parasites that infested the oppoulchry of old furniture brought
up for sale.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
All right, because like you buy something there might be
fleas on it.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
I think this is it's a heritage, old old old
time thing and Sandra, you know, Sandra, we do. If
you don't, well we neither do. We're just gonna meet
her right now, Woodland Hills, Sandra, good morning.

Speaker 11 (40:38):
Good morning, I'm good, thank you.

Speaker 5 (40:43):
What's the first thing you do when you wake up
in the morning.

Speaker 11 (40:47):
I get up and see the dogs and take them
peepee time?

Speaker 5 (40:52):
You call peepee time, I say potty I say potty, Georgia,
let's go potty pie. Good girl, go girls, I'm going
to dog here.

Speaker 11 (41:04):
I have chihuahuas.

Speaker 4 (41:08):
Yes, they sc little alarmed alarm dogs.

Speaker 11 (41:12):
Yeah, they wake me up.

Speaker 2 (41:14):
Sometimes I get those lost under the sheets, thoseas.

Speaker 11 (41:18):
And that too, but yeah, they usually wake up first.

Speaker 5 (41:21):
I don't have them, but if I did, I feel
like they'd be down there and then by my feet.
All right, So let's see.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
One of your friends went through your Facebook friends and
messaged all the single men.

Speaker 5 (41:31):
What happened?

Speaker 11 (41:33):
Yeah? So I started noticing that she kept commenting on
three specifically, and I thought, how does she know of him?
One of them was my ex boyfriend. The other two
were just guys that I casually dated. We're now friends.
So I started noticing that she had quite a few
and they were all single friends. So one of my
guy friends told me that she messaged him and started

(41:57):
asking him like, hey, are you single? And so I
kind of asked her about it, like how do you
know him? And she says that he messaged her, but
he sent me the screenshots. So it's three of them
so far, and it bothers me because again, one of
them's my ex boyfriend. Like, I know that if I
get a friend request from somebody and we have a

(42:17):
mutual friend, I'll ask that person like, hey, this guy
messaged me, you know with the whatever. I'm not going
to sit there and just start hitting people up and
not knowing what their situation is. Right to me, it's annoying.
I'm like, you can't do that.

Speaker 2 (42:32):
But why right this not so good of a friend
doing that?

Speaker 6 (42:38):
Why?

Speaker 15 (42:39):
Why?

Speaker 5 (42:39):
What's the real reason why?

Speaker 11 (42:43):
I think she's just desperate. She did recently become single
and she had been in a relationship for years, But
that seks thank you, That's what I said to know.

Speaker 5 (42:54):
This is backfire material.

Speaker 1 (42:56):
And you guys don't have conversations about I don't know,
like your your past relationships, Like she didn't know this
was your ex?

Speaker 11 (43:06):
No, because I don't I'm not. Yeah, they don't last
more than sixty days.

Speaker 4 (43:16):
I get a girl.

Speaker 3 (43:18):
But so I'm confused why it bothers you.

Speaker 11 (43:21):
Because like one of them was my ex boyfriend, And.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
I'm like, I wouldn't bother you if I started dating
one of your ex boyfriends.

Speaker 5 (43:28):
It depends.

Speaker 3 (43:29):
No, No, it just depends I have one of my favorites.

Speaker 5 (43:31):
Depends.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
It depends my best My best friend tried to set
me up with her ex boyfriend of years.

Speaker 6 (43:37):
No, you didn't do it.

Speaker 3 (43:39):
I didn't do because it was weird for me. But
I'm saying, she I know, but that's what I was asking.

Speaker 2 (43:45):
Sandra Shoe fits all. Let's get her into a dating app.
We Tanya found success on Hinge Highlight Hinge.

Speaker 11 (43:55):
I should try that myself because I don't have any
sucks listen.

Speaker 2 (43:59):
I'm it's also not it's not easy. It's not easy.
I don't know how long you listen to the show.
But we've all been through except for Sicity.

Speaker 3 (44:07):
But aside from her messaging your ex boyfriend, I find
nothing wrong with her going after it and just shooting
her shot.

Speaker 11 (44:15):
You don't do that. That's like a code of friendship.

Speaker 5 (44:18):
You don't see and it seems a bit.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
I think the keyword here make her feel like it's
desperate and she's going to back off.

Speaker 1 (44:24):
And it seems weird, like you're like the madam of
the holding all these single men on your Facebook account.

Speaker 5 (44:32):
Get in on that. Go go go, go go tell her,
tell her.

Speaker 4 (44:37):
I've been through it, like I dated many of men.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
Michael excited to remind us that she was single at
one point.

Speaker 3 (44:44):
Yeah, you always broke up with them. You've never been
broken up with one time, one time, but you.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
Never have to come in here with us like feeling
that way. Tanya and I have no brutal but I
did come in here. You guys didn't know my troubles.

Speaker 4 (45:01):
You didn't. I was only here for a week, filling
in for Ellen.

Speaker 5 (45:05):
How do we filling in? It was tiny hair.

Speaker 3 (45:13):
Yeah, she was in the bathroom for the whole week.

Speaker 1 (45:16):
Well she wasn't on Mike, so yeah, every day, know
the back room, bathroom, she wasn't on MIC at the time.

Speaker 5 (45:26):
Well here she is. Well good, we've all been there.

Speaker 4 (45:30):
Then, we've all been there, We've all been through Yeah.

Speaker 5 (45:33):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (45:33):
I don't like calling this woman desperate. I'm here for it. Shoot,
your shot. Just don't do the ex boyfriends.

Speaker 2 (45:37):
But no, I'm saying that as a friend. Sundra uses
that word. It's a pretty strong word, you know. I
mean like that's like the word that you make the
person change their thinking.

Speaker 4 (45:45):
It sounds like she's not very good friend, so then
why is she friends?

Speaker 8 (45:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (45:48):
Right, all right, yeah I'm not I got to move on.

Speaker 4 (45:54):
We did it.

Speaker 5 (45:55):
Hey, you know what a wedding photographer is, but what
is a the photographer?

Speaker 2 (46:01):
Ali Ciarto is a divorce photographer. She spent ten years
as a wedding photographer and decided, you know what, I'm
going to turn this whole business upside down and she's
now calling herself a divorce photographer, and it just was
It piqued my interest.

Speaker 5 (46:17):
So Ali, good morning, how are you hi?

Speaker 8 (46:20):
I'm great, how are you doing?

Speaker 5 (46:21):
Super good?

Speaker 2 (46:22):
To clarify for us, what is a divorce photographer?

Speaker 17 (46:27):
Yeah, so in my case, I kind of feel like
I just made it up. But okay, I've looked into
other types of divorce photography and there are two ways
of doing it. So one is like we're tearing down
our old life, We're burning the wedding dress, we're carrying
up the photo and that's not what I do. So
instead of tearing down the old life, I'm really focused
more on like building up the new phase of life.

(46:48):
So honoring what someone's been through and just honoring who
they are and giving them a chance to take beautiful
photos of themselves to feel good again after going through
so much. So just building confidence, getting hair and makeup
done so that they can come and feeling really good. Yeah,
and then they have these photos that you know, some
will use them for dating, dating profiles, because online dating

(47:10):
is very much to a thing that they're probably going
to turn to. Some of them will just put them
on social media and like make them their profile pictures.
And I love seeing that because they get so many
positive comments from their friends and family that it just
makes me like.

Speaker 1 (47:26):
I love them.

Speaker 2 (47:26):
That's a great So you get that there's a psychological
moment to this, and there's also the marketability of the photos, right, Yeah, I.

Speaker 17 (47:35):
Mean there's so much that they can do with the photos.
It kind of started because I was photographing brands, people
doing small business branding, and they were like women who
just happened to in my keys. It's not that it's
only for women, but Most of the people have come
to me have been women. So they came to me
they were looking to start a new phase of life.
They hired me for branding photography, like starting their business.

(47:58):
And then I realized these women in going through or
recently they've gone through divorce, Like there's some of my
favorite clients, and I thought, maybe there's something there.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
So you went from wedding wedding photography client base into
favorite client base who got divorced that you still work with.

Speaker 17 (48:17):
Yeah, so I was a wedding photographer. I started in
twenty ten as a wedding photographer and that was great
for many years. And then do you I don't know
if you remember twenty twenty, but that's not it's not
a great time to be a wedding photographer. So so
basically like half of my business just disappeared that year.

(48:39):
So people were rescheduling their weddings, they were postponed or postponing,
they were canceling. They were just like everything is going on.

Speaker 5 (48:47):
So I'd say, it's such a very entrepreneurial of you.
A divorce.

Speaker 17 (48:54):
I just had to try something new.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
Yeah, let me send people to check you out. If
you're going through a divorce or you getting married. Inevitably
half of you will go through one. So let me
give you Ali's Instagram.

Speaker 4 (49:05):
Nothing but joy from this guy today.

Speaker 5 (49:07):
I'm just trying to be a real issue.

Speaker 6 (49:09):
In the wrong.

Speaker 4 (49:11):
It's I'm sixty forty. Now let's get your stats.

Speaker 2 (49:16):
Yeah, someone get the stats on that, like, really, get
the stats all right now, Ali Ciarto. Okay, Alice, you
have to on Instagram. Alice, you have to on Instagram.
She's the divorce potographer. Maybe you don't need it today.

Speaker 4 (49:26):
Put in your pocket, Alie.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
How crazy would it be if one of your next
clients is somebody that you shot their wedding years ago
and now they're coming.

Speaker 5 (49:34):
That's what she's doing.

Speaker 4 (49:35):
No, I know that's what she's doing.

Speaker 1 (49:36):
But I'm just saying that she had the same client
for both options, Like basically that she married them, she
took their pictures, and now ten nuys later.

Speaker 5 (49:42):
That's half of her base.

Speaker 17 (49:43):
Now, But you're right if that's no, I mean, I'm
waiting for that day. Would not that be wild?

Speaker 9 (49:49):
If that happen, it would.

Speaker 5 (49:51):
Be truly real. That's what guys.

Speaker 2 (49:54):
Guys, Guys, I am not making this stuff up. Forty
one percent of all that what you found. I'm reading
it online, and everything online is true. Forty one percent
of all first marriages and in divorce, sixty percent of
second marriages, and seventy three percent of third guys.

Speaker 4 (50:12):
Goes down time.

Speaker 3 (50:13):
I'm there, Yi, work it out.

Speaker 5 (50:15):
Yeah you good for you.

Speaker 4 (50:16):
Lower.

Speaker 5 (50:17):
Oh, you're gonna be busy the rest of your life.
Thank you for coming on with us.

Speaker 7 (50:20):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 2 (50:21):
Mark, all right, you take good care. All right, Bye bye,
thank you, bye bye. I didn't know those other facts.
Those are scarier obvious. I mean, it's yeah, Oh, it's only.

Speaker 1 (50:35):
If you're ready to quit on the first one, and
chances are it's probably not gonna work again on the
second one.

Speaker 5 (50:40):
Yikes, Emily, how are you?

Speaker 13 (50:44):
I'm good. How are you?

Speaker 5 (50:45):
We're doing well.

Speaker 2 (50:46):
So you found out your co worker is freelancing for
a competing company.

Speaker 5 (50:51):
Explain what happened?

Speaker 9 (50:52):
Yikes, Oh my.

Speaker 13 (50:54):
God, it was so crazy. We were in a shared
meeting and he shared a screen them all and I
saw the competitor's website up. You know, didn't think much
of it. Maybe he's doing like a little research or something,
you know, trying to get some brownie points. But then
I did some digging and realize he's actually doing work
for them, like really similar work that we're doing. The

(51:17):
copy on the websites match. Like it's so weird and
I don't know what.

Speaker 12 (51:21):
I don't know what.

Speaker 13 (51:21):
Should I bring it to our manager. I don't want
to seem like a tattletale, but this is like I.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
Don't know, big Should you address it with your coworker
to find out what's really going on?

Speaker 4 (51:33):
I sure we're.

Speaker 13 (51:37):
Friends, Yeah, like we're friends that like not that close.
I'm not sure. Should I.

Speaker 5 (51:45):
Let me think? Let me let's see.

Speaker 2 (51:47):
So that would be like Cisini is wing for another
radio station, right, it's kind of like that?

Speaker 13 (51:53):
Is that like behind your back?

Speaker 5 (51:57):
Are you no?

Speaker 4 (52:01):
And then the way it would be so obvious too?
How could I hide that?

Speaker 7 (52:06):
Well?

Speaker 5 (52:06):
I don't know. I'm not in Minneapolis to hear you.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
Oh, I guess it's like okay, like a different state. Yeah,
and I don't even like here in LA Why.

Speaker 4 (52:13):
Didn't you hear me?

Speaker 2 (52:14):
Like the loyal soldier in me feels like it's your
responsibility to not be a friend here, but to do
what's best for the business because that's your job. Would
you feel bad if someone found out you knew and
you didn't report.

Speaker 1 (52:28):
That's the thing, Like, if this came back that you knew,
then you worry and you're in trouble.

Speaker 5 (52:34):
Yeah, you are complicit. Mm hm hm. This is one
of those scenarios. It's not good any way.

Speaker 3 (52:46):
Maybe maybe you could give them an anonymous note saying, hey,
I saw you were working with bloody blah. I'm gonna
let you take care of it, and if not, I'm
going to go to HR.

Speaker 4 (53:02):
I mean sure, it sounds like a game.

Speaker 3 (53:04):
I just right, sounds a little like pretty little liars.

Speaker 6 (53:07):
I just.

Speaker 3 (53:10):
Me too.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
I think you gotta be the responsible employee here, I do.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
I'm with Ryan only. Yeah, this is why we take
these tests. And this is like one of those scenarios.

Speaker 2 (53:23):
And this is the problem with shared meetings. Also, while
well that's too you.

Speaker 4 (53:27):
See everyone's computer screen. It's his own fault.

Speaker 2 (53:30):
I mean he it's not on you, Emily, but it
would be if you kept it quiet. I think it
could be a problem. So you do what you're gonna do,
and good luck.

Speaker 1 (53:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
I just feel like the truth always comes out. Why
does she need to speed it up?

Speaker 2 (53:43):
I don't know she knows it if if it's something
that it's gonna start affecting her.

Speaker 1 (53:48):
Work now, and exactly it's now, it's in her head.
She's distracted. She can't you know, it's like, just let
it out.

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